If you saw today's show, you know that the guests faced some tough choices. So we want to know what YOU would do if you were in their shoes.

runningaway2.jpgYou tell us: What would you do if a family member was refusing to attend your wedding? Or, if you had a gay family member getting married -- and you weren't comfortable with his or her relationship -- would you go the wedding? We want to know!

And, if your family is refusing to attend your gay wedding, tell the Tyra Show about it.


NEXT: Don't Ruin My Gay Wedding


 
I have gay and bisexual friends and I'm 100% cool with the idea of gay people getting married, they have the right to be happy as much as everyone else does when getting married.
 
If this was me and i had a family member that was gay, it wouldn't matter to me. I don't mind gay people. I believe that is who they are if it makes them happy then so be it, it is not our place to judge them. Lets say i was against my gay family member. i would still be there for them because they need the support of there family. Plus, it could be the last time you see that person get married.
 
tyra i am gay and me and my gurl watch all your shows my family dont know i have been gay 4 5years and me my gurl friends is only 18teen but we dont care wat other people think cause we are happy togather
 
What a perfect topic Tyra! My partner and I got married in California before Prop 8 passed, but we are still having our official "Wedding" in February. My Father is not attending as he claims it is just "too much" for him to handle. He has been very slow to admit I was gay and has made HUGE leaps over the last five years, but none the less, he is making the decision not to be there. He isn't alone, I have other family not attending as well. In the end, we put the word out that anyone who is not okay with this should not and must not come to the wedding. The best is that my Mother has been fully supportive and has even helped to bring up the topic with other family members, letting them know that we only want people there who truly love us for who we are. It hasn't been easy and I am sure some will disagree, but we are okay with knowing that some of our family will never fully love and accept us and as such we don't want them to be at our special event.
 
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My Daughter is gay. I took it all in stride. I was not upset. Her Father freaked totaly out. He refuses to comment or speak of it in any manner.We are divorced so it does'nt matter to me one way or another that he is small minded and ignorant.(oh. did I say that out loud?)I have already consented to walking my Daughter down the isle when her and her girlfriend get married. All of my friends accept her just the way she is.We should love our children no matter what their "life choices" are. I am proud of my gay, succesfull, beautiful Daugher. I am proud to be her Mother and I will be proud to walk her down the isle. Thank you Tyra, for bringing a much needed(and educational) subject to peoples attention.Keep up the good work. Thank you for your time,"Just Jonez livin in the U.S.A."
 
I missed this episode ... but i can speak from my own expirience i came out to my family this year and it was not easy my mother was not to thrilled and cried when i told her she believed that it was just a phase i assured her it wasnt and that i was happier than i had ever been with my partner.. I married my partner this year in Oct we had a big beautiful wedding my mother was not happy at first but when the day came her and my father were there and they told me how much they loved me and that they were there for me no matter what.. That was the best day of my life.. I believe love has no gender and we all have the right to be happy.
 
I personally did not see this episode of Tyra's show, but after reading the comments I have no doubts that it was very stirring. I don't believe that we will all be on the same page about this issue (as soon as most would like), but that doesn't mean there isn't a middle ground that can be reached with minimal compromise on both sides. I do belive that I live in a country where everyone is entitled to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. We are also one nation under God, but this God is not a specified god and can be many things to the many people in this country. We are supposed to be a progressive nation full of possibilities for all people, and that should not lie solely on religious beliefs. There needs to be an understanding and a tolerance when approaching this issue...from both sides. One sides opinions aren't more substantial than the other, and I'll bet that there is common ground in both arguments. We're all just too stubborn to look for it. After all that, let me just say that I am a lesbian. I have strong opinions on this issue, but the topic should be approached with open (yet passionate) minds and hearts, leaving the bullsh*t at the door and talking honestly.
 
The problem is no one see Gay relationship as a problem.... that is what is wrong. When a person cannot commit to one person of the opposite sex and respect each other for who they trueare counseling is neccessary to sort the truth. This is a lifestyle of many people who are crying out for someone to listen and provide support and guidance. A person is conceive through a lady and man. This is a scentific fact. Your concern for the word... the bible is only guidance to follow and learn from the past and a window into the future prophesy.and a high power to conquer evil. Remember, this is your choice to believe the truth. The bible will help you make this decision. Read with the an open heart to receive the truth. God create man and woman. You will read biblical stories when man fell away and decide to choose each other. They were destroy. But, today, the Lord wants you to make the right decision. No pressure. He want you to freely believe in him and save you from deception, lies, and misrepresentation. The truth cannot be change. Take a real look at this lifestyle... and you will see each one tries to change from the normal...for instance, If two gay's want to be together... We know two people of the same sex cannot have children. So, because they a have a God complex... they can alter the truth... So, what do you want to believe... What is true or what is alter. Make your decision. Again, whoever anyone choose to make love, or in this case have sex with, is not our business. It is only a problem when they want everyone else to accept this as the truth. The time has come to begin restoring



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