Tue. Jan 20, 2009 | 2:09 PM
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You might be a player hateHER if you do any of these:

-You hold back employment opportunities from her because you might want to check out the job.

-You never, ever compliment her.

-You refuse to let her meet your new boyfriend.

-You're out at a bar and a cute guy comes up to talk to your friend. When she goes to the bathroom you tell the guy your friend has a boyfriend and start flirting with him instead.

-Your friend gets a new job and instead of going out to celebrate with everyone you make up an excuse so you can ditch the festivities.

-You've slammed her outfit repeatedly- - but that didn't stop you from going out and getting an exact replica for yourself.

-When she told you she got promoted, you dismissed it and dove in to a story about your own latest, greatest moment.

Tell us: Are you a Player HateHER?


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Posted by colsonkami 07/31/09 9:57 PM
 
Dear Tyra i love you! u r a great role model for me and because i am only 11 i am not a play hateHer (yet)oooooooooops luv ya bye!!!!
Posted by Tianna 07/20/09 1:10 AM
 
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Posted by Mryjpxtv 07/14/09 11:41 PM
 
I was watching this hateHER episode in Norway today, and I'm pleased to say that out of these sayings above; I'm not a player hateHER. There excist girls that I hate, or not hate, but I really don't like them. But that's because of their ways to behave against me and my friends. But I think that some of these girl's that I can't stand the faces of, was a player hateHER against me and my friends, and that's the reason I can't stand them. So if you are a player hateHER you might behave in a certain way that make people pull away from you. So hateHER isn't positive for anyone, just a big pot of negative energy!
Posted by Marit 06/16/09 8:34 AM
 
Hi, I am also writing from Sweden, in a country far, far away... I can just say that I am lucky to say that I am not a player hateher. PUH!
Posted by Diana 06/16/09 7:20 AM
 
Hi there! I'm sitting in my sofa and writing from Sweden, the north of Europe and watching the show. Haha, I can for sure recognise myself in a playerhateHER, and I know that you can do that to! Have a nice day, xoxo www.espot.blogg.se
Posted by Emilia 06/16/09 7:02 AM
 
I am not a player hateher. It's crazy to spend so much time hating on someone when you could be using that time and energy for yourself. Why bother being hateful when you could be a good friend and you may find yourself with a good friend too. Sometimes you have to be the bigger person and just be nice. So what if someone has a nicer car or is better looking? There will always be someone like that in the world. If you think like a hater, you will always be mad at the world. But there is only one you. You are the only one who is like you in the entire world. So celebrate that uniqueness and your own personal beauty and get on with it. Life is just too short to spend it worrying about what someone else is doing.
Posted by Keke 03/01/09 7:08 PM
 
xF3AKl hi! hooli?
Posted by hoolio 02/09/09 9:48 PM
 
no i am not a player hateher i agree that females that are suffer from self esteem issues im usually the one who gets hated on though i mean why cant women just be nice to eachother
Posted by Neesha 02/09/09 5:31 PM
 
Tyra, I'm amazed by the "friend" that was so upset that her best friend was dating her brother. My daughter has been BEST friends with the same girl since 5th grade. For YEARS I told her she was going to be my daughter-in-law one day and SHE thought I was crazy. And she would say "NO way I've seen "him" grow up. When my daughter went to college she and her best friend went together and roomed together and when they moved home, my son helped them move home and the best friend moved out of the condo with my daughter into the lake house with my son. Five years later they were married and I could not be prouder to have her as my daughter-in-law....now for 3 years. I feel as though she too is my daughter cause I've watched her grow up from a knobby kneeed little girl into a beautiful model woman. Not only is she beautiful inside and out, since college she has opened 4 very successful liquor stores and it makes my heart swell with pride when everybody I meet tells me that she and my son are just the most perfect, delightful couple. So please tell the young lady on your show tonight that true love can sometimes just grow up and bloom in front of your eyes.......certainly nobody was more surprised than the two of them when they saw each other as mature young people for the first time......and she and my daughter have remained and will also be BEST FRIENDS!!!!!! I'm so proud of them and proud to call her my daughter!!! Debbie
Posted by Debbie Wimberly 02/03/09 11:40 PM
 
It was not a good idea to make those girls friends again. Girls are getting nastier than ever when it comes to competition.
Posted by Kelli 02/03/09 7:28 PM
 
I also want to add that just because i don't introduce her to my man doesn't mean that i am a player hate her it just means that she has already tried to still my man and it aint happening again
Posted by Jovonna 02/03/09 12:30 PM
 
I also want to add,girls that put other girls down are jelous in some way,but did you ever think that the girl you are putting down may have issues of there own? no one has a perfect life. when i was in high school i had a lot of frends and a lot of confidence and my "best friend" was always jelous of me,it got so bad she used to tell me not to wear makeup because she didnt want me to look prettier than her.when i started hanging out with her sister more her sister started putting me down saying stuff like i would be nothing without her,it brought me to an extreme low in my life.anyway my point is watch what you say to people before you say something,you may not realize it but you could be destroying someone elses well being for your own selfish feelings. remember just because a girl is pretty or does something better doesent mean her life is perfect.
Posted by christina 02/03/09 11:16 AM
 
No im definatly not a player hateher and honestly the reason these girls are like this is because of low self esteem.im sorry but putting someone down so that you can get where you want to be is wrong no matter how you look at it.if someone is prettier than you or does something better than you GET OVER IT!dont put them down so you can feel better its wrong!
Posted by christina 02/03/09 10:48 AM
 
I'm not a player hateher but I know plenty of girls who are...i never saw myself as being all that until they started putting me down all the time...and these were girls who were close to me not strangers...instead of makin me feel bad it made me feel good to know that I was worthy of being envied...so for all you playerhatehers out there, by hatin on those others girls for the way they look, your only makin them look better and yourselves uglier...just do your thing and stop hatin
Posted by Michelle 01/29/09 12:33 PM



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