How to cope with running into his former love.
There you are, innocently making your rounds at the mall when she shows up: his dreaded ex. There's no turning back now -- she has spotted you and he's just got to keep the peace. How can you get through a close encounter of the ex kind -- without busting out your best tae kwon do moves?
Put on a Brave Face
Don't immediately start with the eye rolling -- no matter how much you want to give that jerk a look that would peel paint. Now is the time to play it cool -- uber-cool. Don't open the window for her to appear cool, calm and collected next to his uptight new love.
Resist the PDA Urge
It's going to be very tempting to drape yourself all over him and whisper sweet nothings in his ear as she stands watching. That's just tacky. If his ex-girlfriend does seem to be flirty, then work in a casual way arm touch or grab his hand while talking. The simple gesture will seem like nothing to the passersby, but to her, it will scream "Back off, sister!"
You've Already Won
Remember, he's there with you -- the contest is over. If you head into the conversation knowing there is no competition, then you'll naturally keep your cool -- no scare tactics needed. Well, okay, maybe one "honey" or "sweetie" won't hurt.
