Tue. Jan 20, 2009 | 2:09 PM
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You might be a player hateHER if you do any of these:

-You hold back employment opportunities from her because you might want to check out the job.

-You never, ever compliment her.

-You refuse to let her meet your new boyfriend.

-You're out at a bar and a cute guy comes up to talk to your friend. When she goes to the bathroom you tell the guy your friend has a boyfriend and start flirting with him instead.

-Your friend gets a new job and instead of going out to celebrate with everyone you make up an excuse so you can ditch the festivities.

-You've slammed her outfit repeatedly- - but that didn't stop you from going out and getting an exact replica for yourself.

-When she told you she got promoted, you dismissed it and dove in to a story about your own latest, greatest moment.

Tell us: Are you a Player HateHER?


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GEESH! everyone that is posting on this sight about whose right and whose wrong is a hateHER!!!
Posted by amy 01/20/09 1:45 PM
 
Friends gossip, and they gossip about their boyfriends. How will those two friends possibly gossip about their boyfriends and troubles, if one is her brother? poor girl losing her bff because of skanky reasons!!!
Posted by Kimberly Lison 01/20/09 1:38 PM
 
I personally feel like Jamie was being completely ridiculous. If you love both of them, and they make each other happy, what's wrong with them wanting to be together? I believe she was just selfish, and didn't want to compromise her feelings for the benefit of the people she supposedly "loves most", if you love them so much their happiness should come before your own insecurities about their relationship.
Posted by Tara 01/20/09 1:34 PM
 
Can you honestly blame Jayme for being upset with this situation? Put yourself in her shoes! Your brother, whom you are extremely close to, and your best friend, who you've grown up with , you'd be ok with them starting to date and "fall in love" with one another? Of course it's weird! If she hurts him, you wouldn't want to talk to her again, if he hurts her, there would be bad blood between your brother and you...why not avoid that whole situation? Britney went behind her back, that's mainly what's wrong here.
Posted by bob 01/20/09 1:27 PM
 
Not to mention Jayme knowwwws how her friend is in relationships... and clearly doesnt want that for her brother...and she was right!
Posted by Bob 01/20/09 1:27 PM
 
Can you honestly blame Jayme for being upset with this situation? Put yourself in her shoes! Your brother, whom you are extremely close to, and your best friend, who you've grown up with and played pranks on your little brother with, you'd be ok with them starting to date and "fall in love" with one another? Of course it's weird! If she hurts him, you wouldn't want to talk to her again, if he hurts her, there would be bad blood between your brother and you...why not avoid that whole situation? Britney went behind her back, that's mainly what's wrong here.
Posted by Bob 01/20/09 1:25 PM
 
I think Jayme's attitude on the show today was a little bit ridiculous. My best friend, Megan, is one of the most amazing people in my life. She supports me in everything I do and I do the same for her. Two years ago, I met Megan's older brother, Jordan. I knew at that moment that I wanted to be with him and Megan saw that. I didn't have to say anything about my new little crush to her before she began trying to work her matchmaking skills. Jordan and I are still together today, celebrating 2 years since our first date. If anything, our relationship has strengthened not only the bonds between Megan and I, but also between Megan and Jordan. I've also gotten to experience a new bond between our families. If Jayme were being a bit more open minded about the situation she is in, she could see how great a relationship between her brother and best friend could end up being.
Posted by Alex Beall 01/20/09 1:12 PM
 
No i am not a Player Hater I would not do any of those things well not too my real friends.... I Think that Player Hatehers are people who are not true friends and if you can do any of those too someone you call a friend you are fake.. anyways about the show I think the girl who had a problem with her best friend and brother being together is right because if my brother got with my BEST friend of years I would feel the same way its like we are all family none of this is going to happen I could never be okay with it but i would not want to loose my best friend but my brother means more too me than anything in the world ya know
Posted by Frances Walker 01/20/09 1:03 PM
 
I'm totally feelin the girl who's bff and bro got together. I had a friend who got together with my cousin who's like my lil brother and he also is two years younger. They also lied to me about it. The dumb thing is he was tellin her not to tell me because he knew i wouldn't like it, but then he told me him self. When i asked her...the trick lied about it. Dating family of your friends just isn't a good idea and that wasn't the first event with my cousin n my friend. It just doesn't work. I lost a really good friend because of that drama. They shouldn't have done that to that girl. It's just weird...
Posted by Megan Jemerson 01/20/09 12:57 PM
 
I was not able to watch Tuesday's show because of the presidential inauguration. Is there any other way I can watch it?
Posted by Yanzit 01/20/09 12:54 PM
 
From a womans point of view i would never date a "best friends" relative. It would be a very odd situation and likely to result in no friendship again. I do not think any of the girls were "hating" on each other though. It ended nice.
Posted by Susan Kearns 01/20/09 12:47 PM
 
Do these girls not know the laws of friendship? I thought that we learned that to come between family, career and friendships is against the rules! doesnt anyone have any respect these days! i am ashamed
Posted by gina d 01/20/09 12:39 PM
 
i dont care what they say FRIENDS SHOULD NEVERRR DATE BROTHERS OF THEIR FRIENDS! that is just a recipe for disaester!!!
Posted by vanessa 01/20/09 12:35 PM
 
the ultimatum that the sister gave the best friend was given BEFORE the relationship started. they went against it BEFORE they were involved with one another, so for that reason i see what this is all coming from. and did anyone notice that the sister had been lied to for months? that in itself is reason enough not to be friends with her anymore. who wants a friend that lies?! there is no more trust there just for that, regardless of anything else! thats what i call SELFISH!
Posted by Alex 01/20/09 12:26 PM
 
I am a secrete player hateher. I was on one of my best friends, she is so pretty and perfect and easy to get along with, and she didnt use to be so beautiful. Then highschool came along and i had competiton. She end up moving to a different county and switching schools because of home issues, and when she asked if i thought she should come back i told her no and she didnt. Now i regret it and miss her so much, we have been friends for 8 years now, and 2 of those years i have not been able to see her. My other best friend I dont see very often because i have a boyfriend, but when i do see her, im pretty much jealous of her from head to toe. Its a problem i had, from watching tyra i noticed that i have to look at it in a different point of veiw. My friends are so good to me and i treat them aweful because of jealousy. I need to notice that they werent as beautiful back then as they were today and its because they worked so hard to get there and instead of player haterhering i need to work just as hard. =] thanks tyra.
Posted by Marissea 01/20/09 12:20 PM



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