i dont think she should it now if she does its her decison but i could see her later on regretting it know one should sell thier body for sex she is not a prostitute and thats how she is going to be viewed i think so many people are on to this story its like bees n honey she had better think long and hard about this i understand its her life and its her decison but she wil have to live with it if she were to do go on with it so my advice to her would be think about it do you really want to do something like this so many people will know and you will have to deal with that your entire life as time goes along thier we will be other things going on in the world but if i was in her shoes i would reall give it serious thought and if you feel the same way and want to go along with it then thats her decsion at least she thought it out i would hope she doesnt do it but its her choice i cant run her life she has to make this decison her self know matter what i think or anyone else thinks
After watching this show I was struck with a few thoughts. The sister was supporting her.(she had already been a prostitute for a short time) Her support just clears her conscious. Why was the sister the only one in the financial bind? What did Natalie do to make money? Will the highest bidder get an hour, a full nights entertainment, a week? Is satisfaction guaranteed? If that slobbering old man was the type she ends up with now thats quite a memory for a first time. I wouldn't count on someone looking like Robert Redford.
im thirteen and i watch the tyra show. I feel like while it is Natalies choice she shouldnt be going on national television to make it public. Girls are very easily influenced until about eighteen or older. From seeing how natalie is handling her virginity frankly disturbs me. Im not saying losing her virginity needs to be extremely ceremoniol but auctioning it off is- in my opinion- just very low.As one women in the audience said that she needed money for her masters but she is going to work hard to get the money. I think that is natalie works hard she will not only get the money she needs, keep her dignity but also learn that if she works hard she can get whatever she needs.
I agree with L.N.W. Quote: "No one should tell her what her fist time should be like. Even Sonia made the comment "SHE doesn't want to see Natalie go out like that"." Seriously, all this hype over virginity is just emphasizing that society still thinks women will be nothing without it. Its completely stupid and so Victorian. In my mind, there are so many more important aspects of a woman that this is negligible. Natalie isn't going to be "broken" once she starts having a sex life. And honestly, why not pick a guy who knows what he is doing instead of some inept highschool/college boy. As for getting $ out of it, why not!? SHE is picking the man, not giving it away to just anyone out of desperation.
I think that it's her personal right to do this. She is not selling her virginity illegally. She went about this in a safe, educated manner and did not just snap her fingers and come to this decision. How can you judge someone for doing this? Just because you disagree with someone doesn't make your opinion correct. If you think it does, than I suppose women shouldn't have the right to get abortions because it offends some people. We shouldn't ever let gays marry, because it offends some people. Everyone has different opinions when it comes to radical scenerio's. You can't just pick and choose what sits right with you and then harshly judge anyone that disagrees with you. Tyra you are a huge hypocrite. You have this huge stance about accepting people, and self respect, and equality. But as soon as YOU disagree with someone you completely attack them. You continually attacked Dennis and Natalie and kept interrupting them when they were making GOOD points. You didn't want to listen because YOU didn't agree with them. Well you should have an open mind and not sell the show so we only see it through you're eyes. I lost a lot of respect for you from this episode, and I probably won't be watching the show ever again. It irritates me that you look down on people that do something LEGALLY that you find digusting. You're just as bad as all the "anti-gay" "anti-fat chick" people you have attempted to teach everyone to not be like. You're the biggest hypocrite on t.v.
I honestly dont understand why people are against a girl losing her virginity for money when all other women have sex more often than not for something in exchange.Natalie has made a choice i respect,i really do:If she'd lose her virginity it should not be for nothing like some girls have done.For crying out loud,most of the females against her have lost the innocence that beign a virgin brings and are simply jealous they are not worth a hundreth of what she's being offered.Men love virgins and sex with one is fantasy to many.We are ever ready to pay if we can for a woman as sweet as Natalie. I love her for her decision.Personally if i had it i'd bid as well afterall if i done have her i'd definately have another woman for probably nothing.
I admire the women who believe that her virginity is not what she claims it to be. She is definitely not a virgin to the majority of the population. IF I were a guy, and thought like a guy, I would want a TRUE VIRGIN. Someone who didn't have ANY type of sex. Who does she think she is fooling? So many people are thinking the correct way. She is not the type of virgin most men would want.
She IS NOT a virgin. She said she knows how to "please" a man. Then she went on to say how she had all other types of sex. Sex is sex. She isn't a virgin, just a skank with a hymen.
Everyone is talking about the message she is sending girls or women's rights...etc. but what does it say about men that they are willing to pay ridiculously large amounts of money for a girl's virginity? Forcing beliefs on people never work. She clearly expressed it was not a moral dilemma for her. She may regret this decision when she gets older, but that is what life is about. God is the ONLY judge and he commanded us to love unconditially as he loved us. (Agape-love)
After thoroughly reading these post i slightly agree with WREN! Especially the part you mention about the actors/models/etc auctioning their emotions. What i have to say to that is since the birth of drama and modeling and music and so on people initially had the same issue as you have discussed (selling thier emotions) but as time transpired, then people became more open-minded and realize that music, acting, modeling is a passion that God has given to these people and most of all it is TASTEFUL ART! Prostitution, on the other hand, is the world's oldest profession which came about because of DESPERATE women whom were after money. And yes you might say that maybe God gave them a gift at being good in the bed. Well if that is true then they might as well get a man, marry him, and have all the motherloving SEX in the world. But that is not the case for prostitutes because they sought after money like in this case. That is why it is wrong. It is exploiting SEX. She doesn't know the man and what if she becomes pregnant? Did you ever think of the complications this could cause?
Tyra, do NOT heed what this ignorant people think or say about you. If I were you I would care less if i lost the respect of someone who advocates such harlotry. First of all I have to say that I respect all of y'all opinions, but some of y'all are STUPID. No excuse me, IGNORANT! You say that it is her right to make said decision, and you praise her because of it. Well what is the difference from a girl who just looked at the cover of a magazine and MADE A CHOICE to forcefully regurgitate all the meals she had eaten in her life? What about a teenager who CHOOSES to cut herself because she feels vacant on the insede? Yes, these are THEIR CHOICES but there are also WRONG choices. Tyra is not stupid or hypocritical she is just SANE! She knows these are THEIR CHOICES but she also knows how wrong and disgusting the outcomes are. And yes, I know if this was a hot model MAN auctioning off his virginity the public would have discriminated in his favor. But I shall declare right now how against I am to this double standard because it makes the male species think that they SHOULD be sleeping around and getting women pregnant and thus and such leave the women and thus and such become a major but shameful part of this nation's DEAD BEAT FATHERS! OMG WHAT IS THIS WORLD TURNING INTO!! Sex, whether it between man and woman or man and man, should never be exploited like this and it is a shame that something that should be intimate is being given no respect. The 33+% of you guys who voted for it should be trying to tell her the opposite. Save her from this disaster.
I am watching the show, I am 10 minutes from the end of it and I have not heard one person explain to this woman the emotional aspect. The only points being made or for or against her right to do this. She is obviously an intelligent woman. I applaud, and if I were still a virgin, would definitely capitalize on it. I, however, am 35 years old, have been "around the bloc ' and know that no matter what a woman's intelligence, she cannot pull her emotions away from an event such as this. Tyra, should you interview her after the fact, we both know you will find a woman in awe of how her emotions took over her "capitalism"....that is the nature of woman, we cannot change it..this young girl does not know that as a woman, it is inescapable..
Can someone please explain to me how two consenting adults exchanging money for something that everyone does, is not illegal, and is completely natural, degrading? I consider it degrading for someone to be forced into the life, but if you want to do it and you love your job, why is it degrading?
thats like doinf some prostution shyt...
I think the way everyone was forcing their opinions on Natalie is the same as a man forcing her to have sex. This is her body, her life , her decision. No one should tell her what her fist time should be like. Even Sonia made the comment "SHE doesn't want to see Natalie go out like that". It's not up to Sonia what Natalie does with her body. Natalie obviously thought this situation through. She even did research on it. I didn't regret losing my viginity, but I wish I thought of selling it. I am no longer with the guy I lost my viginity to. But guess what??? I still have bills to pay. The worst thing that could happen to Natalie is if she decides to listen to everyone and do the "right thing" by having sex for free with a guy she is in love with, and he takes it and leaves her. She will not only feel stupid, she will also be broke. Then she will be on a Tyra show about a women who gave up her virginity to a man who used her and ran.