How to handle your friends having kids.

You threw the shower, attended Lamaze class as a stand-in once or twice and even showed up the day she gave birth with a basket of goodies -- it's not like you're not thrilled about your bestie's new baby. But just because you're super happy for her doesn't mean there won't be a transition period. Sure, you'll still get together but wave good-bye to your impromptu vacations and crazy nights now that your main mama is now a main mommy. Bare this in mind and you'll be able to transition from "bar hopping buddy" to "awesome auntie" with ease.

Start With Some Understanding
Remember just how all-fired important friendships were in middle school? Then the intensity came down with the heavier course load of high school, then the boyfriends, then a job... Throughout our lives, our friendships become less and less the main focus in our lives, but they always stayed important. Right before the baby, straight up tell her this -- she's still the friend you've been having heart to hearts with for the past ten years. She's certain to appreciate your understanding and will do her best to check in with you. And as for you -- just remember how M.I.A you became when you got your first job. This is a pretty big job your pal just took on!

Baby Proof
The first step to keeping your bond strong is to avoid the guilt. Sure you want to include her in your dinner party plans, but only inviting her to things she needs a sitter for will eventually make her feel guilty. Instead, keep your workout buddy by going for walks with the stroller instead of hitting the gym.

Love Your Life
If the fact that she has this little bundle of joy is pulling at your heartstrings and introducing a twinge of jealousy, consider all the things that you have in your life that make you happy. She has her bouncing baby, but you have a full nights sleep -- for now you can agree to disagree and keep the peace.