How about offering Charish surgery to remove the extra skin? This may be what she needs to gain the confidence she needs to 'disrobe.' I don't know how I'd feel with all that extra skin either! (Plus another show idea!)

How about offering Charish surgery to remove the extra skin? This may be what she needs to gain the confidence she needs to 'disrobe.' I don't know how I'd feel with all that extra skin either! (Plus another show idea!)

How about offering Charish surgery to remove the extra skin? This may be what she needs to gain the confidence she needs to 'disrobe.' I don't know how I'd feel with all that extra skin either! (Plus another show idea!)

((Charish)) I know how you feel. I lost 60lbs. on my own. I have a tremendous amount of excess skin. It makes everything so hard, including finding a shirt with the right fit. I have thought about getting a tummy tuck but I am not sure that cosmetic surgery is the right thing to do. Costmetic surgery can be very risky. Would you risk your life for a flat stomach?

As for me, I would rather have a stomach than risk loosing my life. I love my husband and children and they will love me with or without flaws. We have to learn to love ourselves just the way we are. I think that's the message Tyra is sending to her audience.

I hope that you will find a way to heal and find happiness. You are a beautiful person. :)

I Agree with the other comments maybe offer her the surgery she needs! I've had 2 kids and have stretch marks and all that so I kinda know but I don't have a lot of extra skin. So if that is the only way to make your marriage work so you don't feel so bad. Hopefully god will help you and you will find what you need. Best of luck!! AND CHARISH YOU ARE A VERY PRETTY WOMAN

Charish you are a beautiful women but I see in your face you are very unhappy. Your husband loves you very much and if you love him do what ou have to do to love yourself and allow him to love you regardless. It will take time just like it took time for you to lose the weight just hang in there and do what you have to do.

I also would agree with those comments to go for a surgery;maybe start with a little one to see how it works. And be sure to consult with approved specialists.
Lyn

I agree-it is hard to feel attractive when you have a nasty looking stomach. I am in the same boat-my stomach is ruined from having my son. I refuse to let my husband see me naked-at least naked and standing-I feel like if I did-he would be disgusted with what he sees. I am looking into a tummy-tuck as well. People that are downing plastic surgery obviously doesn't know what it feels like to be deformed.

Tyra & anyone else who reads this.
I know the body changes with or with out kids.
God made it that way. It should be thought of as a gift, not a shameless gift.

I can relate to Charis/Greg problem. My wife's self image was so bad that she would change her clothes in the closet before going to bed or getting ready for work. Most of it had to do with the extra weight she gained. I never criticized her about it, but my acceptance of the change wasn't enough.

I feel if you have issues with your body then the main person that you should be able to share that with should be your mate. That way when you are in the process of losing the weight or the different changes are taking place you won't have anybody to really comment you on it or talk about it in the years to come. Your man really notices the change in your body if you think so or not and they can give you suggestions on what you might want help on and praise you when they see that you are becoming sexy in their eyes.

So many of us can relate to what these couples are going through. Ladies, keep trying, you won't regret it. Your hubbies adore you and it's all worth it.

Cherish is gorgeous, and I think she always was. I really hope she gets some help from a professional with her body image issues. I am very overweight at this time, and I realize that loving myself is more important than taking the 100 pounds off. I hope she can learn to see her own beauty, as her husband and many of those who watched the show see.

You have been blessed to find a man who loves you enough to ask you to marry him and really seem like he really is in love with you. I believe that you have these feelings from when you were bigger and after losing the weight you didnt have that to feel bad about so now you have jumped to something else. You are a beautiful woman and you have to believe that yourself because if you dont believe it then when your husband says it, it might make you smile outwardly but it doesnt flow inward. Love yourself so you can love your husband

Ladies, gorgeous and beautiful ones, please consider exercise before any plastic surgergy. I lost some weight, this time has educated me about my body, given me patience and happiness for all my dedication. I am in my third year of working out and my breasts are smaller and firm. Look into a good sports bra for posture and comfort.
My stomach is taking a little longer and I understand not wanting to be touched there and those thoughts are leaving me a little each and every day. I did all this for me and to challenge me. All the best.
Peace,
Grace

You know, plastic surgery is not the answer. I have 2 kids and a very flabby fat belly, and it sucks, it really does. I feel disgusting much of the time. But, I know that that issue is inside of me, and fixing the outside won't fix the inside. Why do you think people get addicted to plastic surgery? You know Charish will get her boobs done after she gets the tummy tuck. Then she'll find something wrong with her nose...God created you the way you are. Work out, try to learn to love yourself how you are. Elective surgery is vain and dangerous, how can you risk your life just for vanity? I have self-esteem issues, too, for sure, and I wish someone could wave a magic wand and fix my body, but please, try EVERYTHING before surgery. You can do it!

i try to watch your show most of the time when i have time
i miss the one with mr and mrs j on it i hope it's a rerun

Charish you are a beautiful woman and u have a loving husband!!! An not to mention you look really hot after all the weight u lost!! If i lost alot of weight i would be showing it off!! girl keep your head up!!!

Dear Charish,
I believe deep within, that there are plenty who would Love You mind, BODY, and soul...Without You having to change what GOD created.

Tyra god loves you and i like your tv show. And you are a beautiful woman
and tell me who dose your hair. I love your show so much. girl you are so crazy. But Im doing good so far

Im 8 years old

PS. I would like to be on your show someday. Love Amiracole Oyaro/Piper