Wll ill tell it from the other side of the tracks i was the cheater so i have that mentality to know what goes on inside a cheaters head if the person u are in a relationship with cheats on u and u forgive them it doesnt mean they will cheat again if u honestly feel they have apolagized to the fullest and did everything they can to make it up to u then u should give them another chance but here are the warning signs things are starting to go wrong in the relationship, no communication, wam bam thank u mam sex life or no sex life at all, no cuddling, no physical touch what so ever, no sign u are even a couple when u are in public, finding thing that dont belong to u that might belong to another woman, and those late night excuses of why he was late. and if he does cheat again cut his but loose because once may be forgiven but twice u are just a fool if u take the person back. But if they only cheated on u once and u want to know if u should take them back ask yourself this do i feel he is truely sorry for what he has done and can i ever trust him again without always asking him where he was or what hes been doing. like they say once u break that trust its almost impossible to get back

Well it reality i believe she should let him go because when someone cheats on their partner it breaks the bond that both partners have created. LOVE is a very hard word to define and hard to find..

in frm nairobi kenya and i had a boyfriend who cheated om me once,it wz hard to 4give him at firs after a while i did but i didnt take him bak...i jst felt i 'll never trust him again..

Hi well I been with my husband 5 years married two years I'm 20 years old we have a 2 year old.. Well he cheated on me 2 weeks ago he came on tobmy cousin in my bed while I was at work and my daughter was sleeping in the crib. I'm so hurt I just don't kno how to get past this or if I should but I do love him anyone have any advice

well i think it depends on the couple...you gotta get to the root of the problem and see why they did what they did...in my opinion if it was me it would be hard for me to forgiive him and move on with the relationship....hurting someone is horrible cheating is not something to just do at all. I feel that ppl should be grown enough to break up with a person first and save the problems...the person would be hurt about the breakup, but the question is would you rather be broken up with or cheated on...its too many dieases out there now and days i say take the breakup. but ppl do need to be man and women enough to just be real and tell the person. there shouldnt be any sneaky-ness going on..trust is trust

I've been married for nine years and i don't have any kids.My husband and i separated about a month now and before then we was separated about two months. Even though we both cheated on each other.Also during that time he end up getting someone else pregnant.We tried to make things work but i could not because it stayed in the back of my mind.It hurted me sooo bad to know that it was her instead of me knowing we've been trying to have kids by my own husband.My heart is telling me to work things out with him.We're also high school sweethearts im thinking that's probably why i can't get over him.We been through hell and back.I love him soooo much and want this thing to work out.Can you tell me if we're going to get back together or we need to just get a divorce and move on with our lives.Right now we still communicate every other day.

HELLO TYRA: LOOKING BEAUTIFUL AS EVER FROM HEAD TO TOE. I HOPE I HAVE THE RIGHT SHOW TO MAKE THIS COMMENT? I WAS WATCHING YOUR SHOW ABOUT RELATIONSHIP ON CHEATING. MY THOUGHTS. WHEN A MAN OR WOMAN CHEAT IN A RELATIONSHIP THEY HAVE BROKE THE TRUST BOND BETWEEN THEM AND THEIR MATE. THAT BOND HAVE TO BE REESTABLISH! THE MAN OR WOMAN WHO COMMIT THE OFFENCE HAVE TO TAKE THEIR GAME TO THE NEXT LEVEL. WHICH MEANS HE OR SHE HAVE TO BUILD THE TRUST BACK INTO THE RELATIONSHIP. FIRST START WORKING ON SELF, FIGURE OUT WHY SELF CAN'T BE FAITHFUL. THEN STEP UP YOUR GAME IN THE HOUSEHOLD WORK. PAY YOUR PART AND MORE ON THE BILL. REMEMBER YOU BROKE THE TRUST IN THE RELATIONSHIP. YOU HAVE TO GO BEYOND YOURSELF TO REESTABLISH THE TRUST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. BE MORE UNDERSTANDING! BECOME A GOOD LISTENER! ALWAYS PUT YOUR MATE NEED, WANT AND INTEREST BEFORE SELF. REMEMBER YOU BROKE THE TRUST IN THE RELATIONSHIP! SO YOU HAVE TO DO SOME BROWN NOISING (KISS BUTT), IT'S OKAY IF YOU LOVE THAT PERSON AND WANT THAT YOUR RELATIOSHIP HEALED. THIS IS THE KICKER! YOU WILL BE TESTED! SO DON'T GET MAD AT YOUR MATE! YOUR MATE IS LOOKING FOR YOUR RESPONE TO THE TESTED. REMEMBER YOU BROKE THE TRUST IN THE RELATIONSHIP! YOU KNOW WHEN A PERSON IS BEING UNREASONABLE. IF YOUR MATE WANT TO SEPARATE. REMEMBER YOU BROKE THE TRUST! YOU HAVE TO RESPECT YOUR MATE DECSION ON WHAT THEY WANT TO DO ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP. A MARRIAGE IS ABOUT SERVING YOUR SPOUSE! BOTH PERSON SERVING EACH OTHER! EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS FIXABLE, IF YOU THINK OF THE OTHER PERSON FIRST. WHEN JESUS IS THE HEAD IT WILL WORK. SOME PEOPLE WILL PUT UP A WALL UP. PATIENCE IS THE KEY! MUCH

This helped lots!!!

WELL I CAN SAY NOT IN ALL CASES U CAN SAY ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER BECAUSE ONE MONTH INTO MY RELATIONSHIP I CHEATED ON MY BOYFRIEND I DIDN'T KNOW HE CARED THE WAY HE DID BUT ONCE I TOLD HIM ABOUT IT HE WAS HURT BUT LET HIM KNOW I REALLY DIDN'T MEAN TO HURT HIM HE FORGAVE ME AN NOW WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER GOING ON A YEAR IN OCTOBER CAN'T SAY I HAVEN'T LOST TRUST WITH HIM BUT WE ARE MOVING PAST THAT AN I HAVEN'T CHEATED SINCE SO NO ITS NOT ALWAYS TRUE SOME PEOPLE LERN FROM THERE MISTAKES AN SOME DON'T ITS UP TO U TO AN UR PARTNER ON HOW UR GOING TO WORK THINGS OUT.

Hey! So recently i did something i regret, i hooked up with my friend's boyfriend. It was ine time only and we never told her about it. This was about 2 months ago. I recently found out they were engaged so last week, he decided she needed to know that he had cheated. I understand that she should be mad at me for going after her man but what i dont understand is that she totally forgives him and didnt even get mad at him. She wont even talk to me and thinks it is all my fault that it happened. I believe that he has lied to her about what happened, most cheaters are good liars afterall. I just wonder how many other times he has cheated..

Im 17 and Im going to be a teenage mom. I have a boyfriend and we've been dating for almost 2 years now and we were talking about getting married when we graduate then he goes off to the military and I go to school to be a nurse. Well when I found out I was pregnant I told him and we were both afraid. However. over the next two weeks I went to the doctor and I told my parents he told his and both of the families got together to talk about the baby. My boyfriend and I convinced everyone that we wanted to keep the baby. About a week later I found out that he had his ex over his house. I lost it I was so mad and hurt. When I confronted him about it he told me he only made out with her and their shirts came off. We broke up for maybe a week or two then we got back together because I still loved him and I knew he still loved me and we could work it out. It is now 2 months later and we are stronger than ever however I still have a doubt in the back of my mind that he did sleep with her and I'm afraid he's going to do it again.

My ex used the excuse that we should break up because neither of us is stable for a relationship...we both have a lot of personal problems but I'm not sure if that's really why he broke up with me. A few times during our relationship his ex came back in the picture, whether it was with crazy calls or sexy emails. And a few days after we broke up she called me and left me messages saying that he cheated on me with her the whole time. My ex denied it all and says he still cares about me and asks if i miss him...we actually txt every day and when he sees me he looks at me as if he really cares n misses me. What should I do?

im 18 yrs old..and i have 3 month with my boyfriend...he nevers like me checking his phone and alwayz at the movies "alone"...sometimes i do believe him...but theres days i dont..im soo confuse...do you think hes cheating??

i was dating this guy for three months or so, i just find out yesterday that he had a girlfriend the whole time we was together. the girl text and call to confront me about the situation.now i don't know what to do cause i really did like this guy. i want to get over him, but memories keep coming back.i haven't eat for two days now and he haven't call to tell me nothing. and i'm so sad and depressed that i can't even concentrate in my school work.

U can if u want to go thru it again.if he has a drug or alcohol prolem. and, he been clean 4 a while, u might give a trial, but luv does not conquer, take it from me that was cheated on abused and still stayed, even after I worked 12 hours and came home to found him sitting on my couch with one, or the one he brought into my wedding shower. Yep i still married him AND DIVORCEC and on and on. Someone finally hammered him to death.