Tue. Jan 20, 2009 | 2:09 PM
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You might be a player hateHER if you do any of these:

-You hold back employment opportunities from her because you might want to check out the job.

-You never, ever compliment her.

-You refuse to let her meet your new boyfriend.

-You're out at a bar and a cute guy comes up to talk to your friend. When she goes to the bathroom you tell the guy your friend has a boyfriend and start flirting with him instead.

-Your friend gets a new job and instead of going out to celebrate with everyone you make up an excuse so you can ditch the festivities.

-You've slammed her outfit repeatedly- - but that didn't stop you from going out and getting an exact replica for yourself.

-When she told you she got promoted, you dismissed it and dove in to a story about your own latest, greatest moment.

Tell us: Are you a Player HateHER?


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I have known Lauren since she was a baby and her family for 35 years. They are a wonderful family and anyone would be extremely lucky to be a part of it. I was not able to see the show but from what I heard there was a lot of things said that is just not true.I know the way Lauren was raised and she has alot of love in her heart and she is a very good girl.
Posted by paula 01/20/09 4:36 PM
 
I agree that Tyra did a good job on the show today, from the clip it looked like the blonde was going to be the bad girl.
Posted by unknown 01/20/09 4:27 PM
 
I think Tyra did a good job on this show today. For all you saying she was making the blonde look like the mean one, she wasn't! If you listened, she talked about how they were BOTH right and listened to both their stories!
Posted by Mariah 01/20/09 4:08 PM
 
What is wrong with Lauren, and her mom? Come on, the same thing has happened to me to, just like every girl in the world. Lauren doesnt need to be competative and I dont see why. I thought she was really pretty, but her uglyness in the inside has made her ugly. I feel so bad for Jessica.
Posted by Jennifer 01/20/09 3:51 PM
 
I couldn't see this show today because if the all day inauguration coverage...I really hope I can catch the repeat because I wanted to see it so badly!!....I have a playerhateHer relationship with some of my friends and they don't even know it lol...I don't know why it just happens sometimes and I know it's not the nicest relationship to have with a friend but thats just how it is...
Posted by Sharontina 01/20/09 3:30 PM
 
i do not need a slap in the face thankyou. you heard half the story, and i would have sympathy if they were really her friends. my own grandfather commited suicide and she used to joke about it! i want to come back on so everyone can know what really happened! she has hurt me sooo much but nobody relly saw that. and for those wondering what happened with lunch....we didnt go. jesskah and i are still not friends and ive gotten mixed reactions to the show and preview.
Posted by Lauren 01/20/09 3:26 PM
 
I am a back women, I get hated on everywhere. Its not that I think Im all that but I take care of my self. To me this seems to be a problem for black women. It seems that if we feel a women looks a little better than us or have a little more than we do we have to hate. we should try to stick together. We come in so man beautiful colors, shapes and sizes that we should be proud. Please women no matter what color let's band together.
Posted by Tenesha 01/20/09 3:22 PM
 
I don't think I'm a "HATE HER" but I do tell my friends the truth. Yes the truth can hurt but I don't mean for it to and my friends all know and understand that.
Posted by Abby 01/20/09 3:15 PM
 
I am NOT a player hateher !YES! I think it is SO SO sad that the girl was almost forced to choose.
Posted by .........Unknown.............. 01/20/09 3:14 PM
 
I am definatley a "player hate her". I don't mean to be, but I have a very low self esteem. When my husband starts a new job, my very first question is what females work there and what do they look like. I automatically assume every female is out to get my husband. And he is 48, im 25 what am I jealous about?!
Posted by Kristen B 01/20/09 3:01 PM
 
My 'best friend' pulled this same thing on me (I fell for the guy we were both connected to and she didn't want us to get together) and guess what ladies...I married him and couldn't be happier. She's lost a best friend as a direct result of her jealousy and hating. If your friend is really the friend she claims to be, she's not going to ask you to choose...she's going to be happy that you're in a good relationship. It IS possible for two grown women to have healthy boundaries and overcome the 'awkwardness.' Seriously...we're adults with reason. In the grand scheme of things, love happens and the person who tries to stop it doesn't have the love nor the respect for you that they claim to have.
Posted by Jen 01/20/09 2:49 PM
 
yay! i just found out that I am NOT a player hateHER!!! I thought I was from seeing the show haha!=)
Posted by Tany 01/20/09 2:35 PM
 
I strongly beleive treat others how you want to be treated. That said we are all human and we all have hate inside and out, we just need to learn when to keep it to ourselves. Keep the peace spred the love. Care with your mind, love with your heart. Portland,OR Tricia:)
Posted by Tricia 01/20/09 2:14 PM
 
I think Jayme has every right to feel that way about her brother and best friend. I know I would be angry if one of my best friends started to date my brother and fall in love!!! I just hope that if Brittney and Cory ever break up (I have a feeling that it wont last long!) that Jayme wont be put in the middle of it.....she didn't want their relationship to happen in the first place!
Posted by jen 01/20/09 2:14 PM
 
Yeah good call...Booooo Britney
Posted by Bob 01/20/09 2:05 PM



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