People are not born gay. If that is the case we are saying God made a mistake in identity.The devil is a liar. Everything God made was good. It was the fall of Adam in the Garden of Eden, which allowed the sin of homosexuality to creep into our society. God does not hate the one, who commits the the sin;He hate the sin.God loves us all. PEACE!!!!!!!!!!
i think jus to recoup, porn is bad for us humans,,after all the meaning of pornography is literally 'devil's images'. Gay or not,we all have insecurities that being gay can't eradicate;iv many gay friends yet in the end,they admitted that deep inside, there's extreme emptiness; i honestly think it's coz as people we've forgotten where we came from, & should sincerely go back to our map w/c is still the living book, the Bible,I live in CA b4 yet now being in asia, i noticed u.s. has become like the previous fallen roman empire, where the destruction didn't come from outisde but inside. It's truly sad coz the kindest ppl can be found there,gay or not or etc,i hope w/ all the outcome moral values that could still be derived from the shows,,may God heal our land, as we humble ourselves to pray:)
I feel kinda bad for the guys now. Many people watch your show trya and I'm sure people went home and googled him. Now should i feel bad or be happy for them?
I found it interesting to think about men having sex with other men and still considering themselves "straight". Once I thought about it I consider it very possible. Just think about it the other way around. There are plenty of men that have sex with women who are gay. I wonder if there are men in the straight porn videos who consider themselves "gay". Sometimes people don't consider that other are able to put certain feelings aside and just do something for the money. Being gay isn't something that changes from one day to another. People simply are who they are. I find it amazing that we still think someone would "choose" to be gay. If gay people could move past the "phase" as some people label it, I think they would. Who would choose to be gay if they knew the kind of opposition they were going to face. People who are gay are so because that is who they are just like those who are straight just are.
Tyra I was just watching your show about Physchic kids and Ihave had dreams of things that happen the next day. Afraid to tell anyone.
Just had to say ALL of you have valid comments....BUT the guy Byron post 1/22/09 page 7 said it the Best....Take a look you all. It is what it is and the guys that say Gay for Pay bring it on them selves. They are the ones that put a Title to it....Just do what you do and don't label it do your Gay porn and shut your mouth. We do not care why straight guys do gay porn or work in a gay bar, just like people don't care why gay or straight people do porn.......Again shut up and do your gay for pay porn and live your life.
One comment that I would like to share, is the comment made by the advicate in the last part of the show in regards to "Pay for gay". He stated that straight men should stay out of the gay bars while working in a bar. If that that is on ok thing to say, then I feel we have a problem on our hands. First we are suppose to give them their rights, which is fine. Let them do what they want in their lives, but to then say, "Your not gay, stay out of our bars!", is a very closed minded statement to say. If it wasn't for the support of the straight community, some laws may not have been passed. For any person who is gay to hate any person that is straight or either way, is the wrong way to think. Thank you for informing the community as much as you do Tyra!
who ever believes these guys including tyra are fools... talk about as fake as they come... just like a person saying there bi. what a joke.. gay is gay is gay and i'm gay. the little boy on the show looked prettier than my sister.. don't be fooled they are as gay as they come
I’m sorry but these guys are all GAY and are trying to find an excuse to seem as if it’s ok with what they’re doing. I’m all for the GAYS because my best-friend is GAY but I can’t stand a man who will sleep with a man and then sleep with a woman and don’t see where there is something wrong with that. The man is confused and only involved with the woman to hide the fact that he really prefer to be with a man but knowing that society is against it. So hey why not get paid for it and still live the normal life, get married, have children, or juts have a girlfriend. I’m sorry but it’s nasty, disrespectful, and any woman who deals with a man that wants to be with her but still sleeps with men rather it’s for money or not is a desperate simple female who doesn’t have any morals or love for her life.
It is very infuriating watching how some women can be so judgmental about a topic like this --actually, it is VERY hypocritical. They can sit there in the audience boo-ing under breaths and act disgusted about a straight man doing gay porn, but what about when straight women do lesbian porn as well? Why is that more acceptable in this society? Is it because some of you women can secretly get off on watching girl-on-girl action? Yet, find it so easy to turn around and judge a man because of your own insecurities? THAT is BS. I know the show has covered straight girls that "become" gay at bars just for fun, but that is still mild compared to this topic. Stop judging other people for their lifestyles because you aren't living it.
well i would be gay for pay any day so i dont really see a problem them doing that and you should talk about gay teens on your show because i'm a teen aying this right now
I believe the being GAY comes from your genes... You DO NOT just wake up one day and say I WANT TO BE GAY. Why would someone want to put themselves out there to be ridiculed, hurt or worse...KILLED. You DONT. I'm gay... I had these thoughts/feelings at the age of 5.. YES 5! I found myself looking at catalogs, magazines with men more than with woman. NOT knowing at the time it was wrong...(By society standards) until I was a couple years older. My mother said no thats not right... You need to like girls! Then, scared of being beat, family outcast, I went into DENIAL. I was from a family that HATED who they called FAGS.. (Very scary). So, I tried by "SOCIETY STANDARDS"... to be "NORMAL." I had two (2) kids. Honestly, I was miserable... I loved my kids.... but I was not happy. Ended up with a guy. Some it is an experiment, some like it beacause GUYS know what feels good and they can do a better job than girls in the oral department.. LOL! Sorry, just like girls know how to please another girl in the same department.. BUT, sometimes desperate times call for desperate measures. MAN OR WOMAN. Cheers to ALL.
I myself would like to celebrate the men that you had on your stage today, if they can admit to being ignorant in the past, and after the work they have done have come to be able to say "gay people are just people too", that has to be seen as a step towards equality. I don't want to be defined by who I sleep with, and I don't just by living my life as a member of society. We can say this in Canada, hopefully the same will be true in the US, but, I pay taxes, I work, I own a house, I am married... OH LOOK!!! I am a "normal person" same sex marriage has done a lot to help that. I have written to much already!!! sorry! but in closing I will share a snipit of a conversation I had with a right wing conservative the other day. he said "don’t get me started on same sex marriage!" and all I said was "you can't say that, there is no such thing as same sex marriage in Canada, as per the constitution, there is just marriage"... he was shocked, and agreed with that statement. We are probably going to be good friends now. Thanks Tyra, you and your team do great work! Cheers, Jeffrey
Hey Tyra, Honestly I don't watch your talk show that often, but I saw the teaser for this episode and I could not resist (I do LOVE ANTM and CNTM!). So here are my thoughts/concerns. Perhaps my circumstances are a little different as I live in Canada and the perception is that we have a more tolerable society when it comes to minorities. I am 25, male, recently married to my boyfriend of 8 years, and according to standard labels am "gay". My opinion (not that it matters) is that I have NO problem what so ever with these guys working in gay bars/ stripping/ or doing gay porn. Why not? so long as they are happy who should have a problem with it. My major concern is with your panel person from the advocate magazine. What has the gay community been fighting for? have we not spent decades looking for 'equality"?? hence same sex marriage? well like what your amazing new president will help to accomplish, this leads to a melting pot society. Integration vs. Segregation. This is what has me concerned with the comments of the editor of the advocate, I myself do not believe in titles of "gay" or "straight", like the Kinsey scale we all fall in there somewhere but no one person is 100% gay or 100% straight. Someone that has lived their lives as "straight" can and has in the past, when in the right situation "fallen" for someone that happens to be the same sex and the of course the opposite is true. I don't go clubbing often, but why can't I go to a "straight" club? and why can't a gay club have straight people as guests or working there? It's time to drop the age old stereotypes and just "be". I