Show some strength, ladies.
First jobs and promotions, ladies now your confidence will score you something else -- a guy. Gone are the days of strong women getting a bad rap, now it's actually a turn-on! So why the shift all of a sudden? Partially because guys like it when you're okay about yourself -- partially because of intrigue.
The number one reason the new, strong woman is a turn on to guys is because you're immediately letting them know you're not going to be too needy or emotional. When they do the math of how many arguments and fights that'll inevitably save them -- they're hooked.
More and more women are graduating from college and rising the corporate ladder, putting off marriage and having kids until later in life. Men like a woman who knows what they want and who isn't afraid to take charge. This means, even in the bedroom.
Do the math; the longer a woman waits to get married, chances are the more sexually experienced -- some say liberated -- you will be. Guys don't want to always be doing all the work. Today it's ok for women to be sexually forward and go after what we want. Sometimes all we want or have time for is a roll in between the sheets, just like men have been doing for years. When women are aggressive and take charge, guys don't have to worry about hurting your feelings when they don't call you the next day.
Of course, too much of a good thing can be, well, too much. It's good to remain sturdy in the beginning, but not rigid. If it's a long term commitment you're looking for, there is nothing wrong with revealing the softer side, once you've established yourself as a couple. In the end, we all know men need a strong woman who will take care of them. This doesn't mean you need to lose your identity or independence, but it does change the dynamics of a relationship. Guys want women who will challenge them and keep them on their toes. Just because you get married or want to have kids doesn't mean you need to sacrifice other parts of your life. After all, it was your confidence, intelligence and success that attracted your man to begin with.
