
Ask the Guys: Question #8
06/16/08 2:24 PM

"So I'm totally in love with my new man, should I wait for him to say it first so I don't scare him off, or let him know how I feel?"
- Eloise
Bachelor #1 - This is a question about the "Talk." The Talk is when you sit and explain to each other how you feel. It's a very big step in every relationship.

Over a few drinks, a friend and I got to discussing how unfortunate it is when a girl you've formerly had a crush on begins to crush on you, but then you, for whatever reason, no longer have a crush on her, or any interest in her at all for that matter. In my case the whole thing started four years ago when I moved to Chicago and was befriended by an incredibly nice, smart and attractive girl.
A few months ago, socialite Tinsley Mortimer held a casting call for her still-yet-to-be-scheduled reality show in Boston. The show was to be called Society Girls, and in front of its cameras a handful of socialites from a across the country would compete in different challenges, from schmoozing to philanthropy and manners. The winner would be deemed the "It Girl" and along with this title she would land the personal mentorship of Tinsley, as well as some ridiculous prizes like an "internship" at Vogue and an apartment on Park Avenue. Per my boss's suggestion, I went to the casting with intentions of blogging about it for Boston magazine's website. 


