Tue. Jan 20, 2009 | 2:09 PM
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You might be a player hateHER if you do any of these:

-You hold back employment opportunities from her because you might want to check out the job.

-You never, ever compliment her.

-You refuse to let her meet your new boyfriend.

-You're out at a bar and a cute guy comes up to talk to your friend. When she goes to the bathroom you tell the guy your friend has a boyfriend and start flirting with him instead.

-Your friend gets a new job and instead of going out to celebrate with everyone you make up an excuse so you can ditch the festivities.

-You've slammed her outfit repeatedly- - but that didn't stop you from going out and getting an exact replica for yourself.

-When she told you she got promoted, you dismissed it and dove in to a story about your own latest, greatest moment.

Tell us: Are you a Player HateHER?


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Lauren & Jessyka (or their mothers) I'm SO curious.. Did Tyra literally give you the money for lunch? How much? Which restaurant and what did you really do with the money? haha.. I know this is nosey, but I'm dying to know =) Good luck.. I think you all did so well and it takes so much courage to get up and be vulnerable like that. I can't imagine and I wish you the best of luck! xo
Posted by *~Melissa~* 01/22/09 10:43 PM
 
In my opinion Jayme is not a HATEHER. I think what really upset her was the fact that Britney snuck around behind her back and Jayme had to be the last to find out about their relationship. That is a little unsettling if you ask me. You don't keep things like that from your best friend. Why the need to sneak around if she wasn't doing anything wrong?
Posted by Angela 01/22/09 10:59 AM
 
I think that girl who didnt want her bff and her brother to get together because she is a hate HER I mean why cant they be together whats the big deal if its real love witch they claim it is she should let them be happy its a lil selfish for her to put herself before them and if they dont work out then she should love them and stay out the middle of it
Posted by Eboni Wilkos 01/22/09 10:36 AM
 
I completly agree with Jayme, specially since she knows how Brittany treats men. She really cares about her brother. She doesn't seem to be jealous, she just seems to care a great deal about her brother. :)
Posted by Karen 01/21/09 11:06 PM
 
In regards to the Britney Jayme Cory melodrama,I'd have to side with Jayme on this one. Although I thought the ultimatum was a bit extreme, Britney knew full well her relationship with Jayme would upset her, and therefore she should've kept her distance the second she felt an attraction to him. Or she could've done the mature thing and at least talked to Jayme about it instead of sneaking around behind her back. Some girls may be ok with their best friends hooking up with their brother, but Jayme wasn't. Whatever reason Jayme had for being against it is irrelevent. A true best friend would've respected it. But if somewhere down the road the couple make it work and Jayme finds a way to deal with it, then so be it. I just wonder how Jayme won't be caught in the middle if the two do get into fights. I mean who else do you confide in other than your best friend?
Posted by Monica 01/21/09 7:11 PM
 
i really learned something important watching your show today, I admit sometimes i can really be a player hate HER. like the first two girls but when you made the analogy about the olympic runners, i understood and it really helped me. I realized that no one will like me if i am a player hate her and to be successful i should only focus on myself like you do and thats something i will have to work on.
Posted by shelly 01/21/09 4:34 PM
 
Cindy, I think my mom shouldn't have said that on the show and I apologize to an extent. It was somewhat true, but she had her facts wrong. I didnt lock the doors because of Lauren alone; it was more than just our fight. A bunch of other girls were involved with this too and I think they should of been on the show but they told me to choose one to "fix" the relationship, and I chose Lauren because I had known her the longest and we were, at one point, best friends. None of us agree on much anymore, but I think this just blew things up more than they had already been. It was definitely NOT an easy task to talk openly about anything for me and I imagine it wasn't for you. But life goes on obviously and we all learned not to put our personal problems out in the public, yeah?
Posted by Jesskah 01/21/09 2:55 PM
 
okay so i am Lauren's best friend from childhood and i have met Jesskah as well and have hung out with her many times. but i do have to say that i dont really believe this show really got to any point. i dont see how it really fixed anything, lauren and jesskah have always had the friendship that they have, they have always wanted to one up each other, and i must say that i do believe you can be best friends with someone at one point and then really not get along with each other, it happened to me and my best friend. i love lauren with all my heart and cindy as well. they are my second family, but it really was sad to see both girls cry on here, it made me kinda upset though because i do not think jesskah made the right choice in writting to the tyra banks show. i really wish they had just kept it to themselves and taken care of it. ALSO, i dont belive that the main reason jesskah went to therapy because of the relationship with lauren, i do believe that it has more to do with what went on with the friends that had past away. but life gets tough and girls are mean, but you dont have to get on tv to see if you can fix it. i think by jesskah changing schools was for the best and i dont understand why it had to continue after that it should have just ended there. AND jesskah, do not inturupt MAMA JACKSON, especially when you are on national television. i love you lauren,and cindy, and i gotta say it was odd seein you guys on tv im so used to seeing you in person, i miss
Posted by Heather::: Lauren's best friend :) 01/21/09 2:36 PM
 
This comment is for Laura whose best friend bailed out on her wedding. I wonder if possibly your friend has a thing for you and doesn't want to see you married because she wants you. If that is not the case is it possible she feels excluded from your life because you are making a big change and she feels like you guys won't be close anymore? One of my best friends just got married a couple summers ago and I admit I had an attraction for her and felt over protective. I felt like the guy she was marrying wasn't good enough for her. I was very upset and confused and like our friendship could never be the same because she was changed by marrying this guy. Even if I wasn't attracted to her I think I would feel the same way because after all this time I think our friendship has changed beyond repair because she is so different from me as a wife and a mother now. She no longer has time for me and we aren't close anymore.
Posted by Mickey 01/21/09 2:08 PM
 
the blonde girl at the end of the show that is dating the brother talked as though she was smart. she obviously isn't smart though and is heartless if she is dating her "best friends" younger brother and knew it would be an upsetting situation to begin with! thats a hater right there!
Posted by Bena L 01/21/09 1:04 PM
 
Poor little rich girls. When I was that age and I had problems with a friend, my mother didn't get involved, there was no therapy as there was no money for that. We resolved our issues between us girls. I must admit there was no competition because our parents could and would not buy us new cars or all the numerous material things that rich teens are spoiled with.
Posted by Nathalie 01/21/09 12:01 PM
 
I had a situation with a best friend that was pretty bad also. We were friends since 8th grade, and always talked about being each others maid of honors. I got engaged to the love of my life in 08 and she was one of the first to hear about it. First of all, lately she was not answering my phone calls or anything, not being there for me. Well i asked her to be my maid of honor, and she said yes. Then she said she wanted to do my bridal shower, and the two days before it was supposed to happen, she bailed on it. So me and my mom had to do everything. She never sent invites or did anything. And then she never got her dress for the wedding. So i had to get a new maid of honor, and she was hating on me saying i shouldn't be getting married.
Posted by Laura 01/21/09 10:30 AM
 
In my defense, cory and I tried to break things off due to me not wanting to hurt my friend. We are so happy together though, and it's so hard to stay away from someone to spare someone else's feelings. I want to be happy, and he wants to be happy, and I honestly wish jayme could just be happy for us.
Posted by Brittany 01/21/09 10:23 AM
 
I am Lauren's mom and feel the need to comment. We had no idea that the show was going to be like this, we were totally caught off-guard. We thought we were there to repair a relationship,but as it turned out Carol was there to destroy my daughters character and embarrass her on T.V.[this uncalled for comment was cut out, and I thank the producers for this] and this is why there was no lunch! I don't understand her comment about allowing her daughter do the show ,as they were the ones to set this all up. What, now are you looking for sympathy? I am proud of my daughter and Jesskah,I feel that they both handled themselves well, and were making progress and everything would have been fine if not for Carol. As for other peoples comment's, they don't bother me because I know how it really is. Lauren and Jesskah you girls did good, It's not easy sitting on that couch!
Posted by cindy 01/21/09 10:12 AM
 
I went through the same thing that lauren and jessica went through i had a friend where her and i would make plans and that day i would call her to tell i was coming over so we could hang and she would be like oh i got about our plans an made different plans with my friends! it was crazy i tried to fix things but she kept doin that same things so i told her we couldn't be friends no more
Posted by Haylee 01/21/09 9:23 AM



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