Are you clueless when it comes to dating?

Dating is a game. You gotta be willing to play the game if you ever want to score.

We met up with relationship expert Whitney Casey, author of "The Man Plan: Drive Men Wild -- Not Away," to get more tips on how to attract a man.

How many accessories are overkill? Is that a fierce bag or just too much baggage? What's better: a little cleavage or some old fashioned neck?

Whitney Casey doesn't parse words. Find out how you can snag a man and keep him too!


NEXT: Steve Harvey


 
Hi Tyra, my name is roxanne,i am from Trinidad and i am your biggest fan. your t.v. show has always had a big impact on my life especially the episode about tenage pregnancy. however, i already have a child and i am adjusting to my 'new' life. my boyfriend and i are still together which is very suprising because guys these days leave you as soon as they get your virginity. AND RIGHT NOW I'M AWAITING HIS PROPOSAL. Tyra i'd like to encourage you to keep up the great work with your show and always remember that somewhere someone is watching your show and it is inspiring them somehow.
 
I had a great laugh watching Steve and Tyra's other guests. I love Steve's emphasis on setting standards and having a probation period. I think many women and a lot of young girls forget that a good man will jump through hoops for you if he really cares about you. I also agree that a woman should make an effort to look good. However, I think what men find attractive vary and what would work well on one women may not work for another. What should've also been emphasised are putting your best face forward and showing that you take care of yourself. By that I mean you don't have to cover yourself with make up and wear the trendiest outfits, but just look presentable and show the "you" you want others to see. Looks are not the be all and end all when it comes to getting a man. The best advice I can offer women looking for a man or a certain kind of man is to hang out in the places the kind of man you want would be. For instance, if you want a man that likes to give back to the community then volunteer. Also try new things and activities. It will increase your chances of meeting people you otherwise wouldn't have met. After watching the show, the only question I have is how do women with physical disabilities attract the right man or help men see past their physical short commings? I was recently diagnosed with a rare form of arthritis which makes my skin blotchy, shinny, and tight. It also makes difficult it to walk (amongst other things)without a limp. Ever since then I haven't had much luck with men at all. Any advice?
 
wow!i just love your shows tyra not forgetting your taste of outfit.keep it up.
 
I have been watching your show for sometimes and I notice that your group is mostly people under 30 years of age.I would like to see you have a show about people in there 50s and 60s.
 
your attacc ??? this is your problem iam going to my way !!! that woman going to our life ?? we diolog & communications one or one half ago finishing !!! dont ATTACE YOUR ATTAHC FOLLOWİNG MY ANWERS COMİNG ...OTHERS CANHALLING ... news blogs & sites ? a lot of poeple hating to your BOSS just only your thining ???
 
This is going to be hard to understand, that there are men out there who know how to show respect towards a woman who has a child or children. To them that does not mean that you are an open road to have sex. They would rather show you respect as a woman. They got attracted to you by your physical appearance and your inter beauty and then your child or children. They may have a child or children themselves or just want to make a family. Here is another thing you women may have a hard time with, is the size of your breasts, hips, waist, legs and the butt. Men are real funny about breasts, hips, legs, waist and the butt. Men like all different sizes and shapes of all five above. Some men like small breasts and some men like real large breasts and all the sizes in between small and real large breasts. The same goe with the butt and the waist too. As for myself, I look at the inter beauty first and then their outer physical appearance. I do have a lot of respect towards women who have a child or children and sex does not come across my mind when I met one with a child or children. I am more interested in knowing the person first and then her child or children. Sex is at the bottom of the pile when I am in a relationship with any woman with a child or children or with out any children. What is important to me is for each other to get to know each other first and add sex in the relationship or waite to have sex after we get married.
 
These are my personal tips for women to snag a man. Showing too much cleavage can be a turn off to some men. Men love to use their imagination when it comes to breasts, legs and butt. If you are going to show some cleavage, do it in a classy way like Whitney Casey. Too much make-up. Do not over dress for the date or trying to snag a man when you are out. Keep things sysmple on the date when you dress. When a girl is dressed too hot, that means one thing to a man. That you want sex! Do not set your standards too high in what you want for a man, because there are men out there who have to live on a budget and do their best to dress nice with-in their budget allows. ( This can go for men also.) Be yourself. Learn how to smile with your eyes and mouth at the same time. Let your inner beauty shine equally as your outer beauty. Do not dress like a hooker, set yourself from hookers. You will be surprised on how many men out there who are not attracted to cleavage showing, but are alright with no cleavage showing. I like some cleavage to no cleavage, but if you are showing too much cleavage with low cut bras and tops, where 3/4 of your breasts are showing and almost pop out of your bra and top with each step or move you make is not cool and it says sex and it give men the wrong idea on what you want for a man. The same goes when you wear too short shorts that show too much of your butt. If you are comfortable showing off your cleavage, do so in a classy way,
 
Tyra ROCKS SO SO SO MUCH BUT what do we do if we wanna chat wiTH TYRA!!!!!!!!!!????????? and maaaaan how do ya cope witH those HEELS when your ON STAGE???????HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
 
I had the misfortune of watching the program today where your suggestions to women basically put the women's movement back 50 years. The focus on physical appearance and being "shiny" for your man was nauseating and perpetuates the sick notion that women exist to please their partner. The few good points were outweighed by the fact that most of the show focused on superficial issues that should not be the backbone of a real, healthy, loving relationship.
 
I would love to take Whitney Casey out to dinner at a nice restaurant wherever she is! I am a very eligible bachelor, 44, never married. I am a teacher and have been for 18 years. Whitney is gorgeous and very classy! Maybe you can invite me back to the show with her after the date.
 
Can you tell me where Whitney Casey's dress is from? I LOVE it.
 
tyra wow ur shows/clothing are wonderful.i was wondering on he modeling show how old do u have to be to participate. i'm 17 and i love modeling.my friends say that if i believe in myself i could be whatever i want.they also say i've got it. so can i participate?
 
i agree with getting all sexy and dressing nice for your man, but a woman shouldnt always have to!!! most men dont dress up for us!! and face it this is not a barbie world, real women dont look like barbies
 
i love Tyra
 
hey this is lala....just wanted to say...love watching yo shows tyra and your outfits are wow.



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