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What are barsexuals? Straight girls kissing each other for fun, attention and even money!

Tyra Show cameras follow ladies into the club on a "typical" night out, where they take Katy Perry's "I Kissed a Girl" further than you'd ever believe. Plus, Tyra talks to Dana, a straight 15-year-old girl who kisses other girls for attention. And Jill, Dana's twin sister, confronts Jill about her behavior. Finally, Tyra talks to Genesis and Treasure, who frequently lock lips to get attention from guys. But for the first time, Treasure is ready to admit all that kissing has led her to develop feelings for Genesis. Now she wants their barsexual ways to turn into a real relationship!

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I think they are attention-seeking whores. Girls who do that have insecurities and issues they need to deal with.
 
Stop showing this trash. Being gay is just opening up more unethical doors. This promote polygamy, bisexuals, and now barsexuals! Being gay is a sin it is clearly in the bible. Bring back quality TV on all networks. Madonna and Britney were wrong and so are your guests on the show. We are sick of the trash.
 
Treasure.... She is extremely sexi. Hook me up tyra... Twenty-three, Jamaican beauty!
 
to me its just nastiness..I would NEVER do that it makes me nauseous just talking about it but if they wanna do it let them but in thier own private area to me any type of PDA is gross anyways.also, if ur doing it to impress guys...you have low self esteem..srry to say.
 
Oh my god..I was getting so frustrated watching todays tyra show about the so called "bar-sexuals".I'm not gay or bi or a barsexual,but I feel very strongly about this subject.I cannot believe that females would lower themselves so low JUST to impress men.I really wish females had more confidence than that.If they were really as "outgoing",and "carefree",as they SAY they are,then they'd know how a REAL lady with class gets guys.I just can't stand this new "fad".I cannot stand Katy Perry for starting this stupid trend.As much as everyone hates to admit it,on this subject,Tila tequila would do girls more justice than Katy.I couldn't help but cringe everytime that song played in the Tyra studio background.I just really wished girls had more dignity,than to be lower than soap scum.It's just so gross..If you really love a girl,I'm all for supporting that but if a girl just wants to do it for some drinks or guys,than THAT is BELOW prostitution.Looking at todays societyand media,I'm so ashamed to say that PROSTITUTES are getting classier by the second.
 
Lol I feel sorry for these girls...I have never had to kiss a girl to get a guys attention or for a guy to buy me a drink! I guess this girl kissing is just for the ugly girls who feel insecure about themselves and would rather have negative attention then no attention whatsoever.
 
The thing that nagged at me during the show was all the girls admitting to kissing girls for attention all add "I kiss girls... but I'm straight!" Like the kissing for attention from men is fine but the idea of being thought of as lesbians is offensive. I've been to bars and must admit I did do that once or twice. The feeling of all eyes on you is intoxicating but in the end not worth it. Men assume that once you kiss it makes you available to them, once you accept drinks from them that you owe them and no longer accept boundaries now that you've proven you're a "bad girl". I've seen my lesbian friends, I'm a bisexual myself, being attacked by people for who they are. They fight daily to be accepted and not thought of as entertainment for men. Women like them need to look into themselves and see why they need that attention from men. To see why they would kiss a gender they aren't attracted to just to draw men to themselves. The action isn't offensive in itself, it's the reason why it is done that is a problem.
 
i think that if you do not like girls you should not kiss also the girls in the pic they are crazy barsexuals because they only went someone to watch and they went free drinks but you cant make then stop doing it also if they went to drink then in stead of kissing other girls for a drink get a life and get a job! and when girls do that men think that girls are so easy to get just because they are with a nother girls making out for a free drink then when 2 girls really do like girls and they are together and a man thinks "well these girls just went a free drink so ill give them one" the girls say "no" we dont like men theman gets man and then what happends? so people need to stop it because if 2 girls do eacher then they go to a bar men think it is all sexy and wont leave them alone ey do not only make lesbians look bad but also make women in general look stupid. I don't need to search for attention like that because by the end of the night you know those girls are just being laughed at by men & women alike. As for the boyfriend he also has ZERO respect for his girlfriend. His response when Tyra asked how he felt he seemed to just like the fantasy, just like the guys from the bar. love, lexus message me on my yahoo! ♥
 
I would love to be freinds with the girl on toidays show who was denied the compassion from her freind..I am in another state but wouls like to talk to the girl i have not the slightest idea what her ame was but she was hot!and I am also attractive mixed and sexy and looking for freinds and more hook me up tyra..........
 
people might as well save their breath and emotions people are gana do what they was! its really not that big of deal seeing girls kiss other girls its everywhere in life get over it! lesbians can not say these girls on this show are making them look bad they are makeing themselves look bad by makeing there own choices in life. all in all its just for fun if it leads to something else what does it really matter just as long as the two peopl are happy society should just except it, its not gana go away
 
To the lady that said she wouldn't want her daughter to watch the show because of the girl-on girl action.Girls kissing girls, does happen in real life, You cant hide everything from your child.There is murder and all types of bad stuff on the news, but that doesnt mean we shouldnt watch it.There are more important things to worry about in life,than girls kissing.
 
::continued:: we are just like every other couple in love, having dates with eachother, and enjoying eachother's company and I don't like the disprespect shown to me but I could care less as long as they do not disrespect my girlfriend, the girl I adore, and I think that's something we can all relate to. You know screw what happens to me but if you harm the people I care and love about then it's a different story. My girlfriend and I have actually been grabbed sexually, when we do go out dancing I think people might assume we're the barsexuals because we dance together and we don't fit the sterotypical butch lesbian, keeping in mind we're never too lewd while dancing either. With the occasional kiss, beyond that our behavior is quite acceptable and the thing is our reputation is ruined in clubs or bars because of barsexuals. People assume two chicks hooking up and making out is hot and they assume all girls are and it can get out of hand when they try and actually touch us and are all over us. With much love to everybody and a reminder just be respectful. To the men that are treating women like this, respect that lady no matter how out of control she may act because that's somebody's little daughter, that could be your daughter someday and how would you want the men to react to her. To the women out their who are these barsexuals try and think of the consequences because I would love to have a safe world to live in where I don't have to be worried about being touched innapropriatly anymore. It might be filling the void but is it worth it to have other girls feel unsafe? Love, Toni
 
Watching this show made me so mad that young girls feel it necessary to kiss other girls to get attention from boys! I think that when I was a preteen/young teen, this sort of thing was just coming to the rise. I think is just sad and pathetic. These girls need to think about WHY it is that boys like it when they kiss their best friends? The boys think its hot, and as they get older they think "ohh, maybe I can get these girls to have a threesome with me", or "this girl is EASY". To me, if you want to get the attention of a GOOD man with a good heart and a real respect for women, you won't find him by kissing your best friend. A man who really cares for you won't make you do that to feel good about yourself. Girls kissing other girls at a young age can only lead to a life of being seen as nothing but an object of sexual desire. Much like a prostitute. Maybe I'm being a bit harsh, still...sad but true.
 
I agree with the lesbian guest in the audience, although she may have seemed irrational because of her passionate connection to the issue. I also have a passionate connection to it and, as a lesbian, also feel that the actions of these "bar-sexuals" do in fact trivialize gay and lesbian relationships and marginalize the struggles of the gay community. Whether or not they want to admit it, they are contributing to societal misconceptions about being lesbian and making it more difficult for us to be taken seriously. My sexuality IS NOT A CHOICE- their behavior IS. As long as they continue to act in such a juvenile way, society will continue to believe that being gay or lesbian is a choice and one that is based on being viewed by others as "sexy" or "social."
 
I don't think everybody should behave in a mature or "normal" fashion because then everybody would fit in a box and the diversity in people makes us so unique and wonderful. I think people should live their secrets those girls were having a very honest moment with themselves, they kissed girls for men's attention because it's what they crave. On a different note I am genderqueer, born female, who only dates women. I just want the barsexuals to know that no matter how harmless it may seem there are always consequences to their actions. I have the most wonderful, beautiful girlfriend. I couldn't ask for more, but I agree, I am not taken seriously. Everybody would like to think we're experimenting and any given day that I walk down the street or into an establishment of any kind I am not shocked to find the single or group of males that yell perverse things or ask my girlfriend and I to do things together. I'm protective of her, I know what men are capable of doing and I would hate to think that something would ever happen to her. I adore her and I hate how people make comments or requests to her, they don't understand that she is my love and that they are talking to her and imagining her in demeaning ways that hurt her and all girls they do it to. It's a pretty awful feeling and I've experimented with dating men and I realized that holding their hand down the street wasn't a big deal it's easily accepted and people won't stick their heads out their windows and request a performance like they have when I'm with my girlfriend. I do kiss my girlfriend, we hold hands, we're romantic with eachother in a non lewd way,



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