If you saw today's show, you know that the guests faced some tough choices. So we want to know what YOU would do if you were in their shoes.

runningaway2.jpgYou tell us: What would you do if a family member was refusing to attend your wedding? Or, if you had a gay family member getting married -- and you weren't comfortable with his or her relationship -- would you go the wedding? We want to know!

And, if your family is refusing to attend your gay wedding, tell the Tyra Show about it.


NEXT: Don't Ruin My Gay Wedding


 
Wow as a mother with two gay children who I love dearly. Hell yes I would attend their wedding and would be proud of it. My God teaches love not hate. And he said that we were all made in his image!! and that he loves us. My kids didn't ask to be gay they were born this way. So stop peaching hate and making gay's and lesbian's , have every right that everyone else have to love marry and be happy. And i applause you Tyra for discussing this because if more people talk about it, and let them know they are not alone, we would have less suicides in our young teen population, and in the Gay Community. Love thy brother as thyself, be not judge as ye are judges. So now all Thank you Tyra...keep the movenment flowing...Love not Hate!!! I signed my name theCaring1, only to protect my childrens privacy, not to hide. I'm proud of my children.. Love you Tyra
 
Hi Tyra I do watch your show sometimes and I'm happy to see how you've been helping people to fulfil their dreams and to express themselves. I've seen your overwhelming love for the homosexuals and that is great, but it does not mean compromising with their behavior. Homosexuality is wrong. It is against nature. Animals teach us, insects teach us, they mate the opposite sex. If we can't learn from God's word, then learn from nature. Read Leviticus 20 and especially Verse 13. There was a time when they were being put to death, but now we have mercy from God, mercy to come to God and tell Him that you what you're doing is wrong and ask Him to help you fight the habit and He will. "Lord I pray my message will be recived in Love in Jesus Name, amem. Love you Tyra
 
I have no problem with gay marriage, but if I did and, were therefore uncomfortable, I would still attend the wedding. I may not always agree with my loved one's choices, but if it's something they truly believe in...I'll support them.
 
Hi, i really dont think its wrong to marry a person of the same sex. i was raised to respect peoples beliefs and decisions on who they love and want to spend their life with. i support gay marriage 100% because every one has the right to marry who ever they want. i agree with tyra when she said that there are killers and bad people in jail, and still have the support of their families. i know that im not in the moms shoes, but at least the support is important. love is what matters.
 
Really, I don't claim to know what God thinks about people who support gay marriage. I have pretty mixed beliefs on it. I have been raised Christian and with an understanding that homosexuality is "wrong", however, I have an even firmer conviction about how judging people and being unkind is wrong. I feel very sure that a person being unkind to someone makes Him sadder than probably just about anything. Just something to think about.
 
Really, I don't claim to know what God thinks about people who support gay marriage. I have pretty mixed beliefs on it. I have been raised Christian and with an understanding that homosexuality is "wrong", however, I have an even firmer conviction about how judging people and being unkind is wrong. I feel very sure that a person being unkind to someone makes him sadder than probably just about anything. Just something to think about.
 
Hi this is Lexus I am 30 year old Puertorican Lesbian. Tyra do not worry about these fake people judging you. God has been blessing you on a daily bases. Do not get discourage. You are doing what your heart tells you to do. So do not let these people who are trying to put you down saying negative things about you. Do not let it get to you. God is love .God is peace God is perfect. The same fake people in here writing bad things about you are the same people in a church judging a brother or sister. That same mouth they praise the Lord with is the same mouth God is listening to them all as they judge you. The Holy Spirit moves through anyone gay, straight, black, white Latina. It touches whoever it wants and moves through whoever he wants. We are all chosen Tyra. Yes I am a lesbian and I am with a woman, but you know something I am complete I am not wasting any mans time by pretending I am straight for what to hurt myself and be empty. No I am being myself. That is what you call being real. God helps us all. Just because we are gay does not mean we are going to hell. We are in hell already but God is still with us. Hey you the same one preaching and judging Tyra .You are not God and the Bible also tells you to love thy neighbor we are all brothers and sisters. To love one another. So stop trying to change the world because that is God's job and he made us all the way we are. We did not wake up and say oh today I will wear this and I want to
 
I personally would still attend the wedding even though I don't agree with it, but I'm not the one that has to answer to God about this situation, the person engaging in the homosexual Marriage is the one that has to live with it. It is not our place to Judge, It's God's, he is the creator, and he will do what he sees fit, we are in no position to tell people what is right and what is wrong, it's ok to inform them that it is against God but even not everyone believes in the creator. People need to realize what the base of sin really is, Not only is it an act against God but it is something that Ends or trys to destroy life, God is the creator of life and if something is working it's way to try to destroy it, God stops them before they can start. Taking Drugs of course is a sin because all of the toxins break down and destroy your body preventing you from prolonging your life, Excessive Drinking is a sin because it takes a toll on your liver, which is an organ that you need (Hence the name), last but not least being Gay is a sin, not only because it is written in the Bible, it is because 2 abled bodies of the same sex cannot come together and make children, that is why God Created men and women to complement eachother to join together and make new lives. True even within hetero couples, some cannot produce children, maybe it wasn't in God's will, but if 2 able bodied beings Male and Female, Man and Woman come together, that equals making new lives. Christians don't just blow up at Homosexual couples, just because a Majority are homophobic.
 
I am a lesbian...yes a LESBIAN..i have been with my girlfriend for 3 1/2 yrs now and next year we will be getting married. Like it or not!! As stated above, we all sin, no one is perfect! Whatever floats your boat is whatever you should do, as long as it keeps a smile on your face. My family is Catholic, and my future wifes family is christian, 75% of our family support us and those that dont who gives a sh*t! For those of you that have so much to say about how wrong tyra is, your full of it...we are all equal and if you are disgusted or unhappy to see a homosexual couple...turn your head and keep it moving.
 
That was the first Tyra show I have seen. I was up late and watched it. I went to bed, sickened to the core of my being. How far this country has fallen. It was a travesty. The mother caved in because of the pressure. Tyra is decieved and deceiving.
 
How on earth did this turn into a religious issue? Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs but this is just stupid. I havent even seen this episode but for all of you who have and are now complaining about it no-one was forcing you to watch the show, it's not as if you couldn't change the channel or turn the TV off and do something else. Why do you condemn love of any kind? What right do any of you have to judge what kind of love is right and what kind is supposedly wrong? For me any kind of love be it for your partner (of either sexual persuasion), parents, children, siblings, friends and pets is definately right. And anyone who has ever been in love before will know that you cannot, no matter how hard you try, choose who you fall for.
 
My brother is gay and I have never seen him happier. Our grandmother doesn't agree with his lifestyle but I honestly think if him and his mate decided to marry that she would attend out of love for him. I don't think that someones happiness should be put at stake because of their sexuality my brother is AMAZING...I would definatley attend and be the PROUDEST, HAPPIEST sister EVER!!!
 
Tyra, about your comparison to "the mother who goes visit her child to prison AFTER he committed a crime and a mother who should attend the gay marriage" is just ridiculous because the mother was not present there when her child committed the crime, she would stop her child if she was there! why this one is judged as to not loving her child unconditional if she is not there to attend this wedding knowing that it is a sin. I think she does love her a lot because she wants her to be on the right path. I applaude the mom to say "I can't". But she ended up attending the wedding as part of human being weakness. Being a Christian is to follow the Christ's way, not to convince other to do the opposit, we all know sex between same gender is a SIN, make yourself happy or not, because it is not about to make yourself happy but to make God happy. And it is ignorant for those who call themselves Christian to say that it is OK to do so or to even accept or support it. Please learn the bible and know the God's way, be an educated Christian. Don't use HIS word for your convenience, and don't spread the enemies way to say that it is OK to accept or support the sin. IT IS NOT.
 
Tyra,the Holy Spirit of God is sickened by what you are promoting. You say you go to church, well so does satan. He can never be redeemed/saved,or forgiven. I pray for you, that God will open the eyes of your understanding, before it's to late. You pressured that mother into doing what was against her VALUES & FREEDOM of CHOICE. You did'nt make her do it, just as the devil did'nt make Eve do it, "SHE CHOSE TO". Was this just a ploy to up your ratings? It was hard to watch what you subjected that mother to. How could her daughter sit there and let you harress her mother as you did, just to get her way. What kind of church do you attend? Do you believe in the Holy Bible as the Word of God? Everyone could see that her family loves her. How can you ask someone to put their beliefs/values to the side to please someone else? Why not respect the mother and step-dads values. Did they get any money for the performance? How much are souls going for these days. We've been paying the price since satan lied to Adam and Eve, but thanks be to God for John 3:16. My son and other family members are gay, and so many other things besides gay, I LOVE THEM. I thank God that they love me inspite of my many short comings also. Love covers a multitude of sins. We have more to be concerned with. AMERICA NEEDS TO PRAY,PRAY PRAY. Tyra you and the rich could choose to take some of that money and help bail out the needy, but don't let anyone pressure you, anyway, it's your money. GOD gave us "ALL" freedon of choice. As you are now, I'll never watch your show
 
As a 45 year old Gay Man who came out in 1981 at the age of 18 in the streets of Brooklyn NY, from a Puerto Rican family, I disagree with the couple trying to force her mother to go to her wedding. Forget relgion, for I grew up Catholic, converted to Pentacotal, then to Born again Christian, so as you could see I have God in my life. The fact is that we are trying to force something on to people that they will never accept unless they are educated. Forcing only drives them away. One thing I do know every one that walks into my life I make sure they understand what homosexuality is. I help them understand that it is not a life style but a life. Yes I said a LIFE. One thing we all forget is that GOD created ALL. Yes even homosexuality, and yes even the devil. So who are we to say that this is wrong. One thing that drove me away from church is we get cought up in what people have to say. Read the bible your self and study it like your life depends on it and you will see that God loves us all. Stop being a Hypocrite by saying that Homosexuality is a sin but puts up a christmas tree and celebrate Christmas. "Jeremiah 10:2-4: "Thus saith the LORD, Learn not the way of the heathen, and be not dismayed at the signs of heaven; for the heathen are dismayed at them. For the customs of the people are vain: for one cutteth a tree out of the forest, the work of the hands of the workman, with the axe. They deck it with silver and with gold; they fasten it with nails and with hammers, that it



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