Hey Tyra i saw your show and i got a question, i know this girl for about 3 1/2 years now and we have been off and on cause she always cheated on me and when i went away for about 4-5 months and when i came back she started calling me and now shes trying to pay my bills and she and wants me to movie in with her and i love to death and want to be with her but. we were engaged before and shes trying to make things rite by treating me good and it bugs me thats shes trying to spend money to make me happy so what should i do? she also moved when we split and shes came to see me about 4-6 times so far and does that mean anything important? should i marrie her?

Hello I just wanted to comment on todays show..they brought up about having a child before marriage..I am recently engaged, and we were gonna plan the wedding within a year, but he had horrible credit and I have very good credit..so we decieded to wait till we are more settled and into a house. I love him and can't wait to marry him but honestly we can't afford to screw my credit up by gettin married, or at least we gotta buy a house first! Also we are tryin to get pregnant, only because he is going on 26 as I am going on 21. We both have agreed we want to have kids young so we can be young enuff when gran-kids come along! We both wanted to be traditional but we really want our first child soon! So I don't think its wrong at all to have a child then get married. Makes for a great ring bear or flower girl!!

I love this show. And i think tyra is doing something that is amazing for young women.. AND this show just proves to you what has happened to marraige these days i agree with jessica's boyfriend who wouldnt be afraid of the possiablities of divorice and i mean it has made me think several times over again if i want to get married, and yes i am recently engaged and i love this man with all my heart and i feel like now i know that i can get married because he is my soul mate but i understand where some of these men are comming from. Anyways keep doing what you do girl much love always watching !

-The lonley lady

Hey Ladies...I just tuned in and missed the comment that Lori made about getting your friends involved when you and your guy fight...do you mind filling me in?

Tyra I love your show. Especially today on the issue of men and getting them to commit. I have been with the same man for 21 years and have one child together age 15 and still not married. But I do desirably want to be married but he does not agree with marriage. I wish I would have done things differently bank when the relationship was young. Thanks for helping the younger ladies with these issues. Great show. I will miss your show when I return to work after my surgury is healed.

My husband is 8 years younger than me. I am 32 and my wonderful husband is 24. Age doesn't matter if you find the right person.

to me, this was a simple case of "He's just not that into you". all of those women should just move on. it's not that he doesn't want to get married, it's that he doesn't want to get married to you. it's embarassing to watch. get some self esteem, women!!

good show today but Tyra's dress was awful. it looked like something i would have been forced to wear to church when i was a kid and my parents were seventh day adventist. horrible horrible.

UCM,YOU ARE SO RIGHT ABOUT THAT,NOTHING WILL KEEP A MAN NEXT TO YOU .WHEN HE DECIDE IS TIME FOR A NEW MENU.IM PETITE,MY BOYFRIEND IS BIG,WHEN YOU MEET THE RIGHT ONE THERE IS NO LOOKING AT WHAT KIND OF TRUNCK SHE GOT .ME FROM THE NECK IN UP THAT ALL HE NEED IT TO FALL IN LOVE.I THINK AS WOMEN, THAT WHAT GOD HAVE FOR YOU,HE WILL GIVE YOU.AND IF YOUR MAN IS THE ONE GOD HAVE IN STOCK FOR YOU. YOU WILL SEE THAT RING .GOD KNOWS THE BEST TIME , TO GIVE YOU WHAT YOU WANT.EVEN IF YOUR MAN GOES FROM YOUR LIFE IF HES IS THE ONE FOR YOU,LIKE I SAY.HE WILL COME BACK.NEVER PUSH WHAT GOD DONT HAVE PLAN FOR YOU ..AND I SAY THIS CAUSE ALL WOMENS SHOULD WALK OUT WHEN SHES FEELING USE.BELIVE ME IF THERE WAS A LAW THAT I COULD MERRY MY SELF ,ILL DO IT.SINCE GUYS ONLY BE TRUTHFUL TO MISS WINDOW SHOOPERS AND MISS USING THEM FOR THEY MONEY.YEAH GIRLS I HOPE U KNOW WHAT I MEAN.

I understand what some people say about that but,there is no problems with womens that specting that after a year. That means that she is more responsible in more into the relationship and want to spend her life with him.he should see in think about that but,if he want to waste more years with her ,i think he should be a man in tell her thats how he want it to be.Mean while mr right is looking for her out there.thats how some of them are,dont plan to get more serious, But ,want to keep you while the right one is out there.

Hello Miss Tyra! I love you and I really enjoy your show! Before I comment on your topic... I just want to let you know that you are totally an inspiration to me. You allow alot of women to know that it is ok to have curves, because you can still be beautiful. Just by watching your show and hearing your input, it really makes me feel good about being in my own skin. You come off as a very humble individual, seeming very down to earth. I'd really love to meet you one day! You are beautiful inside and out! I am 21, and us younger women out there truly need more ladies like you to admire. I wanted to comment on the topic "Put a ring on it". I was with a "man" last year I was planning on tying the knot with. We were together for years, lived together for months, and engaged for only a short time. I really thought we were getting somewhere,turns out we weren't. I think engagement was probably the worst thing for our relationship, because I wasn't ready. Thinking you are ready and being ready is definitely quite the difference. Everything just went completely down-hill. I was just feeling like since we were "engaged" he felt he had me hooked. I felt he took advantage of me always being there to cook and clean. Eventually he started ignoring me and not wanting to go out. Whenever I just got fed up with him and with "playing maid" to make matters worse, his momma got involved. Let me tell you girl, saying that things got BAD is a complete understatement. You wouldn't believe the racial names she called me! What I'm telling you is just a little taste of my story. I'm glad

well, the real reason for the man don't want to get married is because the court system. it always favors the women. yes, we don't get married , to ever think about divorce but, we have to look out for what could happen. women are easy to get out of marrige. because they don't have alot to lose. they get the house, car , kids , allomony, child support, and they man don't get to wake up with the kids every day. plus: the women gets to a boy friend and living in his life.

What was the name of the book that you had on your show today about how to get him to put a ring on it. Thaks

Okay, Ladies...I have noticed some reference made to Beyonce's "Single Ladies (Put A Ring On It)". My question have you read the lyrics? I encourage all who reference the above mentioned song to read the lyrics and I believe that once you read the lyrics you will really see what she is saying. I will check back to see if there is any response.