Mon. Jul 27, 2009 | 9:35 AM

Cheater. Cheater. Cheater.

So you cheated on your partner -- do you tell them?

Find out what Jackie Guerra has to say when it comes to infidelity.

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Posted by me:] 11/01/09 10:43 PM
 
well you shouldnt cheat to begin with. however if you do, i think it's best to be honest and let the person know. they have a right. otherwise, you'll have the guilty conscience inside you. also, you partner deserves to know. afterall, they've been dedicating their time to you.
Posted by emily 07/27/09 11:43 PM
 
I agree with her. Don't cheat then you won't be in this dilema. Don't stay in a relationship where you feel comfortable cheating. My gut instinct says, be honest... but it's such a hurtful thing that was done...
Posted by kiki 07/27/09 2:12 PM
 
I WAS IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP FOR SEVEN YEARS IT WAS MY HIGH SCHOOL SWEET HEART WE HAD 4 CHILDREN TOGETHER I GOT FED UP WITH IT AND CALLED SOCIAL SERVIES AND ASKED FOR HELP THEY GOT INVOLVED AND BECAUSE I COULD NOT FIND AWAY TO GET AWAY FROM HIM THEY TOOK MY KIDS AWAY FROM ME I TRIED REALLY REALLY HARD FOR 1YEAR THEY KEPT PUTTING ME THROUGH SO MANY HOOPS ONCE I WOULD COMPLET ONE THING THEY WOULD TELL ME I HAD TO DO SOMETHING ELSE WELL I DID NOT SUCSEED AFTER GOING THROUGH IT FOR A YEAR I FELT LIKE THEY WAS PUTTING ME THROUGH SO MUCH I TURNED INTO A ADDICT MY OLDEST TURNS 18 THIS YEAR I ALWAYS TOLD MYSELF I WAS GOING TO STRAITEN UP AT THE AGE OF 30 IM NOW 34 AND DONT KNOW HOW TO GO ABOUT IT I SO WANT TO BE CLEAN NOT JUST TO SEE MY KIDS BUT ITS TIME FOR ME TO GROW UP AND LIVE A PRODUCTIVE CLEAN LIFE I NEED HELP AND IM ASKING TYRA TO HELP ME I HAVE KEPT THIS SO DEEP INSIDE AND I AM JUST SO READY
Posted by shelly rothermel 07/27/09 11:42 AM
 
Even if situations isn't black and white a person who been sheated on have always right too know about it so she or he can make a decision about if he/she wants to forgive or not. Personly I would never stay with someone who doesnt respekt me. Respekt and Trust is so hard to rebuild so I should have walked away before you blinked with your eye! Sheating is so wrong and one of the worst thing you can do to another human in a relationship except for Violenc. (Excuse my english, its not that good)
Posted by LECJ 07/27/09 10:35 AM
 
If you are going to cheat in the first place then just don't say anything since you are already a horrible person. People date just to date and you will break up any ways. You wont cheat if you love that person and you think they are one.
Posted by Mayra 07/27/09 10:29 AM
 
yes I would want to know if I were being cheated on,I would rather be hurt by the truth than a lie....I hate people that lie,it's wrong and hurts people.If you are unsatified with the relationship why stay in the relationship?
Posted by Keona 07/27/09 10:27 AM
 
Cheating is wrong no matter what. But if my fiancee cheated on me, I would want him to tell me so I can go on with my life. I believe once a cheater always a cheater and it doesn't matter what the circumstance is. I personally wouldn't put up with that, no matter how much I love him. I couldn't live with the fact that he betrayed me like that, so I'd be much better off.
Posted by Kylie 07/27/09 10:21 AM
 
Hi Tyra! I don't know if you'll read this or not but I'd like to pitch an idea for your next show. As you know, YouTube is a HUGE hit. Even the most famous celebrities like, Taylor Swift, the Jonas Brothers and Miley Cyrus, have a You Tube account. But I think you should feature the regular people who YouTube. I mean, I can't see why these people aren't famous! People like Kevin from KevJumba, Ryan and Sean from NigaHiga (they actually starred in a movie about them getting discovered on the Internet), Lucas from Fred, Ian and Anthony from Smosh and Christine from HappySlip. These people have over 50,000 subscribers, some have over 1,000,000! Each of their videos have over 10,000,000 views! People are addicted to their videos! Their videos are a way to connect to their viewers. It's a way for them to say what they really want to say that they don't have the guts to say in person. For some of the viewers it feels like they're just a part of our family! I hope you consider the idea. Thanks for taking the time to read this comment! I can't wait to watch many more great shows to come!
Posted by Teeny 07/27/09 10:01 AM
 
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Posted by Lobxgmks 07/14/09 7:12 AM
 
hahahaha ofcourse. lol cheating is wrong, but hey some people do it. i for one wouldnt do it , but if i did i would have to say somethin cuz i cant lie i feel fake if i do so.
Posted by Stephany Diaz 07/08/09 6:13 PM
 
HI TYRA MY NAMES IS LARA I LIVE IN SOMALIA SO I WANT TO REQUESTED YOU A HELP BECOUSE I NEED TO HELP ME BECOUSE TYRA I,M SICK IN MY HEART AND I DONT HAVE MONEY TO SAVE MY SELF BECOUSE I,M NOT HAVE AMONEY MY FAMILY IS APOOR WE ARE LIVE IN SOMALIA MY COUNTRY WAS HAPPENING A WAR AND I DONT ABLE TO LEAFE IN HERE SO TYRA PLEASE HELP ME IF YOU DONT HELP ME MY LIFE IS ADANGROUSE SO TYRA I WANT TO HELP BECOUSE I,M LIVE IN A HARD LIFE AND I DONT KNOW WAT I DO IF YOU DONT HELP ME SO TYRA I SEE YOU MY FUTURE IF YOU DO ME AFAVORE PLEASE TYRA DONT FORGET TO HELP ME I NEED YOUR HELP
Posted by lara 07/04/09 9:43 AM
 
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Posted by Nizmapiz 06/22/09 7:58 PM
 
My fiance told me the other night that he had a female friend and that they was just friends. He also told me he has thought abouting cheating. He did it once when i was pregnant with our son. He told me he did and that he regreted it and did mean to hurt me so bad. I asked him the other night to promise me he wouldnt do it again but he said he couldnt promise something he couldnt control but that he would never leave me if he did do it because he loves me and his son. I asked him why he would want to hurt us so bad and he couldnt answer. What should i do i love him so much and i dont want to lose him. My son and him are my whole world i dont think i could survive losing either one of them. please give me some advice on how to get him to not cheat.
Posted by Raquel 06/20/09 7:58 AM



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