Let's face it -- dating is a game. You gotta be willing to play ball if you want to score. We caught up with relationship expert Tamsen Fadal and author of "Why Hasn't He Called?" to find out what are the major dating mistakes we all make. Plus, the traditional rules of dating no longer apply. Find out if it's ok for a girl to ask out a guy!


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Hie Tyra...I am 1 very proud woman 4 u..i luv every bit of u n yo shows......they(shows) n u r the best... In lyf, thez always thoz who try throwing mud at those who r a threat to them....n y.??bcoz they r insecure abt themselve..bcoz they canneva get to that level...thats y they habour the hatred n the insecurities they hav...never let that get to u...they should knw that life is about choices..the decisions we made yesterday puts us in the positions we are in today n in the future...they made wrong choices n therefore failed in life n became haters...they should liv wth that...coz we aint gonna live in their mistakes gal....keep movin gal...by all means..GO! Am right behind u Tyra..we share a whol lot of things...i c myself in u..sometimes it makes me cry...coz am 1 hell of a happy woman..bcoz wth all its shums,drugery,n broken dreams....its still a beautiful world huh!!live beautiful....a day a time...cheerz gal...ur the best!!!.
 
hi tyra i realy luv your show its realy great.it has gv me some challege of life.teach do n dont in life.thanks tyra.amina from mombasa kenya
 
Hey Tyra! I wanted to give you a show idea. I'm am writing a paper On Gender roles now days, and how it has effected dating. Why aren't guys expected to pay? Do they still treat you like a lady or like on of the guys? A lot of different questions I have came up with. Im not sure if you have already done a show on this yet, but if not, it would be a great one!
 
I love you tyra banks , happy valentines day
 
Tyra I live in Jamaica and I have watched your shows time and time again. I like the beauty enhancement show on Thursday February 12, 2009. I have never done a facial. I would like to get a total make over but I live in Jamaica. I also like the show about mama's boy.
 
tyra, It's me again. Would e-mail me and let me know if Finesse is single. If he happens to be single. Get at your gurl. E-mail me and let me know. Ms. Independent.
 
hi tyra, I just had to let you know that i enjoyed your show. He's just not that into you. I have the book. It's pretty good. I have a question for one of your guess. FINESSE. OMG..... FINE. I just want to know if he is single?
 
I LOVE U TYRA!!! UR SO ALWSOME I WISH I WAS U.
 
Crap...I wish I had seen this a few months back when I made the classy mistake of gettin drunk on a first date...although he never got past first base, I still feel kinda sleazy for doin that...i guess that would explain why he never called me back...a lesson well learned thanks Tamsen!
 
Hi tyra, i like watching yr show, it is highly educative. There are alot of lessons to draw from it. Meanwhile, want an advice on something personal, i wouldn't know if can use this medium to communicate with u for an advice. Thanks. Prince
 
Hi tyra, i like watching yr show, it is highly educative. There are alot of lessons to draw from it. Meanwhile, want an advice on something personal, i wouldn't know if can use this medium to communicate with u for an advice. Thanks. Prince
 
Hi tyra, i like watching yr show, it is highly educative. There are alot of lessons to draw from it. Meanwhile, want an advice on something personal, i wouldn't know if can use this medium to communicate with u for an advice. Thanks. Prince
 
For Brian you need to stop hatin on Tyra she does too help out the needy I Love you Tyra I watch Your show twice a day you're a good rolemodle for my generation and the one's to come!!!God Bless!!!
 
Hi tyra, i'm, just wondering about that girl named haley on your show on feb.9/09 i was wondering if she would go out with me and i missed the number on the tv screen please contact me at this email address zoron1677@hotmail.com
 
Being well versed in the art of pick-up, I must say that I wouldn't personally advise women to take the male role. Most women I know play their part naturally. I find most naturally social women give men the opportunity to play their role. They give indications of interest to the man so then the man can do his part and LEAD the interaction. Women typically are more socially savvy because guys tend to approach girls more than girls approach guys. Girls if you really want to play your role in the interaction, I suggest firstly. Practice being social. Don't just go in like Hailey did, interviewing your potential love interest. HAVE STORIES. These stories shouldn't be bragging stories they should be natural stories with relevant themes that just happen to display some of your more attractive qualities simply due to being how you react to situations. I'll be more specific. Tell him spontaneously about the time your best friend was ill and you cared for her, and how you're one to do that for your future loves. Tell him about how you love to cook and your favorite recipes, and how maybe you'll cook for him sometime if he's lucky. Tell him about how you got asked out by a stranger after you accidentally left a love note in the wrong car windshield wiper. What you're trying to do here is to DHV to demonstrate higher value, to prove your better than his other choices. Don't go interview him. Get him interested in you and then when you notice he is, throw him a treat every now and then but never let him get his fill. Let there always be a little more. Push him and pull him and playfully leave him right when he wants it most. He'll



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