hey hey hey WOW so tyra i really conected with your show today im only 19 and weigh a little over 200 lbs it dont look it but thats what the scale says and i have bad self estem ive tryed to loose it and it comes back. ive never let my fionce see me with nothin on bc i look so descusting but he says im pretty well if theres is anything u can tell me please please let me no tyra my sex life is going down the drane.

Tyra,

I'm so sorry I missed most of this show. I would really like to have seen it since it hits so close to home. Actually, it is exactly what I'm experiencing now! I am supposed to get married to a wonderful man next month who I believe loves me, takes care of my children, our home, and so on. The problem is that after only 11 months of dating, there seemed to be a lack of interest in our sexual and intimate relationship. We live together, sleep in the same bed every night, and do not make love. I'm confused, frustrated, and I don't know what to do. I am an attractive young woman (just 31) who has never experienced this before. He's only 40 and is always tired. How can I marry him? I am in my prime. However, I do love him for all the other great things he brings to my life. I know he's a good guy, but I don't understand this.

I really understand what Jonjelyn is feeling. I have not had an orgasm in years and sex is last on my list of important things. My husband and I do have sex a few times a week but I am basically just going through the motion for him. I rarely initiate sex and we have not kissed in a very long time either. Hang in there and hopefully things will get better. I am definitely going to work on my marriage after seeing this show.

I just finished watching the show and thought as a single woman wanting to get married one day this show was very insightful. However the couple that struck me the most was Timothy and his wife. I really felt as if he wants things to work out and he really loves his wife but unfortunately I didn't feel it was two-sided. Even looking at the picture above she just looks distant...her smile doesn't look real. I was watching the show and thinking to myself that she was just putting on a front. There's more to what was said on TV and it's clear she's holding onto sometype of anger or resentment towards her husband. It's nice to see Timothy gave the update but take notice that even with all he said above they are still sexless. If that's what marriage is like then i want no part of that. Maybe she just wanted her kids and now she's satisfied and feels she doesn't need to do anything else...??

Hi tyra that was a great show. I have a friend (Lady) that is experiencing the same problem but it was the other way round cos it was her husband starving her sexually. They have sex probably once a month or two months, they only kiss when they are having sex, the husband sleeps in the kids room and sleeps in their bedroom once in a while. If she tells the hussy I love you, he does not say it back. She weighs about 250lb but it still does not stop her from trying to enjoy sex with the hussy and making the first move as usual. She missed the show today. I hope this show will air again so that she and her husband will watch it.

This show was great. I did not go to work today. I just happened to see the Tyra show. Maybe, this was gods plan. I felt as though my husband and I were on television. We have something in common with all of these couples. But, the couple that stood out the most for me were Timothy and Jonjelyn. We still have much love for one another. I texted him to watch the show. He was at work and could'nt get to see it. But, we were texting back and forth. I was telling him about the couples. We now know we are not alone. I just wanted to say thanks for this episode. It was an eye opener. I know I have to work on issues within myself. I now know there is hope.