Fri. Jun 26, 2009 | 3:05 PM
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Are you in a relationship - - but looking for love?

Go inside the secret world of Ashley Madison, the premiere dating service for millions of people looking to have affairs. While two million members of the site are in committed relationships and marriages, they log on looking for an affair -- and some have even left their spouses to be with each other! Tyra speaks with the site's founder and with a few members about how it has changed their lives. What will their spouses say?

You Tell Us: Would you ever cheat?


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Did I hear Tyra say everyone cheats? That is NOT true. I have been married 10 years. Together almost 13. I would NEVER cheat on my husband. I have no desire to even be with anyone else. Even if there was NO CHANCE I would get caught. I still would NOT cheat. I have been 100% faithful from the day I met my husband.
Posted by Kathleen 11/02/09 5:28 PM
 
I have been reading the previous posts and it's crazy how many of you blame the CEO! He was smart! I have never and will never cheat or use the website but dont hate or blame the CEO. It's time for us to take responsibility for our own actions!
Posted by Joey DeDios 11/02/09 4:25 PM
 
I have just finished watching this episode and am pretty upset. Ashley Madison is in no way responsible for infidelity! I think it's very convenient for Tyra to blame a website and not the individual relationship for the act of cheating. Very little is wrong with a website like this, the responsibility lies 100 % on the users. Its similar to being upset at a gun store for a murder. Its a bad website but its us as a whole that keep it in business and thats the problem!
Posted by Joey DeDios 11/02/09 4:13 PM
 
If husbands and wife's took care of their significant others at home, they would not be out looking for someone to fulfill in ways that you are not. Listen ladies and gentlemen, if your not giving them what they want at home, they WILL get it somewhere else. Don't blame others for your problems!
Posted by theotherwoman 11/02/09 1:03 PM
 
This whole thing disgusts me. Cheating shouldn't be promoted. End of story.
Posted by Kendra 08/11/09 11:01 AM
 
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Posted by Wmzuyvwq 07/14/09 5:03 PM
 
My husband of 9 years went on this site while I was pregnant with our first child. He met a woman, Tammie Ausman, who is still to this day on the site. No telling how many men she has met and STDs caught through the site after 4 years. She's married also. It's disgusting and was an easy outlet for my husband to destoy our marriage for a no strings attached screw. I think it shows a certain level of low self esteem to have to look for a cheating partner on the internet. I can see a man doing it... but a woman? If a woman can't get a man's attention in the real world, she has got to have some serious issues in the looks department. I realize that people will cheat regardless if they want, but this site is absolutely disgusting and the owner is exactly what one person said - "a pimp" - for collecting the money on all this immoral sex.
Posted by a houston wife 07/14/09 8:31 AM
 
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Posted by Ozacditd 07/14/09 1:52 AM
 
I hate the idea of this website. The guy who was talking about it made it sound like cheating is the absolute last resort and you should try to work out your problems before you visit the website. In my opinion, if you are in a committed relationship were you made important vows and promises to that person, cheating is absolutely NOT an option!!! These people make me sick. I can't believe how self-fish they are. Everything goes back to "me me me me me". There is everything wrong with their partner, but did they ever stand back and see that maybe there was something wrong with them?
Posted by Liz 07/13/09 5:31 PM
 
Seriously. Stop airing this episode! This site has had enough promotion...marriage is hard enough without a talk show host "revealing" (or advertising) websites that give spouses the excuse that "millions are cheating". Cheating isn't ok...it happens all the time, but it scars and destroys marriages every day too.
Posted by Marissa 07/13/09 8:44 AM
 
I wish you had lady gaga on your show! I could watch all of it wit songs
Posted by Anonymous 07/08/09 2:29 PM
 
honestly if ashley madison is for people to have affairs shouldnt they shut it down?
Posted by Sally 07/05/09 3:40 PM
 
I don't believe in cheating, you could always break if off if your having second thoughts i don't like having the feeling of always wondering what my boyfriend is doing or if he is thing of me or someone else... so why would i put someone through that,
Posted by ashley 07/05/09 9:20 AM
 
honesty. try it some time.
Posted by billy 07/05/09 12:41 AM
 
I'm sure many would be furious to read this, but I am a married woman that met a wonderful man thru this site. I cringed when I saw it was airing as I don't want my spouse (or boyfriend's spouse) to get wind of its existence. It is easy for many to say "leave the marriage", "it's immoral", etc, etc, but both I and the person I have been seeing want to keep our marriages intact for the sake of our young children. People fall in and out of love, but when children are involved, falling "out" is much more difficult. We have been able to strike a near perfect balance of maintaining a relationship that is about more than just sex. (we actually have regular dates; lunch, dinner, movies, etc with no sex involved) We genuinely care about each other, each other's families and what they have going on in their lives. Neither of us speak ill of the other's spouse and ironically even defend them with each other from time to time. I am not saying it's right, nor am I saying it's for everyone, but it worked for me; it works for us. I think it's a great site as the intention is pretty clear, and ultimately people on here are not looking to leave or abandon their families, just in search of what's missing in their lives. I have and will continue to promote the site to those in a similar situation as mine; it has proven successful for other friends already, both male and female.
Posted by A previous AM member 07/03/09 9:26 PM



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