For me it would depend on the whole picture. You know, what their relationship was before they dated, during the relationship, and how they broke up and how long they have been broken up. However I think mostly it would depend on how they broke up. If it was mutual then I would totally be fine with it. Depending on how long they have be broken up would play a big factor if it wasn't mutual. It would make me uncomfortable to have a girl or guy hanging around us when they may still have feelings for the girl or guy that I am dating. Not in fear of losing him to her or him but because I would feel like I was flaunting my to girl or guy and that's strange... If the person I was dating was the one heart broken from their relationship because, well, for the same reason I don't date anyone who's recently been out of a relationship. I don't want to play second best or rebound girl. If they have been broken up for a long time and it's clear that my girl or guy is over their friend then I would totally not mind.
I have known my ex since I was 6yrs.old. He was my bestfriend throughout my whole childhood. We parted in highschool. It has been 35yrs. since I have had any communication with him. We have found each other again and although we were just children all those years ago. The feeling we share are very adult and very real we have been communicating for the past 6mos. He's single and wants to marry me. But, I have been married to the same man for nearly 30yrs. I have a family 3 grown children and 2 grandchildren. My husband is a good man and has been very good to me. He's the father of my children and does whatever he can to make me happy. Do I risk it all and take a chance on my ex.
WELL!!!!! i was just having a fight with my boyfriend about this tonight, we got together I had gotten out bad realtionship as did he4 months later we met eachother, he went on and on and on about how much he hated his ex, how he could never forgive her,BLA BLA BLA whatever, anyways he calls me up today and says i bumped into my ex today at the mall i am like thats great he is like we went out for smoke and talked and decided that we wanted to be friends and not have this fued going on between us ( thinking that because he is telling me right away that i am going to be okay with it), i am like pardon me! he is like well you know i still want to be friends with her! I AM SORRY I DO NOT THINK IT SHOULD EVEN BE POSSIBLE to be friends with someone after they have hurt you and you have slept with them, there is that history there. thats just me, EXS G/F and boyfriends ARE DRAMA they do not mean well and they are always up to something i dont care what anyone says girls are sneaky and try and tell me that after being with man for 4 years then all of sudden breaking up, not talking then knowing he has gf seeing him and saying i want to be friends that the brod isnt up to something i am girl i even know not going to happen shes up to something., i told him how i feel and said if you need to be friends with her you think its nessary go ahead, but dont let you choice backfire, IF there isnt a baby involved there is no reason to be friends
I've been in a relationship with someone who kept in contact with all of the women he'd been with in the past (if they allowed him to). I was dumb. When him and I initially broke up, he wanted to remain friends with me as well. I learned shortly after aggreeing to maintaining a friendship with him, he only had one thing in mind. Himself. I am now no longer friends or anything else with him. Women get some standards...cut off all ties.
i just can't understand, after 14 years i've met with my ex-boyfriend in my high school days, we had a one year relationship, and we have no formal break-up, and soon we became friend in friendster..but we have no communication..i've met him one month ago..accidentally..he introduce me to his wife..i was surprised when his wife told me that she has a gift for me and the kids..why in the world would she does that to her husband ex-gf..and she knows every detail of me, we'll i appreciate her for that..but i still can't understand why???? aileen
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This is not only a question for girls but should also be asked to guys. I am 21 yrs old and engaged to my high school sweetheart and as of today, I still keep a close friendship relationship with sum of my ex's. He strongly disagrees but I make sure to remind him dat I am with him and that I am willing to spend the rest of my life with him. Sometimes when I do speak to my ex's he will look at me with a weird sight but as he does I hug him and remind him how much I love him and as long as I keep demonstrating to him dat I love him with all my heart and dat I want to spend the rest of my life with him I am assured dat he will respect my choice to be friends with my ex's
No way, can you be a friend to an ex. Women are smart and sneaky, as soon as they find out you are in a relationship with someone, the more they stick around. And soon one of them will cross the line. Every fiend I know that are still friends with there ex. They sleep together from time time.
I really don't agree with the opinion that people can be friends with an ex. I'm friends with my ex, and will always be a friend. I mean a real friend. We were friends before we got together. If you and your ex have a real friendship then why should it end? It must not have been an actual friendship after all if you can just break it off when you get a new bf/gf.
I dunno about any of u but if the ex is hot I'd offer a threesome! Even if I didn't really mean it my boyfriend would get so turned on and appreciate the gesture. If she's hot enough, I'd be looking forward to it. And no, I am not a sex addict...I just don't think there's anything wrong with free love, as long as its consensual and safe!
I would have to say goodbye. If your boyfriend needs to be friends with his exs that is a big red flag screaming that you simply aren't enough for him to be happy. If someone cares about you, you would be the only lady (besides his mother) in his life. Besides, the past has a way of creeping up on people and old habits do die hard.
Well the real question is what kind of friend? I'm friends with my ex on Facebook but I've not said a word to him since we broke up besides the occasional hello when we run into each other. However, my breaking up with him was partly because, being friends with another ex, I realized how bad the relationship was. I think if your relationship with your ex doesn't make you wonder why you're with your current bf/husband/significant other, then there shouldn't be a problem.
EX'S can never be friends if your wife want to be friends with her ex boy friend that means she is not done with him yet simple as that.
EX'S can never be friends if your wife want to be friends with her ex boy friend that means she is not done with him yet simple as that.
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