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Today's show got us thinking -- do you ever truly get over a first love?

You always remember your first kiss, your first time, that first person who swept you off your feet.

Even though your relationship came to an end, is it ever possible to forget? Can you move on completely, or do you compare all future relationships to your first love?

So Tell Us: Do you ever truly get over your first?


NEXT: Did You Quit Him?


 
Do you ever get over your 1st love? I didn't get over mine. And after 31 yrs we have re united and are getting married. Throughtout my life, even my 20 yr marriage he was always there in my heart. After my divorce I thought about trying to find him, but didn't know where to look. I felt like I needed to know if the feelings I have been carrying around in my heart were real. So, a few months ago I created a myspace page and decided to look for him, and found him on my 1st search. We emailed, then began talkking for hours on the phone, and then he came to visit me. It was real! We have found each other again, and love like we never thought we would again.
 
my first love was the biggest jerk there could be!we were together for almost 2 years and we had a LOT of problems, but we always seemed to fix them and stay together.his family loved me, i even left everything behind to move in with him and his family to another state.and at the end everything came tumbling down because he cheated, more than once throghout our whole relationship.now im married with the most kind and understanding man who loves me and i still am friends with my ex.in fact we never stopped talking.we even talk of how it would be a good idea that we get back together.he doesnt know im married and my husband doesnt know i still talk to him because it has caused us some troubles in the past.my ex tells me he loves every time we talk since we broke up and that he will never stop.i cant stop talking to him and i probably never will!!!!its hard to think he wont be in my life forever!
 
I don't think you ever get over your first love. I never dated my first love due to certain cercumstances... I met him in 8th grade and was completely swept of my feet. I'm a Junior now, and to this day I still think about him on a daily basis, and have that little piece of hope that someday we can be together. I'm not sure if I just want him so badly, because there has always been something in the way, or if it's because I love him so much.. Combination of both perhaps.
 
No, you never get over the first person that you love. Dont get me wrong the first person that you love doesnt have to be ur first boyfriend or girlfriend. My true love was my third boyfriend I love him with all my heart. I still think about him and wish we were together. The reason why you dont get over it is because they thought you how to love, and for many other reasons. I love you Oscar Orellana and I always will.
 
with the most amazing night, our first fight and how instantly after we both felt so stupid and how I got so much closer to her after. I realized I never wanted to lose her and I wanted to be with her for the rest of my life. Love you forever and always babe.
 
No, I firmly believe you never get over your first love. Your first love even in imperfection was your first experience of perfection and complete satisfaction. It's been almost 5 years and not a day goes by no matter where I am or who I'm with I don't think of her. We dated only for a year, we worked through nearly every problem together and I'm more then positive I would sell my soul for us to have worked. I broke up with her because were from two very different cultures her parents would never approve and started catching on. Near the end when her family began to slowly find out about me, she would always be in depressed moods. Eventually her mother found out and threatened if she did not stop talking to me then she would do a lot more then just kick her out. I proposed running away considering I make decent money and had my head on straight but then decided it would only hurt her more to continue the relationship. We we're put in the most impossible situation and I felt so bad being the cause of so much pain to her. She really would never be the same if she ran away from her family. I've been in relationships after her, one of which was 2 years the rest a couple months time each. Some of the women we're more attractive others had better personalities but still none compared to her. I'll never forget our memories we had together. I remember the first day we met, the first day we kissed, the first time I snuck her out of her home just for a kiss, the first time we had sex together, valentines day, how she started crying after I surprised her with the
 
My first love and I broke up 9 months ago after dating for 3 1/2 years and I still am not over him. I dated someone for a month but started talking to him again and broke up with the new guy. Even after all he put me through I can't get over him. I tell myself I won't talk to him anymore but when he calls me I can't not answer, and when my phone rings I still hope it's him.
 
I believe that you can get over your first love but you will never forget what you had with that person and all the memories. I'm over my first love but i know that there will always be a small part of my heart that is still in love with him and will never forget him
 
I fell in love as a Freshman in highschool with my first boyfriend. I was so young, and never had experienced all these butterflies and nervousness. Three years later, I did something I never thought I would do, and dug myself in a hole that broke his heart. It has now been two years since I broke up with him, and I would do ANYTHING to get him back. My first love is my soul mate, and I would rewind my life and do it all again just so I wouldn't take him for granted again. No one has ever made me feel as loved, safe, and on clouds. I'm now determined to be back in his life, and maybe my dream will come true.
 
my first love seemed to last forever. Five years and now i cant seem to be comfortable with anybody else.I feel like ill never get over it and it sux cuz we talk like every couple months and everytime i hear his voice i remember all the good stuff and the bad stuff we went through together. I think we both had rough childhoods and depended on eachother as the only one who loved eachother. we left because we were forced too.I know everytime we talk he tells me were gonna get married someday and it really gets to my head because i been single for a long time not because im waiting for him but i guess subconciously i might be.nope u never get over your first love. mabe its just me
 
well i remember thinking how perfect he was and how i would never be able to live without him and how much he has taught me... i admit a part of me still keeps him close were still friends and sometimes tell eachother "i love you" but i try not to go back to him beacause he made me go through so much pain.
 
Hey tyra,I'm 17 & had my first taste of love not to long ago,he sweept me rite of my feet with his deep blue eys,& his bright gorgous smile&his laugh is my favorite song!sometimes I wish I could get over my feelings for him becuz its jst way to much pain,but I never want him out of my life.iloveyou G.D.D
 
Hey tyra,I'm 17 & had my first taste of love not to long ago,he sweept me rite of my feet with his deep blue eys,& his bright gorgous smile&his laugh is my favorite song!sometimes I wish I could get over my feelings for him becuz its jst way to much pain,but I never want him out of my life.iloveyou G.D.D
 
Hi Tyra, It's Eddie again. I don't know if one gets over their first love or not. I married mine. She was my first everything. She is my only everything. She will be my last everything. 20 years together December 1, 2009. 14 years married September 23, 2009. Infinity together after armageddon.
 
I dont think you can because it is the first person you ever loved and you will always rememeber them and always have some feelng for them no matter how big that feeling is. many people dont go on to marry there first love but to me it is the most special love!



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