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BABIES, SEX AND PORN? Here's a question for the rest of you moms and even Tyra. I recently had a baby who's now 6 weeks old, i currently live with the father of the baby and i'm a stay at home mom for now. I'm 19 years old and before deciding to keep the baby we did a lot of talking, including the fact that we both really want to make this work for the long run. While i was pregrant i came home unexpectedly eaarly one day to find him watching porn and doing what we all know he was to it. After that night i checked the computer just to see how much he was watching and it was obssessive and extremely raunchy. That day when he got home from work i confronted him about it because it made me feel unwanted, unattractive and unable to satisfy him. (keep in mind we still had sex almost right to the date our son was born.)He told me he was embarassed by it and that he'd stop. Trying to keep our sex life somewhat alive i decided to take a few sexy photos of myself for him considering his "problem" and because the baby was due any day (and no my prego belly was not included in the pictures). About 5 weeks after our sons birth we started having sex again and i try to give it to him whenever he wants it. I recently found out that he's been lying about his obssession and nothing has changed and i mean i just had an 8 and a 1/2 pound baby, my body has changed tremendously and seeing that on the computer screen again crushed my self confidence. It's hard for me to feel sexy, comfortable, or confident being naked

Peace, Tyra and viewers My name is Power and I'm a 33 year old, conscious-minded blackman from Chicago, staying in Phoenix,AZ via Atlanta, GA. I state this only so you all understand my viewpoint. My queen and I have been together for 10 years and our children are our future, we have a enough issues in our communities due to a lack of communication and connection. It's time to kill the selfishness and also, recognize who's giving advice. How can someone who has not experienced your same situation mentally or physically, or at the very least experiencing it at the same time, tell you how you should live. Yes find time for yourself but understand the bond between a mother and a newborn is of the most important. There is scientific proof to this measure of child-rearing. The baby should be within arms reach but being in the bed can be dangerous because the parent might smother the baby. With the fragileness of a newborn, a simple rollover by the man or woman could seriously injure the baby. The other couples discussed had petty issues that are easy to fix problems, either love them or leave them alone. One last thing I definitely wanted to comment on is that like 7UP "Image is everything", did anyone notice the order in which the guests were presented? It could have only been better if they had either the black or caucasian couple first and/or second and then the bi-racial couple last. This image control is so humorous. I admit Tyra, that today for the first time EVER your topic magnetized me enough to sit and watch after a day at work. Really I would love to see someone who gets their own show and use their time to discuss real issues that

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I'm watching " He said,She said" and couple #2, you have got to be kidding me. She only gets sex twice a month, he comes home when he wants (8am) the next morning,....Girl, he ain't that into you ! I beleive he's cheating or getting ready to. I wonder would he see nothing wrong with it if you did the same thing, I'm almost sure he wouldn't. I think you're a very pretty girl, don't sit around and settle for less than you deserve,there is someone out there that will be more than happy to give you sex, time,compliments,a full and total committment, and be willing to make you feel like you're the best thing since ice-cream, so go get licked girl !!!

i am in a similar situaltion as the first couple. i have 2 kids and my husband wants sex 24-7 and we do it like 4 times a month because i have a 5 month old who is deaf and was in the hospital the first 3 months of his life so i try to sleep in the bed with him but when he wakes up i take him downstairs so he dosn't wake my husband so i sleep on the couch. im the stay at home mom, the maid to the house, and the short order cook, and the hostes to his friends, its really hard to play vixen to my husband as well. im just tired by yhe end of the day.

I'm an older woman with six children and three grand children and I know a thing or two about parenting. I always had my children sleep in a basanette at my side until they were about a year old, then they moved to the nursery. My husband and I never let our children sleep in the bed with us, until my 4th child. He just couldn't sleep alone, so we let him sleep with us. He became soo needy and we didn't have any time alone because of it. My husband and I always talked before we fall asleep and we weren't allowed to do that when nicholas was laying between us. If my husband attempted any cuddling, he would scream and cry and fight him off. It got so bad with his attachment that when I would use the ladies room, he would wait by the door, lying on his side trying to see under the door and scream. I couldn't even talk on the phone without nicholas giving me a guilt trip. It took until he was 5 to leave our bedroom because my husband had enough and made him sleep in his own room. He cried for the first week, but got used to it. Just be strong and consitant with it! For all the other mothers out there, quit being so dependent on your kids for love. Your 11 month old can't comprehend "abandonment!" He will miss you, but he'll get over it real quick. We went on vacation once a year just to rekindle our love. Your kids will miss you for the first day or two, but they will have fun with grandma or auntie and they know you're comming back. Take this grandmas advice, kids need a line, and your husband needs you

Yeah... The woman who's boyfriend/husband wants her to dress sexy all the time and wants the baby out of bed, and wants her to have phone sex with him while at work... first off... phone sex at work is very unprofessional. Next, baby in bed... It is hard enough being a new mom. the boding that you get from sleeping with your baby next to you is great, and it is reassuring... my daughter sleeps with us. we are new parents. But because she sleeps with us, i am not up every few minutes checking her to see if she is still breathing plus a I am breastfeeding. It makes it much easier to have her in bed with me. And finally... when you have a baby, you do not want to dress up. if you dress up, you might as well bring a couple of second outfits with you. I get spit up on, drooled on, sometimes pooped on and i have been puked on. I already have to carry around a large diaper bag, I don't need a suitcase too. plus heels are just dangerous. I also haven't been able to wear heels yet because my muscles and joints are not as strong as they were. Now, the guy that doesn't clean up after himself... your a grown man I don't care if you have a job and go to school. its not that hard to put your dirty clothes in the hamper or rinse out the sink. seriously. I also think he is cheating.

Seriously, SHE JUST HAD A BABY! I totally know how she feels. It is SO hard trying to be a mom to your kids, a vixen to your husband, a maid for your house, and be anything for yourself. This is ridiculous and he should cut her some slack. Babies who sleep with their parents are less likely to die of SIDS and most of the rest of the world sleeps with their kids. Phone sex while he is at work is SO dumb too. He could lose his job. Maybe he should give her some time to adjust to having a newborn, try to pamper her a little and see what happens. Pressuring her is going to push her away.

This is in response to the couple who sleep with their baby in bed with them. I have recently had a baby, he is now 4 months old, since the time he was born he has been sleeping with me and my husband, it is actually a proven fact that when you sleep in the same bed as your baby you are more familiar with their breathing patterns and sleeping in the same bed has saved many babies lives from chocking or suffication. Its the parents choice but those are issues to consider as well.

Hi Tyra, Regarding Tracy and Damian, keeping the baby in bed with them goes beyond preferences: it's a safety issue. I'm not sure how old the baby is, but if it is younger than 1 year, the baby should NOT be in bed with them. It poses a major risk of suffocation, choking, injury, or other issues. Newborns until ~6 mos should sleep in a crib, laying on their back with 0 or 1 blanket and stuffed animals should be far enough to avoid airway blocking. Hopefully that will give some insight and make the change easier to deal with.

Ok Tyra, sometimes you can be nice and openminded, but then other times you pretty much ridicule the people on your show. And another thing, I watched the "he said she said" episode and I felt so irritated! I cannot believe how many people don't take parenting seriously. And when you do leave the child to go on a far away trip, it will feel abandoned! No matter how old he/she is. Because children are very connected to their parents, especially their mom. So they will feel like their mother left them. One time my parents left me and my brother with our aunt and uncle while they went to a funeral in another country. And my brother was only 2 weeks old! And he got completely sick because they left him. But once they came back and our dad held him in his arms then my brother felt better right away! Well I on the other hand was 7 years old, so I understood what the situation was, but it is never good to leave your kids behind. Also, kids should be able to sleep in the same bed as the parents because it is a bonding experience. And once you have kids, then your kids come first before anything else.

I saw todays show and i just wanted to say i can relate to tracy and damon's story because my husband and i are exactly like them.I'm a mom of a 4 month old baby boy and our son does sleep in the bed with us, me in the middle and my husband at the other end of the bed.Our sex life was amazing before our son....now we have to find time when he's sleeping to do anything and yes i'm insecure about the way i look. I'm willing to change and get things back to the way they were before we had our son, i just need some time and help/tips on how to look sexier and i feel like with that i'll get my self-confidence back.

omg. people and relationships and problems. wow. i guess i just cant wait to see the show