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No questions unanswered, no topics untouched!

As the shocking results from Tyra's online survey about teens and sex are revealed, Tyra talks to a handful of teens and parents in a no-holds-barred discussion. These teens are ready to tell the truth -- the whole truth -- about how sexually active they really are. From sex in public to sex tapes -- no topic goes uncovered!

You Tell Us: How much would you disclose to your parents?

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hey tyra!!! i deff think that teens should be more informed that once you start haveing sex its hard to stop and its also harder to say no...i lost my verginity when i was 13 years old to my ex boyfriend and now im 15.i have had more than 10 partners since then.sometimes i feel like im addicted to sex...its deff something scary and i would like to stop but i cant.one of my dreams is to come on ur show and talk about my problem. peace and love...
Posted by krystal 11/20/09 5:34 PM
 
Hey tyra! I just want to say parents talking to their kids about sex is crucial! I lost my virginty at 15, which I can say was NOT the best choice I've made but I was also very well educated about sex, especially from my parents. I'm now expecting my first child with my fiance and I will definatly be educating my child about sex! The parents that dont are the parents that end up with children who get pregnant or have std's! Also I commend all you young girls on being virgins, save yourselves till your older than I was, and with the right person! And ALWAYS use protection!
Posted by Megan 11/20/09 2:25 PM
 
Hi Tyra! I am currently 18 years old and I lost my virginity on the night when i turned 18 . i didnt plan that at all but things just happend that way. IM pround of myself for waiting till i found a great boy that loves me. But sometimes I look back at it and feel bad about it just cuz i grow up in a christian church. all my life ive been thought that " you need to wait till your married"-if not its wrong. But ill i want to say to teen girls is that sex is a big part in a relationship,just make sure u love the person and the person loves you with all their heart.
Posted by Anonymous 11/18/09 11:10 PM
 
I watch these stories and I think of how stupid people are. Not really stupid but confused. I am 23 and I have experience alot. I am a single mother and I have two stds that are more then likely going to kill me. I wish I could help teen girls understand don't do what people want you to do. Your life is so much more important then that. And your past doesnt always go away. And that is hard to relize when your young but you can change it while your young. I thought I fell in love and my boyfriend was abusive, he always cheated and always hurt me. I ended up having his baby and after birth he ended up marrying another girl. And again after everything my life is on the line. Just I want all the girls to know do what you feel is right not whatever body else saids is right cause at the end of the day its your life and you got to live with the decision you make.
Posted by Julie 11/17/09 3:18 PM
 
Hey Tyra. I'm twelve and amazed at how young all these girls lost their virginity. o.o I haven't even had my first kiss yet! To me, that seems kind of disgusting. Anyways, I watch your show every day after school. Thanks for all the stories. I especially love when you interview people. C:
Posted by Anna 11/12/09 4:19 PM
 
Hey miss Tyra my name is Nia Vines and i am 15 years old. well i am still a virgin, and proud to be, because i dont want to be that girl that gets around. i am not sayin that a person is a H** if she did it once but i am STRONGLY for waiting till you are married because if it is before then you have worries about getting pregnant. but if its your husband then thats the person who is 4 u and then u have nothing to worry about. MAYpeace,love,and happiness BE WITH YOU nia your big fan p.s i love ANTM i am goin to be on there someday =) luv yah
Posted by Nia Vines 11/11/09 2:24 PM
 
Hey miss Tyra my name is Nia Vines and i am 15 years old. well i am still a virgin, and proud to be, because i dont want to be that girl that gets around. i am not sayin that a person is a H** if she did it nce but i am strongly for waiting till you are married because if it is before then you have worries about getting pregnant. but if its your husband then thats the person who is 4 u and then u have nothing to worry about. MAYpeace,love,and happiness BE WITH YOU nia your big fan p.s i love ANTM i am goin to be on there someday =)
Posted by Nia Vines 11/11/09 2:22 PM
 
Hi, Tyra! I’m 15 and still a virgin but really curious about sex. They have a lot of informative stuff at school, but they don’t really seem to answer my question as to what a good age would be to lose my virginity. I’m currently dating a boyfriend that I love A LOT, and have been for over a year. Although my feelings for him can be overwhelming at moments, I really feel we should wait because I don’t want to run the risk of getting pregnant, even though we would use protection. I’m really curious as to a good age for me to lose my virginity. They always say to wait until you are ready, but I honestly have no idea what it would feel like to be ready or if I already am because I have lots of thoughts about it, or what to expect when it happens. I’m worried that my boyfriend and I might have sex soon, and if the time came I wouldn’t be able to do much about it because I would also want it, so if there is perhaps a goal age I should aim for it would help a lot for me to stay under control. Another thing I’m worried about is how to tell him, but I’m sure everything would be fine once I do.
Posted by Kitty 11/11/09 10:13 AM
 
Hi Tyra, my name is Evelyn I am 12 years old. I'm very fasinated with your work on these teen isuess. Everyday after school I run home just ot watch your show. When you have those episodes about sex, I tend to feel anxious about what these girls are going to say. I am 12, and yes I do think about having sex. Have I ever tried......yes. But it's not that I don't want to it's that there is no need to. But when I think of you..I say" what would have Tyra said". I try so hard so stay a virgin and I'm only 12. I have plans in my life, like to become a paleontologist.....But I'm so presured about having sex. Now you may think "child you only 12" but that is the truth. Now you may or may not care about this comment but I would really like it if you could help me......I remember that my mom asked me this past summer if I was either having sex or was I being abused. I asked her why and she said because she had found a 2 or 3 notes under my bed that said some nasty stuff about this boy and me.....now that doesn't mean I had sex or I'm being abused...I told her.....I had to lie to her or she wouldn't get off my back about it...until this day ......well I am very sick minded. I hope you can write to me back.....P.S I used my brothers e-mail because I DONT HAVE ONE
Posted by Evelyn Slazar 11/10/09 6:47 PM
 
Hi Tyra, Im 19 years old and I am a single mother to a 3 year old boy. I got pregnant when I was 15, and had my son when I was 16. It has been HARD. Hard doesn't even begin to describe how this road has been for my son and I. My son's father left as soon as I told him I was pregnant. He pulled the whole "It's not mine" crap. And I was TERRIFIED and it took me MONTHS to accept the fact that there was a child growing inside of me. I hid it for 6 months, until one day my mom looked at me weird and asked why my stomach was so big, and she felt it and right away she knew I was pregnant. She started crying and I felt like I had disappointed her soo much. I had to drop out of school once my son was born. I tried working full-time, going to school, and raising my son. But I knew that I needed the money from working, so I quit school. His dad did nothing but make my life a living hell my whole pregnancy. He would call and threaten me, he tried convincing me to take ecstasy pills to kill the baby, he even tried having a few girls jump me so I would miscarry. I was constantly crying myself to sleep because I just was not ready to be a teen mom. Once my son was born, I filed for child support against his dad. When child support finally found him, he requested a DNA test, and since I knew that he WAS the father, I went right along with it. And he got stuck paying for the test. He STILL is not in my son's life and
Posted by Alexis 11/10/09 3:27 PM
 
i just turned 16 and im still a virgin i been messing with this boy for almost a year and we dont have sex and he doesnt care all my friends aint virgins but idc because i dont need to b like everybody eles i dont think its cute to just go have sex with people im not saying people are hoes but if u loose ur virginity at 13 thats too young gurls make themselves look nasty and most boys only want to smash i test boys to see if they try to pressure me into sex and if they do i dont need them in my life
Posted by Jazmine 11/10/09 2:28 PM
 
Hi Tyra i am now 15 years old i lost my virginity when i whas 10 years old whith my boyfriend named brandon and i do regret it but know we have twins that are 3 years old andthey are girls and i have a son that is 5 years old and guest what im pregnet again im 8 month's pregnet and its a boy and we are planing to get married next month in puerto rico. Love you tyra
Posted by jasmine 11/10/09 1:55 PM
 
Hi Tyra, My name is Jeana. I am 17 years old, and I lost my virginity at age 15 to my boyfriend of two years now. I don't regret anything that I have done with him. My mom and I have a very close relationship, and she has always mad an open mind and heart when it comes to me (her only daughter/child) My mom and I are best friends, and I told her everything that happened between him and I at the time when I lost my virginity, and I still tell her everything. I have been fortunate to have such an understanding mother and an awesome boyfriend. My mom remembers what it was like to be a teenager and we relate to each other extremely well. I don't feel that sex is wrong or immoral. I feel that it's very natural and it is much easier to know the facts about sex when you talk to your mother. Mother-daughter relationships are CRUCIAL.
Posted by Jeana 11/06/09 8:17 AM
 
Hey Tyra, I need to email you.... please =) =(
Posted by Kellie 11/03/09 6:42 PM
 
I lost my verginity at 15 to my boyfriend who id been dateing for 4 months. i dont think theres much wrong with it because we used protection and we are still together. going on three years. even if we broke up witch is unlikley im happy i gave it to him.
Posted by Tia 11/03/09 11:59 AM



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