Tue. Mar 03, 2009 | 1:33 PM

So many questions, so little time. We caught up with Jackie Guerra after the show so she could answer more of your questions. Find out if a relationship can develop after sex on the first date and if "Friends with Benefits" is ever a good idea.

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Posted by Yittknxc 07/15/09 5:33 PM
 
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Posted by Bjdohncw 06/28/09 3:26 PM
 
I dont think having sex in the first day causes problems or it makes it different after its all up to you and you make your decisions i mean ur body your decision.And i dont think it causes conflicts on trying to make a relationship work thats just between you and him to work out.
Posted by Cynthia 05/18/09 2:06 PM
 
I THINK ITS A BIG NO NO TO HAVE SEX ON THE FIRST DATE..BECAUSE WHEN YOU HAVE SEX YOU ARE MAKING A CONNECTION WITH THAT PERSON AND IF U CONTINUE LIKE THAT YOUR JUST SETTING UP YOURSELVES FOR A FALL.BECAUSE SOME WHERE DEEP IN THAT PERSON HEAD THEY ARE THINKING THAT THEY ARE NOT THE FIRST PERSON YOU DID THAT WITH..
Posted by Lydia Beckles 03/16/09 8:01 AM
 
No. It complicates things and sends the wrong message unless of course that's all you want in a "relationship". ANYWAY tyra, I'm writing to you because I have the worst headache ever and I think it's because of improperly trying to dye my hair. I bleached it to a light auburn, planning to bleach it later on to a blonde similar to your color (love your hair!) HOWEVER as I said I've been having the worst headaches ever and I'm thinking it's hair dye related. I googled and yahooanswered this and it seems I'm not the only one who's experienced this. I'm really scared, as were others, that this will permanently damage my health in some way shape or form... but the information on the web simply cautions against mistakes such as leaving dye in too long and whatnot and doesn't ellaborate on what exactly to do when you've messed up other than go to the doctor. I like to be more well-informed and well, seeing the doctor over a possible hair dye reaction would put me in a situation where my parents would probably prevent me from ever dyeing my hair and I really don't want that to happen. Of course, I'd rather stay healthy, but if that's not the cause I dont want to bring negative attention to it. So maybe... hair dye possibly fatal? show idea? Or am I and all these other bloggers worrying ourselves about temporary fume inhalation?
Posted by Faye 03/10/09 11:30 PM
 
I wouldn't ever have sex on my first date because of the fact that you never know how many girls that guy has sleep with and I wouldn't let him know that im easy like that.
Posted by Kirian 03/10/09 1:26 PM
 
I wouldn't ever have sex on my first date because of the fact that you never know how many girls that guy has sleep with and I wouldn't let him know that im easy like that.
Posted by Kirian 03/10/09 1:26 PM
 
Personally, out of my own experience, it does not really matter if you have sex on the first date or not, if you know the person or not... It all depends on what exactley you want from that night, how you bring your self out and the way you show that you know what you are doing... Men are different, and men want different things but on the fisrt date he thinks only about one... And trust me, it is not marriage and how to spend the rest of their life with you... If there is needed chemistry, you feel confortable and you want him too... Go ahead... If you are a real woman, and are able to make him feel like a real man... You should not even bother thinking if he calls you the next day or not and "oh, what whould he think of me?" In the first place you think about yourself, you please yourself... and trust me, there is no way he would not call you... The question is, how to get rid of him after???
Posted by Lex 03/10/09 8:46 AM
 
It depends on how well you know the person beforehand. If it's someone you're meeting for the first time - NO, if you want to develop an relationship. Someone you don't know well, they will assume you do that with every guy. If it's someone you've known, talked to, been friends with for a long time & you already know each other pretty well -- if it feels like the time is right, it can be fine. If you been exchanging sexy messages, then you go out & you don't want to do much, he's going to think you're disappointed in him.
Posted by Corinne 03/10/09 7:14 AM
 
that's cool and commendable particularly when looking at what today's generation is like. things change!
Posted by kadaulo mwachumu Malawi 03/09/09 1:41 AM
 
that cool and commendable particulary when looking at what today's generation is like. things change!
Posted by kadaulo mwachumu Malawi 03/09/09 1:13 AM
 
Umm no....He will Automatically see you as a bootycall duh!!
Posted by Bro0klYnGurl 03/06/09 6:04 PM
 
It depends on the situation. Generally, I'd say no. 2nd maybe. Haha.
Posted by Anonymous 03/05/09 9:00 PM
 
Jackie! I have to say that out of all the Latinas out there you are the most inspiring chica! You say it like it is and I love you for that! I watch all the Tyra Show's that you are on, and you make me feel so proud to be who I am! My best friend and I are always discussing how you should have your own talk show and put out all the issues that young Latinos are going through in today's society! Keep up the amazing work and best of luck con todo chica!
Posted by Vanessa 03/05/09 1:24 PM
 
I HAD SEX ON MY FIRST DATE! WIT THE MAN AM WITH NOW AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGATHER FOR 9YEARS AND HE STILL LOVES ME THE SAME AS IF I GAVE IT TO HIM THE 31 DATE WHAT IS THE DIFFRENT FROM THE FIRST DATE OR THE FIFTH?I DID NO HIM LIKE FOR EVER BEFORE WE WENT OUT.
Posted by MONICA 03/05/09 7:30 AM



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