i watch this show . it was really confusing. i think if someone is in love with an ex and in relationship with someone else that person is lying to his or her self. it is better to listen to your heart. I f you still feel for each other it is better to voice it and and give it another trial than to let go.So Mike and Sydnie should not let go their feelings for each other. I pity their partners but they have to face the fact that this two people are in love.
I think its wrong for anyone to think that they can be friends with their exes and still continue in another relationship. I would never want to be with anyone that wanted to continue to communicate with his ex. A man should lay his life on the line for you (exactly like Ms. Banks said). I gave my boyfriend the ultimatum and myself and we discontinued talking to our exes and changed our phone numbers. we did that because we both believe that when you truly love someone, you need to be 100% commited to them, and your focus should be on them and only them. If i were samantha, i would leave michael.
I don't have a problem being friends with my ex, because we have moved on with our lives, and the relationship didn't end on a bad note.
Folks, people are dying when comes to leaving each other. We all must try (hard as it maybe) to depart being friends. Children or no children. It's so important even after leaving each other to be able to say, Hi to each other. To be able to still lend a helping hand if need be with out passing fault or judgment. To still be able to sit down, have a soda or coffee expressing how each other are doing. Giving insults, slanderous and being violent against to one you shared a portion of your life with. Clearly demonstrates to everyone, you were the problem all along! You intended to bring harm against the one you supposed to love! If can get away from a problem with out issues, why create more problems for your self. Just don't make much sense.
It's just look like buy one get one for free. No No No! What about the consequences? My thought is simple, by giving an ex a chance to interfer or just be friend with despite a new relationship running over will adequaly froze the dynamic, passion and love of the new partner. Bottom line, is not really a good thing to do. www.twitter.com/bafeto
I think the reason a lot of people remain close friends with an ex is because they have trouble letting go. I know after my boyfriend and I broke up, we hung out a lot because we missed each other and still loved each other. It wasn't the same as my other friendships; it was like a fix I needed to fill. It wasn't until we stopped hanging out so much that I started to get over him. I wouldn't necessarily have a problem with a boyfriend being friendly with an ex. This is especially the case if they have a lot of mutual friends, because then being casual friends just makes the most sense. However, it would really depend on the circumstances. First of all, I would be less comfortable if they dated for a long time. If they were together for years, it might be too hard to redefine the other person as a friend. Also, I think if they jumped straight into being best friends after breaking up, that's a bad sign that they never got a chance to get over each other. Finally, I would take it as a red flag if they talked everyday or relied on each other when they were upset. Its hard to let someone go after a breakup, but that's just part of breaking up. I think its good to stay friendly with exes, but I don't think you should rely on them for emotional support the way you did when you were together. If you are relying on them for anything, you'll never get them out of your head. Keep in mind, you might think you can't do it only because you never gave yourself a chance to.
I watched your show today 6/9/09 and I know how Michael And Sidnei feels. I fell in love with someone I was dating we broke up I got married he moved away and when ever he would visit I wanted to see him. I didn't need to sleep with him just see him and I would be ok. But I preyed to God to take these feelings away because I didn't want to break up my marriage. And God did just that if I see this person now it's hi how are you doing and that's it. I am still married soon will be 39 years.
If you need to talk to your x 5 times a day which is probably more than you talk to your current partner then its more than friends and you need to stop kidding yourself and get out of denial...You are just not done with your x....and anything that makes your current partner uncomfortable is not only wrong but its cheating expecially if your partner is unaware.
NO CREO QUE SEA BUENA IDEA, PORQUE SI ya sea en buen o mal termino SIEMPRE HAY UN SENTIMIENTO DENTRO DE TI,Y SABER QUE TU EX ESTA DE AMIGO CON SU EX ESTA MAL, NO ME SENTIRIA AGUSTO Y NO QUISIERA SABER CUNADO SE HABLAN,, ME ENOJARIA BASTANTE....
I BELIEVE IF SOMEONE HAS TO REMAIN FRIENDS WITH THEIR EX ITS BECAUSE THEY CANT LET THEM GO. THEN THEY WILL HAVE NO PROBLEM IF THEY ACCIDENTLY SLIPPED AND END UP ON TOP OF EACH OTHER. SO THATS A HELL NO EX'S SHOULD STAY AWAY FROM EACH OTHER IT MAKES BAD IF THEY ARE IN A CURRENT RELATIONSHIP
I just got out of a three year relationship. My ex wanted to remain friends, but I couldn't do it. For me it was either all or nothing. After a relationship I can't see the person as anything less than what I saw them as before. I was the one who got dumped. The funny thing was that when I went to pick up my things at his house he still had my pictures up. I don't see it to be fair to anyone. Being friends is just putting people in a awkward situation, like saying "You can look, but you can never touch".
im still friends with the majority of my exs and i wouldn't want my boyfriend telling me i can't be friends with them so i have no problem with him being friends with his exs.
The whole ex thingy-they're exs for a reason. If everything was so great that u feel this need to remain friends-why then r they exs. I believe that the only time u need to stay civil to each other is when there are children involved. Otherwise, you do not have to stay friends with an ex (female or male). Exs tend to bring up a lot of the past experiences to make current relationships feel awkward and uncomfortable-even maybe try to make that other person feel a bit jealous-all the good times;everything except why they are considered exs today. JUST MY OPINION...
somethings are good to hold on to... just because they weren't good as a couple doesn't mean they should be completely out of their life. just my opi
hi, well i saw the show and i think she they love each other, if they love each other why make other people sufrer