If you saw today's show, you know that the guests faced some tough choices. So we want to know what YOU would do if you were in their shoes.

runningaway2.jpgYou tell us: What would you do if a family member was refusing to attend your wedding? Or, if you had a gay family member getting married -- and you weren't comfortable with his or her relationship -- would you go the wedding? We want to know!

And, if your family is refusing to attend your gay wedding, tell the Tyra Show about it.


NEXT: Don't Ruin My Gay Wedding


 
To attend a gay wedding would be to give it credence and acceptability which I would never do. Its violative of God's word.
 
Dear tyra, I myself would not attend a gay wedding. It does not mean I do not love the person but obviously means that I do not approve of the sin. However, we can only act upon our conscience and if that bothers us then what is best is to not attend.
 
I dont think I would be upset if some people in my family did not want to come to my wedding. If they dont want to come i dont want them there. I would obviously be supportive of any couple expecially gay one because i am gay myself! Love is Love and people should be able to marry anyone they want to!
 
I am not married and am so tired of going to my friends wedding with others who are already married. but a gay wedding i would jump at the chance of attending, it would be different, i tell u what
 
Hi, Tyra. I was so proud of the mother for keeping her resolve even though you, the audience and her daughter tried to tell her that she did not love her daughter if she didn't attend her wedding. I wish she had stuck with it and not gone, because it was obvious that she did love her daughter unconditionally. Even if she hadn't gone to the wedding, of course she still would have loved her daughter. I think it was wrong of you to tell her that you thought she could be a better mother especially considering that you've never been a mother yourself. A bit of advice, Tyra. One of the worst things you can do to a person is tell them how to raise their children. Don't you think it would have been wrong of her to tell others about right and wrong, but turn her head the other way just because it is her daughter? You can't simply set aside your beliefs when it is convenient for you. I also want to say that I'm sure her daughter and her new wife are both wonderful girls and they shouldn't be loved any less because of their choices. But their choice was wrong.
 
We have to realize one thing, when you attend such a gathering, it has nothing to do with us approving such a life-style/ choice or being against it, we are attending to celebrate the big day of a dear person.. I personally attended so many weddings of (male female) where I didn't approve the relationship though it had nothing to do with the "being gay factor".. but who am I to decide for others, when I know for fact that I won't let anyone decide for me!! However, did that stop me from celebrating the happiness with my dear family members/ friends? no.. I guess it about time for people to Leave judgment to God, and start enjoying their times with the loved ones instead of drifting away from them.. life is short
 
Judge not many keep saying that the bible says. This shows your ignorance of scripture. The devils favorite misquote of the scripture is, Judge not lest you be judged. But he always leaves out the continuing context which says, "for with what judgement you judge therewith shall you be judged. Also it states in John 7:24- Judge righteous judgement. I am willing to be judged with the judgement that i judge. My judgement is this, that i agree with Gods judgement that homosexuality is a sin and if unrepented of in rejecting Jesus, will result in eternal seperation from God & heaven. Hate the sin but love the sinner unto their becomeing a new creature in Christ Jesus. See Luke 1:50 and obey virgin Marys commandment in John 2:5 and you cannot go wrong.....
 
Hello tyra,That was great show and only god can judge.
 
Hi Tyra! Im watching todays show, and let me begin by saying I am a married christian Mama of 3 beautiful children, we live in the Bible belt of Texas. And as a christian I would love to ask this young girls Mother who continues to quote the Bible if she has forgotten the part of the Bible that teaches us; It is also a sin to pass judgement on another. it is a sin to tell someone they are going to hell. I pray this mother can find it in her clouded heart to be proud that her amazing daughter has enough self respect and esteem to walk proudly in her own skin. GOOD LUCK to you two beautiful young ladies! GOD BLESS!
 
On your porgram today, this poor mother was being shoved in the corner by the "politically correct pro-homosexual" Hollywood attitude. I do not call them "gay" because most of the people I have met that are homesexual are anything but gay. They are some of the most unhappy, angry, intolerant people in our society. Just look at Perez Hilton (what a petty bigot), as well as the intolerant, vengeful protesters in Hollywood, who attacked their opponents when they couldn't bully people into voting their way. Look at the nasty, vile comments and disgusting remarks made against Christianity made by homosexuals, especially in San Francisco (like the billboard ridiculing The Last Supper). I don't know or care what Jack Black's sexual persuasion is, but look how he attacked and ridiculed Christ as a slam against Christians for the defeat of legislature on homosexual marriage. (Instead of dressing up like Christ and ridiculing Him, why didn't he dress up like Mohammed since the Muslim faith also opposes homosexuality? I tell you why - because they would not tolerate such an obnoxious abuse by him, and he knew it.) They are not satisfied by civil unions; their next step, had that legislation passed would probably have been to try to force Catholic and Fundamental Protestant churches to go against Christian principles by demanding to be married in the santuaries, which most Christain would consider blashemy. There are already churches that accept them, but they want EVERYONE to be forced to accept them. They bigotry is and bias is so one-sided, too. Just look at the way Reggie Williams was treated simply because he expressed his religious convictions against homosexuality - which is still prevalent in the way Carrie Prejean was vilified and attacked by Perez Hilton. I believe that homosexuality is against God's
 
To Mike (802am) Tho homosexuality is wrong & a scriptural sin, One should never hate a person for calling themselves gay (a misnomer), neither should anyone hate someone for any reason. for to walk in hate is to walk in darkness (1st John 2:9,10,11) and is equivalent to a murderer (1st john 3:15)... If any person will believe God and invite Jesus into themselves and not be ashamed to say so then Holy spirit will make himself unashamedly of you also. Follow John 8:12 and you will have the inherint assurance of never ever being confused concerning religion.
 
Hey Tyra folks, I have been to a Gay wedding and I loved it. I am gay and I did not choose to be like this. Do you really think people choose to be Hated for just about everything they do? Do you think they choose to be like that, come on really? If they decide to be happy with who they are and find someone who loves them for that then Love is Love and it can't be stopped not even by a torn hearted religious rightous person. People sin daily and are unhappy with their lives. Go to the Gay wedding and see what true happiness is really about.
 
I watched this show and I was disappointed because Tyra attacked the father. Just like they want us to accept their decisions in life they also need to accept the parents view. If my daughter came and told me she was gay and wanted to get married I would tell her I love you but I will not be apart of this. I have the right to my own decision not to support what i believe is wrong.
 
HEY IM GOIN TO A GAY WEDDING ONSATURDAY ITS MY SIS AND I DONT KNOW HOW I FEEL BOUT IT LOL BUT SHE MY SIS SHE LIKES I LOVE IT I WILL ALWAYS SUPPORT HER
 
Dear Tyra, You made a comment on your show that you do not understand how a mother can visit a murderer (son/daughter), but not go to a gay marriage of thier (son/daughter). These mother's and father's believe that a gay marriage is a sin as well as a murder is a sin and visiting a son/daughter is not the same as being there for the sin. a mom or dad that will visit a son/daughter in jail b/c they murdered someone is not the same as being there as they were killing someone. So, being there for a gay marriage is the same as being there as someone is being killed. You can still love the son or daughter and support them outside of the sin, but to be present for the sin is very different.



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