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Are you in a relationship - - but looking for love?

Go inside the secret world of Ashley Madison, the premiere dating service for millions of people looking to have affairs. While two million members of the site are in committed relationships and marriages, they log on looking for an affair -- and some have even left their spouses to be with each other! Tyra speaks with the site's founder and with a few members about how it has changed their lives. What will their spouses say?

You Tell Us: Would you ever cheat?


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wow i could tell that alot of people don't like tyra i wonder why well i just wanted to say that if i would ever cheat on someone i would think twice before doing it because i know that i wouldn't be that stupid to do that im very happy with my partner and i hope it stays like that i don't know why people can't just leave that person and move on you don't have to be cheating if you wanna be with different people then just be single and enjoy your self if you know what i mean!
Posted by Anonymous 06/29/09 3:18 PM
 
Are you kidding me? tyra stood there during the show and acted like she was a virgin and never had sex before.7 minutes, WHAT !!! If my girl, god rest her soul, ever said get off after 7 minutes we would have never had 3 great kids. SO WHAT if this girl and guy have a strong sexual desires. Stop trashing people because they live differently than you do. Maybe thats why your man cheated...7 minutes...GET A GRIP AND A LIFE.
Posted by Tim 06/29/09 3:02 PM
 
not sure how i feel about the website because my man did it the old fashioned way. And I never saw it coming. I was in tears for that man today. I too have 5 kids and my man cheated on me with my neigbor and friend and is now less than a year after leaving us for her, engaged to her. What's worse is that her husband had chaeted on her and left her just a year previously and I was there for her. I am still a year later in shock and am aunted daily by this. Cheating tore apart my family that was supposed to be forever. In my case a website would not have made a difference. But I could not after feeling this torturous agony feel good financially benefitting off another's pain. People have killed over this, children suffer over this, my ex is costing the tax payers tons of money because of an ugly family court battle we are now in after ten loving years. I would hate that on my head and conscious. Armegeddon must be coming if a commercial can be made for this, I only hope he or she uses the site on each other cuz what goes around comes around.
Posted by michelle 06/29/09 3:02 PM
 
Tyra DEFINITELY got PAID to have the website and owner on her show. Tyra got cheated on? She probably deserved it. She's judgemental and can be easily bought. Why are you helping this sick website?
Posted by jill 06/29/09 2:57 PM
 
How much is that website paying you to advertise??!!! Tyra is always so self righteous and acts "holier than thou" to everyone on her panel- now all of a sudden she cannot mention this website enough! It's probably more than 30 times! I wonder how much money Tyra took from them to plug there business. -She's a joke and a hypocrite. You guys will do anything for cash... pathetic.
Posted by Rosy 06/29/09 2:44 PM
 
that woman is rediculous. if you are not happy in a relationship you should get out of it before either you or the other person gets hurt. ITS COMMON SENSE. i would never cheat if i am not happy i leave simple as that.
Posted by Courtney Mastine 06/29/09 1:46 PM
 
What is wrong with the world we live in?? I don't understand how this country has come to people wanting to hurt people. I can't believe this website can even exist, it is morally wrong and in a way advertises and encourages people to go have sex with other people. What would happen if a teenager came accross this website and saw their motto Life is to short. Have an affair. I mean seriously??? What kind of message does this send, marriage means nothing, if your not happy then go cheat...I am completely appalled by this. It hurts me to see that the beautifl country we live in has come to this.
Posted by Melissa Reurink 06/29/09 1:02 PM
 
HOW CAN THIS WEBSITE PASS!? Why is this show airing on commercials? Why are their more than 4 MILLION people on this site, wanting to cheat or HELP other cheat? This needs to be shut down! No question about it! Noel says that none of this is his fault. That if someone wants to cheat, let them. That it's that person ruining their own lifes. He also says to make sure, that if you DO want to keep your marriage, make sure that they have counseling or a backup plan. WHAT UTTER BULL!! He is CLEARLY responsible for all this. He is HELPING them. What if his partner used HIS site, to cheat on HIM? How will he take that? He said he's never been cheated on, so far that he knows. He does have a point though, where if a person is going to cheat, it's them ruining their life for the fact that they are doing this. But Noel is ENCOURAGING THEM!! His slogan is "Life's too short. Have an affair." That's almost an invitation, not to mention the WHOLE site!! I can't believe this. I PRAY this site goes down and HE get's in serious trouble.
Posted by Edrianna 06/29/09 12:32 PM
 
I know cheating happens and people are unfaithful but I think this Ashley Madison website is WRONG.Shut it down.Instead of saying "Hey you are unhappy, come online and cheat!" say "if you are unhappy GET A DIVORCE!" Cheating is a pathetic excuse. If you are miserable enough to want someone else then leave. Simple! Cheaters need to think if you are so unhappy and are cheating how would you feel if your spouse/partner started doing the same.You think they are not unhappy with what your doing?. To the founder of Ashley Madison, remember KARMA and dont be surprised if one day you are facing the same problem your customers partner is dealing with.
Posted by Sonia 06/29/09 12:17 PM
 
I think the Ashley Madison site should be shut down! You are breaking up families and it's not right. Yea people are going to cheat if they want to but you make it so much easier! I had heard of this site before because an online friend had been cheated on by her husband but I feel like by you Tyra making a show about this site only makes it known more by the millions of people!
Posted by Mechelle 06/29/09 11:53 AM
 
And we wonder why our world is so messed up. This should not even be an option to anyone. The only thing that will give you TRUE happiness is surrendering your life to Christ/God our creator. The whole purpose for our being here in the first place is to worship Him. Next, we are to put others needs and wants above what we want. If we could all learn to take out the words "me" and "I" from our vocabulary we would all experience what real love and happiness is.
Posted by Rhonda Johnson 06/29/09 11:37 AM
 
So, a million people in the U.S. feel the need to cheat on their spouses. What does that say about people here in the U.S.? People are self-seving, selfish,with little ethic or moral center with no sense of committment or reponsibility. So, according to the creator of Ashley Madison, why don't we just promote those weakness? Why don't we create the tools, means and accessibility to break up homes, increase the risk of disease and the potential for pregnancies outside of wedlock. And not only that, advertise on our t.v radio stations, where children have access, because we have the means to do it. America, please don't complain in twenty years when the institution of marriage completely dissolves, the ideas of self-gratification increases, and the moral foundation on which this country was built dissipates. Good job Ashley Madison, in speeding this process up, it was, as the creator of the website so joyously stated, inevitable and on the cusp of a new frontier. I wonder what that frontier will be?
Posted by Corrine Horton 06/29/09 11:33 AM
 
Would I cheat? Absolutely not, mainly because I wouldn't want to be cheated on.....due unto others..... This website is a disgusting excuse for a business. I can't believe the man showed his face on national television. All of the people that CHOSE to cheat would have done it with or without this website, these people had underlying issues other than having the ability to find a partner so easily. The web just makes it too easy for people to cheat and I wish that a law would be established to take this away HOWEVER, I must say, if you use this avenue to cheat, it is not the avenue that makes you cheat, it is the desire. Tyra, one of my biggest issues with this show is that you opened the awareness to this site to many, many more people. You have helped this man become even more successful because you made it more people aware of the site.
Posted by liza 06/29/09 11:17 AM
 
TOTALLY RIDICULOUS!
Posted by wtf 06/29/09 11:15 AM
 
My take on this is, as painfully as this may reflect in our society; a woman or a man that feels like having sex with a different partner every day for 6 months, as "thrilling and tantalizing" as it may sound; reflects a profound sense of insecurity and the need to get reaffirmation of her/his sexuality, as well as their sense of being attractive to the opposite gender, I read in one of the comments: "I am a mature woman now and I did that before I was 25", meaning she doesn't do it anymore now?, we all did the serial dating/mating game; but to continually pursue "other" partners has to go against the nature of human sensitivity and intimacy; and if anyone "must" cheat on their signiff. other or your spouse, you need to seriously analyze what's propelling you to seek other sex partners in the form of "perfect strangers". If I stay online too long, invariably; especially at night, I find myself being the target of unwanted attention, by girls as young as 16; even though I tell them I'm over 50, and they have very fixed "sexual" ideas of what they would like for "us" to do! My question for those "Lolitas" is: after seeing what happened in Boston to those two "craigslist professionals" (one was killed by the Med student), do you still feel like inviting a perfet stranger to come into your bedroom?
Posted by Serg 06/29/09 10:30 AM



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