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Are you in a relationship - - but looking for love?

Go inside the secret world of Ashley Madison, the premiere dating service for millions of people looking to have affairs. While two million members of the site are in committed relationships and marriages, they log on looking for an affair -- and some have even left their spouses to be with each other! Tyra speaks with the site's founder and with a few members about how it has changed their lives. What will their spouses say?

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wow i just saw this while on the treadmill and i just couldn't believe what i was hearing but it was a good thing since i couldn't get off the treadmill for about 20 mins lol (i had to leave bc i had work later on) the website is ridiculous and that woman who confessed to her husband that she's been having affairs behind his back is unbelievable. Skank...
Posted by alyssa 07/02/09 1:09 AM
 
This website is completely immoral. I'm only fifteen, but i would never get married and say my vows to my whole family and friends, while having any doubts in my mind. It's ridiculous. What about the children? One of the woman's children is definently old enough to watch this show and discover that her mom cheated through a website. She's going to think differently of her, or at least I would, and have no complete meaning of what a good, successful marriage is. The children need the most attention if they decided to raise such a big family, their sex life should be left second in priority.
Posted by Mandy 07/01/09 3:50 PM
 
I am watching the show right now, and I can not believe what I am seeing. I am married and watching this to me feels like a joke to marriage. If you are married and looking for a website to help you cheat then get a divorce! Marriage is sacred and should be held sacred. My feelings about the man who invented the website is just utter disgust! How can his wife sleep at night, knowing that her husband is contributing to ruining other peoples marriage? Yes it's just promoting it, but to me that feels like he's saying it's okay. I only promote things that I agree with. So to me he agrees with infidelity, yet he's married? Why be married? Also in this episode he says that on his website it says "Before you go down this path make sure you can't repair your marriage." I looked at his website to see where it says that, and it doesn't!!!
Posted by Ashley 07/01/09 8:38 AM
 
After being faithful for 23 years with a man who is set in his ways and does not see'outside of the box' I have learned via Ashley Madison that he is the absolute love of my life and there is no other man for me. Just last year in ONE of our bed-room battles he said to me "Do you think another man would want you?" I am attractive, blonde, slender and fun. He also good looking, and hard working-an excellent provider for our family of 5. However our bed-room became stale and repititious after 23 years-a place of many battles over sex. So when he made this insulting comment to me I had to react. By accident I dicovered Ashley's place and had NO PROBLEM finding other men that would want me. Hooking up with one of them was like having a 'reset button pushed.' I felt sexy and empowered. I learned that the love made with my husband was the best love I could ever think of having. This web-site gave me the validation I needed without strings attatched. I love my husband and would never leave him and I learned this through Ashley Madison.
Posted by with the love of my life 07/01/09 8:00 AM
 
Enough with the "no judgement" arguement here. This is ridiculous, it is WRONG in EVERY WAY period! Yes it is a choice, and it's the wrong one! Stop trying to justify it by saying that they're adults and it's their decision because any decent human being can see that going outside a MARRIAGE, not a simple bf/gf relationship, is wrong in every civiliazed social group, religion, or family! People who say that it's not wrong obviously are the ones who dont put themselves in others shoes, like the CHILDREN or the wife/hisband of the person cheating! America's divorce rate is very high and people need to wake up and stop defending what is wrong.
Posted by Chrismarr 07/01/09 6:56 AM
 
I was so shocked by this. As a woman who was cheated on numerous times in a 9 yr span and was devoted to the same man, I am appalled that someone would offer an avenue to help people cheat. I have never cheated and I never would. If you are not happy, communicate and if it can't be worked out, leave the realtionship!
Posted by Kelly 06/30/09 11:27 AM
 
this website is just wrong!! it's promoting adultery! if you don't like your significant other or are having problems, get counseling, DONT CHEAT!!!! what's next a website promoting adults to commit suicide?! i mean come one noel, ur a complete jerk who just wants money.
Posted by anonymous 06/30/09 9:41 AM
 
Noel of Ash-Madison is A CYBER PIMP !!!!
Posted by Diesel 06/30/09 9:12 AM
 
This website disguses me. I am only 14, and I think this ashley madison site is unnecessary! Just because you can't find your love, doesn't mean you should go around trying to get hooked up. Maybe your trying to hard or maybe you just can't see that a person is trying to love you. I have no words for this site ashley madison, and for them to name the site after popular baby names? oh come on...
Posted by Katherine 06/30/09 8:32 AM
 
honestly this is horrible...my boyfriend and i were together for 3.5 years and broke up a couple of months ago; he's been really flirting with girls and been with this other girl. we're not even together and it has ripped me apart. people cannot just do things and not consider how the other person is going to feel. this is real life. you have to end it with the person you're with first before starting something new and definetely wait for things to cool down before you start dating other people
Posted by anonymous 06/30/09 12:24 AM
 
HEIDE BANKS now Tyra I aint the one to be startin nothin but sounds like Heides peoples owned yalls. Im just sayin. She could be massa. You say to her " Im free now Beeeooch" Aint pickin yo cotton NO MO!!
Posted by Fredweeezay 06/29/09 11:42 PM
 
The whole idea of Ashley Madison, and the creator of it absolutely horrify me. What's next, a multi-million dollar website that promotes murder?
Posted by Jessica 06/29/09 10:47 PM
 
does anyone consider how this would affect the children? does anyone consider anyone elses feelings but their own anymore? this sickens me. i walked in on my dad when i was 16 while he was cheating, and i have lost all respect for him. i have never looked at him the same.
Posted by Stephenie 06/29/09 10:41 PM
 
After watching the show today , i was speechless. A site promoting adultery ??!! A dream come true for some and a nightmare for others !! There are consequences to one's action . Sooner if not later ..
Posted by sue 06/29/09 7:50 PM
 
People who cheat are going to cheat no matter what, and they generally cheat for one of two reasons: (1) something is missing in their current relationship; or (2) something is unfulfilled within themselves. Leaving the current partner isn't always the right answer. Until you've walked in someone else's shoes, you really are no position to place judgment. I'm not espousing AM, but the enterprise is no different than the tabacco industry, the porn industry, the alcohol industry, the gambling industry or any other vice in this world. We're adults and make our own decisions.
Posted by No Judgment 06/29/09 6:34 PM



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