Help! I'm trapped in the comfort zone, how do I get out?!
Routines. In many ways we depend on them. With our routines, we think we can accomplish everything. I'd never make it to gym if not for my routine. But that same routine can become a trap -- we set-up routines in our life so we can put our head down and just get through the days. Next thing you know, we're on autopilot, cruise-controlling through life. We look up and realize days, months, sometimes years have past and that's when we're smack in the middle of the Comfort Zone (insert scream and dramatic music here)!
Yes, the dreaded comfort zone. As kids, we promised ourselves we would never end up as Zombie-like adults shuffling from home to work and back. Comfort Zones can surround us in work and love and they're comfortable because they're safe places to hide. We think we can predict what's around the corner, avoid risk and not have to face failure or scarier yet -- success.
But fear not! Here's your escape route; all you have to do is choose it - like the Matrix red pill.
Whether you're stuck in a field you hate, stagnant with the one you love or still hoping to follow your passion, here are some tips to break out!
I Hate My Job!
A friend was doing well in the technology field but hated her job. She wanted out, but had no idea what to do. She talked to friends, searched the net, and became intrigued by event planning. She had no experience, so she took a six month course at a local college. Next, she took small jobs at big events and threw parties for friends and family. She then landed a job at an event planning company. Through networking, she eventually developed enough contacts to branch out on her own.
- Make a List: Write down what you do well and make a list of possible careers. Is your new career right in front of you?
- Research, Train & Network: Thoroughly explore your new field of interest. Enroll in classes and volunteer to gain experience. Ask an established professional if they would be a mentor.
I Love My Job! But...
I always knew I wanted to work in radio: when I finally got my opportunity it was just a part-time foot in the door. After a few months, it was clear that hard work alone was not enough to move up, so I took matters in my own hands. I got a meeting with the Station Manager's Assistant and explained my goals and made it clear I was eager and ready to move up. A few months later, I was made the full-time morning show producer. Now I'm a full-time radio host.
- Ask for More Responsibility: it shows initiative and your personal interest in the company's success as well as your own.
- Expand Your Skills: the more you can do well, the more valuable you are. Get certifications, take classes, and attend workshops. The networking can also open other opportunities.
My Passion is Calling...
My buddy was moving up the corporate ladder, but wasn't satisfied. He felt his true passion was -- cooking! So he quit his job, took out a school loan for a Culinary Arts school. He worked in a few restaurants until he got the opportunity to run his own kitchen and now has his own catering company.
- Be Honest with Yourself: there is a difference between chasing a dream and following your passion and it's as stark as William Haung and Oprah.
- Don't Quit Your Day Job: I wouldn't advise quitting in our current economic climate, but you can responsibly prepare for a transition. (see Research, Train & Network.)
Remember, comfort is easy -- breaking out of it is not. There will be hard work, sacrifice and you may have to start from scratch, but in the end -- it will be worth it. Don't be afraid to go for it! Life is too short.
Al Butler is the host of the popular radio show "Al B! In the Afternoon..." where he is known for his unique perspectives, sharp humor and strong opinions. Discouraged by their indifference, Albert calls on the twenty-something crowd to step out, step up and get moving. He'll challenge you to not just call for change, but to actually be the difference you wish to see in your society and the global community. This is his call to action.
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