Tue. Jan 20, 2009 | 2:09 PM
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You might be a player hateHER if you do any of these:

-You hold back employment opportunities from her because you might want to check out the job.

-You never, ever compliment her.

-You refuse to let her meet your new boyfriend.

-You're out at a bar and a cute guy comes up to talk to your friend. When she goes to the bathroom you tell the guy your friend has a boyfriend and start flirting with him instead.

-Your friend gets a new job and instead of going out to celebrate with everyone you make up an excuse so you can ditch the festivities.

-You've slammed her outfit repeatedly- - but that didn't stop you from going out and getting an exact replica for yourself.

-When she told you she got promoted, you dismissed it and dove in to a story about your own latest, greatest moment.

Tell us: Are you a Player HateHER?


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Its not cool to hate on anyone. Do what they do to get what they have, let them help you out if you feel that jealous of that person. Hating isnt gonna get you anywhere. Some people dont realize when they hate on certain people it makes them do even more and better, and they still look stupid. Dont hate, congratulate that person. And real freinds and family dont hate and hold things back that will help each other. That is just ridiculous. If your doing that you seriously need to work on yourself cause you are truly an unhappy person. Be yourself, everyones different for their own different reasons.we all dont get the same things. Be thankful for what you have and how you look. dont compare yourself to anyone.
Posted by Tifanni 01/29/09 10:33 AM
 
I only got to see the last twenty-five minutes of this show and I think girls of this generation are so self-absorbed because of things like myspace and facebook. Its like they have to update the profiles all day long because the world needs to know what they are doing and thinking at all times. News flash girls you are not movie stars! Also the one that was the worst was the very plain girl in the audience who got up being very proud of being a hater because she feels bad about herself. She said if a pretty girl comes to a party she has to make fun of her to other people so the people like her and hate the pretty girl. Well grow up. Did you ever think that the pretty girl does not automatically think she is all that? She can't help it that she is beautifull anymore than you can help that you are plain!! Look for inner beauty which I am afaid that this girl did not possess either!!! Too bad. I hope she sees herself on the show and sees how ugly she is on the inside. We do not need to be jealous of anyone. Love yourself as you are and you will not need to hate anyone!!!!!
Posted by Carolyn 01/29/09 9:43 AM
 
Liz, your brother and best friend kept everyone out of the loop. Britney and Cory kept their relationship solely from Jayme. That's a bit fishy don't you think? Yes the ultimatum was a bit harsh but I think she only said it out of anger. I'm sure Jayme has reasons for being against their relationship. Maybe either Brittany and Cory have terrible track records with respect to the opposite sex. Maybe Jayme knows she'll be caught in the middle of their problems because she's always been their confidante. Although Brittany presented reasonable arguments, she still strikes me as a shady type of character.
Posted by Cynthia 01/29/09 9:30 AM
 
Well, Im a player hater on my sister Regina!! eberyone always gave her their highest!! Oh, your so beautiful, your so perfect, you get all the guys!! I always feel like i need to compete for attention in the family, Almost every one of my bf's were in love with her, Gosh !! I HATE HER
Posted by Katrina Thomas 01/28/09 11:07 PM
 
My best friend from high school, known to my parents as their "other daughter" started dating my older brother shortly after we graduated high school. That was over 10 years ago and they are now married with two kids. How awesome is it for me to get together with them and have such a good friend in my family! They dated for about a month or so before they told the rest of the family - it's not about keeping a secret; every relationship is a risk, and if Jayme loves her brother & Brittany, then she should respect their choice to take the risk and be happy to see them happy - they looked pretty darn happy, didn't they? For Jayme to put an ultimatum on Brittany is selfish and immature, even if it doesn't work down the road. The key is to make sure Jayme doesn't get put in the position to play middle man in any of their arguments.
Posted by Liz 01/28/09 10:55 PM
 
oh my goodness tyra when i saw the part with jessica and lauren it brang back so many memories of the past when i was in middle school. i was set up by one of my bestfriends in the 6th grade and then it was never the same again. i got in fights. 40 girls wanted to jump me all at the same time i had rumors going around about me like crazy. so my mom took me out of school in the 7th grade towards the end of the year because it got so bad. i got physically sick and everything so now im in the 8th grade and im being home schooled for this year then im gonna start new when i go to highschool. but i feel bad and now i know im not alone i always thought that it only happend to me cause im me. i always thought that there was something wrong with me. girls use to pick on me for the was i look the way i walk,talk,sit,stand,how i did my make up,etc. and im not an ugly girl i was one of those popular blonde girls. i also had another bestfriend in the 7th grade and she was jealous of me and she told me that. and she ended up backstabbing me and we got in a fight and i beat her up and she called the cops on me... all i know now is im not alone
Posted by shaina 01/28/09 5:56 PM
 
when i was watching the part on jessica and lauren..i finally realized i was not alone..my bestfriends stopped talking to me in highschool also..for a long time i didnt let anyone know how it was making me feel. One day it got so bad that i ended up in counsling for depression and self injury because i was so upset about loosing my bestfriends. I had to switch schools my senior year of highschool because i was going to drop out if i had to go back to my old highschool. I ended up going to another school and it worked out much better for me!
Posted by Lisa 01/28/09 12:53 PM
 
Precious, you shouldn't hate on the girl for that, you should be mad at your bf for making such a shallow remark...how would he like it if you had that attitude about him? If he likes the skinny girl more than you should let him be with her and find a man who'll appreciate you for who you are (i'm skinny by the way so don't think i'm bias)
Posted by Amy 01/28/09 10:39 AM
 
Yea, I am a player hateher. I will not be friends w/ a skinny girl. My bf made me go on a double date this past weekend and I hadn't met either one of them, and I really didn't get to know her but partially cuz how she looked. Not only that recently my bf told me I need to lose weight so we can both be attracted to each other and that was hurtful, so I kinda felt like he enjoyed being around that girl.
Posted by Precious 01/28/09 1:11 AM
 
I understand were that one girl is comming from with her brother being with her good friend i'm 17 and i had a good friend i guess and she helped me out with my daughter whos was like 9 months at the time but she was always at my house my bro used to take her home and i would stay home he always passed comments like she is fine and whatever.. one day i was going to go with her to her uncles house who lived far from were we stayed because she offered me and my daughter to go and i was mad at my boyfriend so it was like a get away so the nite before my dad came in my room and said well i don't understand y you r going ur guna be a third weel i was like um she wants me to go i didnt understand till my dad said well ur brothers is going she was ignoring my callls the whole day i guess she didnt know how to tell me she has been seeing my brother behind my back so he went i was mad and i told her wassup with that if she wants to be with him go 4 it but when you come to my house ur not commin 4 me or my daughter u go to his rooom and whatever u guys please i dnt want nuthing to do with that relationaship and i cant be ur ffriend she said sorry and she dosent want to loose me as a friend i told her what did u guys do she said just kissed i said you didnt do it she said na so we squashed it and moved on she didnt talk to him anymore funny thing
Posted by stacey 01/27/09 10:13 PM
 
YESS i am my ex was a player so badly that my sister throw a party and he went they all got wasted and he cheated on me with my own sister!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i can nerve look at any of them agin in my life!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by maranda 01/26/09 2:39 PM
 
I get how Jayme feels...a friend of mine dated my brother...although she wasn't my BEST friend she was still a friend and it was still weird because my brother was terrible with women back then and my friend was a little feisty. So I knew it wasn't going to go anywhere, but I didn't say anything cuz I didn't want to be seen as what you now call the "Player Hateher." Anyway my prediction came true and they had a bitter breakup which resulted in my brother pressuring me not to talk to her and the friend barely talkin to me...things got better after a year but still never the same.
Posted by Courtney 01/26/09 7:50 AM
 
I get how jayme feels! when my friend and my brother dated it was really weird! Then she cheated on my brother and I lost the friendship completly for 4 years! They are going out again and we have hung out but it will never be the same! We will never be true friends again!jayme has it worst though because there is potential for her to lose her friend of 13 years!
Posted by sara 01/24/09 7:51 PM
 
As far as I know the lunch never happened...the girls couldn't work out their differences and said no to the lunch to save time and money
Posted by Sara 01/23/09 10:08 AM
 
God. i love tyra show! =3 hey, how'd did lauren and jessica's lunch go? is the video uploaded already? ^^
Posted by kirsten 01/23/09 8:02 AM



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