Tue. Jun 09, 2009 | 5:32 AM

You loved your ex and you were with them for awhile. And it's natural to want to keep tabs on them or turn to them for advice and support. But what about when you're in a new relationship? Is it okay to still have your ex in your life -- or is there no room once you're with someone new? Check out what these New Yorkers had to say.


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Personally i would want my partner still speaking to his ex so i wouldnt do the same to him. But I think it depends on how your current partner feels about it because different people can take it different ways. It honestly depends on alot of things. Like how long your current relationship is and how much trust you guys have and how each of you can take it and how u ended up with ur ex . . and if you ended up in bad terms why all of sudden speaking once . again. so that my opinion. plus i think if it was in the past it should just stay in the past.
Posted by Mercedes 10/29/09 12:43 AM
 
Very nice site!
Posted by Pharmk888 09/21/09 4:02 PM
 
I think it's alright. I dated my ex for ten years. (He was my first) We broke up bcause we wanted differant things out of life. anyway I have since had a child and we r still friends I remain close to his family and him.I still love him but not in the sexual way like family. My husband got mad at first but he saw how it is and he said that he loves me more for being so pure hearted..
Posted by tbabes 08/15/09 6:22 PM
 
i totally agree with the ones that said that it depends on how you broke up in the first place. because in my situation we werent in a relationship or anything serious. It was just a kiddish crush. That was when i was 12 and he was 14 but then i was going crazy for him. but that was only in my mind, i didnt make it obvious. He claimed he still liked me and i liked him back, from there it was gonna start. but i had to move and then were like a thousand miles away. I couldnt get over him and i found out he got a girl. I was devestated, now im tring to contact him and i really dont want to ruin his current relationship but i still need answers because we left off at the wrong foot and i really dont know how he really feels.
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I don't think its ok to be friends with your ex...I mean if u once loved each oher...it will take long before you forget each other too...and when you are in another relationship it is better to kip off because it will just hurt your partner...You should put yourself in those shoes and imagine how you would feel if your guy/chick is still in touch with his/her ex???
Posted by Liz 07/13/09 3:38 AM
 
I have a HUGE PROBLEM... i was in a relationship for a year and 9 months and he always told me I was going to marry him and no matter what he would never break up with me. he also introduced me with his family and everything was perfect but I heard this rumors he once liked this girl he met in high school so I asked him if he liked her and he told me he did but was not in love with her because he loved me verryy much. One day he just broke up with me and the day before we weree very goood! Later on I discovered it was because of this girl so I told him I knew the truth but he just denied it and told me Iwould always live in his heart... he still speaks to me in msn because he now lives in another city but I found out he told the girl he loves her and things like that=S and we broke up June 7!! what do you think I should do?
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