Mon. Jul 27, 2009 | 12:03 PM

Breaking up is hard to do.

In the "Ask Jackie Guerra" community group, Hadeel told Jackie she was having a hard time getting over her ex-boyfriend. Find out what advice Jackie has for moving forward after a breakup.

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hey everyone. ok i am now expecting my first child from a man that i had wanted to be with... long stroy but in the end it didnt last... i know dumb decsion... but i am 20 years old. and i am having my son in jan. i am jus ova the guy that got me pregnant. but its this guy i know. and he is like an ex but we still talk. he knows what has happen and i love him.. but i think my family is too protective. and time and time again me and him have aruge over the sitution. so i dont see him like he wants me to because of my sitution being pregnant and also cause of my parents. do u think i am wrong for this??? whats should i do??? should i just focus on me and my unborn like eveyone is telling me in my family??? i jus dont want to be alone. please give me some good advice...
Posted by leaha 10/12/09 4:51 PM
 
omg tyra! how do you get your boyfriend to get over his ex? i know, why am even still with him.. but, i love him. i think he misses being with his babies momma though!! in my opinion, he only broke it off because she cheated on him after she put him in jail. i think hes with me to stay out of trouble, and try and get over his ex. im a pretty girl, not to sound conceided, but, i want to know if he still likes her, bottom line. HE NEEDS TO GET OVER HER! or let me go.
Posted by anonymous 10/06/09 7:10 PM
 
Hey Tyra, Im 17 years old with an 18 month old son. Im a single parent that is torn between my current boyfriend and my ex. See my ex and i were together for 3 years and have a son together. We went through alot together, he was my first kiss, my first time, and the father to my first child. I admit he had his times when he cheated and did his own thing and neglected me and my son. But i still long for him. I still think about him everyday. When i see him at school, ride by his house, look at my son, etc. But i know he has a girlfriend and a couple other chicks too. But i still want him when i have a great boyfriend now that i trust and love. He loves my son as if he was his own. He's so good with both of us. I trust him and know he want betray me...but im still stuck! What should i do???
Posted by Renee' :) 09/29/09 10:37 AM
 
Tyra my ex and I were together for almost two years.I love her very much. I have seached within myself for answers. She gave me my walking papers in a way that was hurtful. She used MySpace to post hh I wanted so deperately to work through our differences. She didn't want to try "anymore" because "nothing would change". She loves o keep track of my mistakes with her; for use in future disagreements. And she does it with a sense of superiority. She says that I don't communicate. As if I'm incapable of intelligent, open, honest dialogue. There were and are so many forces going on in her life with her family. I often was left out of the loop and isolated. She says that I was supposed to be more supportive and affectionate. Tyra; I think that she gave up on me much to quickly. Now I lose sleep, have little appetite.....etc. I don't know what to do!
Posted by Rex 09/24/09 8:12 PM
 
Hey tyra, my name is Nakita and I'm 18. I just recently broke up with my boyfriend because he went off to college.I didn't want to but I did it because I think thhat is what he wanted. Tyra I love this kid with everythin that I have. I use to think that this is just teenage love and I'll get over it but I can't. I don't want to get over him. I don't want to just be his friend. At of all the other boys I've dated he's really impacted me the most. The even bigger problem is he told me he has formed a crush on this girl from school. He said it isn't serious and that he loves me but I think he's really feeling this girl. I know were not together and who am I to tell him who to like but damn it hurts so much that it seems like hes moving on and I can't. He claims he hasn't but sadly I hink he's lying.
Posted by Nakita 09/14/09 1:55 PM
 
hi tyra, my name is lilly and i'm 17 years old. i really need some advise. about 3 yrs ago i started dating a guy. about 10 months into the relationship he cheated on me and kept it a secret. the only reason i found out is because i cheated on him last year. so things got really bad and a few months ago we broke up. i still have feelings for him and he still has for me. i really don't know if to move on or get back with him. Help me please!
Posted by lilly 08/25/09 7:31 PM
 
There is a difference between being in love and just having love for someone. There is also a difference between true love and just simply saying you love someone. When you are truly in love with someone and you are no longer with that person you truly love, it is very difficult to get over that individual and it is almost impossible to be friends. What is most difficult is that they feel the same way back, but have another person or situation that is holding them back from what things could be with you. What should you do when you cant move on? And you cant be friends?
Posted by Christina 08/25/09 9:11 AM
 
Hey tyra my name is chris and I'm from nyc and me and my boyfriend broke up 6 months ago almost 1 month after we broke up I found out I was 6 weeks pregant we tried to work things out but it didn't work still today I still have feelings for him and I'm not over him he was hitting and cheating on me while we were together and he has not been there at all in my pregancy but yet I still have feeling for him any advice pleazzzzzzzz??
Posted by chris 08/23/09 10:06 PM
 
How can i forgett about my ex when he is still around...like my family gets along with him very well and they cant respect the fact i dnt want to c him but i dnt want to get away from my family jst cuz he is around...but how am i going to get over him completly and move on?
Posted by ayla 08/17/09 3:34 PM
 
How can i forgett about my ex when he is still around...like my family gets along with him very well and they cant respect the fact i dnt want to c him but i dnt want to get away from my family jst cuz he is around...but how am i going to get over him completly and move on?
Posted by ayla 08/17/09 3:32 PM
 
well,its really hard to get over your ex especially when your ex broke up with you.it gets almost impossible to move on owing to the fact that you could be the reason you are not together.
Posted by peace 07/28/09 11:51 PM
 
Why do you look like a white girl but in the real sense you are a black woman.YOU CANT TELL ME YOU LOVE YOUR COLOUR COZ YOU ARE NOT REAL.
Posted by Beryl kidas 07/28/09 5:36 AM
 
honestly tyra is ther something called getting over ur ex?sumtyms we try and do that bt i feel if u really loved someone u never do.u myt gt a replacement bt u alwas know wer ur heart lies...........bt then again,wat would i kw abt life...im only 22
Posted by gwyneth 07/28/09 1:07 AM



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