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Dealing with awkward money moments.

Money can get you into sticky situations just as fast as it can get you out of them. This economy is no place to be letting extra funds slip through your fingers, but you don't want to potentially offend a friend. Here's a few weirdo money-moments and how to get yourself out of them with grace.

A Winner Dinner
When going out with your friends, you don't want to get caught up in the funny money business. Usually, the problem is solved by splitting the check equally, but if you noshed a salad while your pal had a three-course meal -- that's a little unbalanced. To solve this cash conundrum, simply ask the waiter for a separate check, (but make sure to ask him in the beginning of the meal so he doesn't have to scurry to do it last minute.) If you have to throw in an extra couple of dollars here or there, you can trust with a loyal pack of pals your generosity will come back around to you. So if your entrée was $10 and your friend's was $12, maybe let that one slide a little.

Life Support
A "down on her luck" pal deserves a drink or a dinner on you, but that tight-fisted friend just needs some sense knocked into them. Often, a lot of us have that friend that somehow manages to sneak in and get you to financially support her social life. Treating a friend is a good way to show generosity, but you've got bills to pay too! Obviously, hanging out with a broke bud is more important than seeing the newest movie the night it opens. Compromise. Rent a movie and get a cheap slice of pizza instead.

Lending Library
Ah, the dreaded lending money situation. There's no right way to handle lending out cash to your pals -- and there's no right way to ensure you get it back. Try this -- if it's a significant sum of money, get the deal in writing. Your friend will most likely understand as long as you put it out there that you really want to help her, but you don't want anything to potentially come between your friendship. If it's fifteen dollars at the grocery store, just make sure she knows the difference between "it's on me" and "I'll spot you."


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Hello Tyra! I checked out your page for your show and I read about awkward money moments. Right now I think alot of people are having finacial issues, but the comments that were left were not from those in money situations. I guess I was looking for more. People should understand that jobs are being lost, families are falling apart, and the friend that you may have been able to borrow 10 dollars from needs 20 dollars for themselves. So what do you do? No jobs, no income, no resources? Is there any hope?
 
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Yeah it is awkward when a best friend buys everything for you until one day when they get sick of buying everything for you..It is hard to get through that either know you told them you dont have money..because maybe you lost your job and it is hard to find a new job to find in this twisted economy. Some people just don't understand that? do you have to kill someone to let them understand? pssshht.. = X
 
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I wonder if...... he kinda fooled all the people who know him but don't know him that well....... i've no idea... nothing much... doesn't affect my normal life much really..... I am kinda independent... myself is doing good at the moment..... depend on myself first, then nothing will go too wrong i guess........
 
well I don't think he's a mean person really... I don't see like..... he could be too mean to anyone..... many people got ambitions it's common... i think he's not bad at all... he just likes success that's all... i think i shouldn't think too bad of him...... he's not exactly nice..... but not that 'bad' either.... i often thought wrong of people... i thought they just 'hate' me or...... but found out later it's not like that.... people just want what's good for themself mostly that's all.... nobody really 'hate' me for anything... I think this time is the same... he just want whatever good for him... nothing much... but it's too surprise for me to find out like that....... outlook could be sooooo deceiving......
 
hi tyra...... i think your show is so good.... thanks for being like a fren to all the girls.... my prb is not about money but..... I know this fren from the internet..... through the internet it's even harder to really know a person.... in the beginning seem all fine but... later i just felt like.... he didn't seem want to really get to know me that much... the worse thing is...... i read what he writes on other sites..... things like he want to be the greatest, being the best make him feel great... there's nothing toward me there but..... when i read that i also felt a bit 'chill' for a minute... because... i just immediately thought of Hitler... what was the cause of the War... just because he think his nation is the best, higher then all others... want to be the 'greatest' could lead to terrible things sometimes... I bet he's not that serious but..... I just felt like a bit 'scared' when i read that... then i thought it couldn't be too serious...... but i would really want to stay away from someone like that.... it's really not that normal..... but for some spiritual reason I donno if i can get away....... I just felt like telling you that..... i dont feel very good.... i really thought of Nazi at that moment..... I really hope you does read this..... I don't feel good...... but I know it's not any serious anyway... it's really not serious...... just want to express out that's all...



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