(continued) is a COMPLETE package. Beyonce's not a bad kid, but she's nothing more than a booty girl. They come and go. Remember Vanity in the 70s? Apolonia in the 80s? Patra in the 90s? No one else does either. In time, she'll fade just like they did. Booty DOES NOT hold men. There's always a new booty that will come along. Marriage is about the two people who want the same thing. If you have to give a guy and ultimatum, ... you have your answer...

THANKS Brandi, PJ, and Anonymous! That song is a COMPLETE insult to women. And ultimatums DON"T WORK. I HATE that song also! Beyonce is a piece. THAT'S IT. That's how she's marketed herself. Sorry but her method is NOT what women should aim for. She's even deluded herself into believing now that she's from an upper class background and has gone as far as to insult the Jacksons. This from someone who made ice water for a family dinner. Ice water. If I were her parents, I'd have a law suit with the Board of Education. I've seen her carry herself in a classier manner,I know she's got it in her. She has chosen to cater to the lower elements of the flesh. Many of our young Black women have become deluded by the images of the rich and famous. Our young girls now believe that all they have to do is wiggle and they'll get men and get paid. The majority of the times you see Beyonce performing, she's shaking her vagina at us or throwing her butt at us. Isn't that how the average Cocker Spaniel catches her dates at the hydrant? I give men a bit more credit than to be so easily deluded. I know all men aren't morons. All that "alleged" talent and the best she can do is wiggle her butt. She's where she is today NOT because of her massive talent, but because of her booty. THAT'S IT. Trust me, she feeds into it. Women in general have come too far to fall for such nonsense. Black women have always had negative stereotypes associated with their sexuality and Beyonce is cashing in on it. I'm not impressed. Kim Coles can sing rings around her. Alicia Keys is phenomenal and FAR more beautiful and

Tyra, I was married at 19 had my first child at 21 second at 23 and now I am 36 and seperated...I am with all the guys out there you realllly have to know someone and have alot in common with someone before you make that commitment. Cold feet is not all bad. I just wanted to let you know that not all women want that ring or need that ring. I personally will never marry again. Single is not that bad I just live for my kids and not every women needs a man lol. I am doing just fine on my own lol

tyra. i have been in a relationship 4 18 1/2 years. abt 14 years ago is when i got my ring. when marrige is brung up around friends all he says y fix whats not broken. i kind of agree. we have 2 kids 2gether, live 2gether and we share our money. the only thing that will change is my last name. yea i would marry him 2morrow but things r going great this way. everyone that we know ask all the time when we r going 2 get married or whens the date. things r this way 4 a reason and when we do get married its going 2 b a big one. if ur pushed into marrige then divorce is right around the corner.

some guys just can't handle ultimatum especially from the women they believe they love,however most women we r afraid of turned-down by men but then that shouldn't be an excuse of not trying to make the one u luv yours forever.from me if u wonna marry him just go for it with no hestition cause atleast you should have tried and u know what if he leaves u just know he is cow who just wonna waiste your time without commiting to u;he deserves you not!!!!

Tyra, I don't think that it is a good idea for anyone to encourage a woman to give a man an choice to put a ring on her finger or she will walk. If a woman is desperate to be a wife she is with the man for the wrong reason. Falling in love does not happen at the same pace for everyone and if a man has to be rushed by a woman to the point of being a husband, what kind of wife would she be? Nobody should rush into it and should let it happen naturally!

I absolutely HATE that song!! And especially the meaning! I agree with the poster above. You shouldnt demand a guy give you a ring or walk?? Why would you want to a pressure a guy to do it instead of doing it when its right?

tyra, i don't think women should say "if you can't give this to me, i have to move on". The guy will feel pressured, and might give u the ring but it won't have come from him, he will feel forced into it. If the man wants 2 marry u, he will.