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Hey Tyra, I need your help. I have been with my guy for 5 years. I never used to snoop but last year when we moved in together I looked through his phone and found a suspicious text messages. It turned out to be nothing so I didn't do it again until about a week ago. I had the urge again and I checked his phone. He is an artist and I found a collage of pictures of him and another girl titled."U & I." This was dated last August. I am so hurt because things have been so good. I dont know if this is an old fling or If he is just a rotten cheat. I know I snooped and it was bad but this is worse????
Ladies... I am soo glad to hear I am not alone in this. I've been hurt so bad in my past relationships and my marriage. My new man is AMAZING and has never given me a reason not to trust him. But it's still hard to learn to trust again. A few days ago, he was checking his e-mail on my computer and I thought I saw an e-mail from a girl. My old insecurities and fear kicked in and I snooped in his e-mail for a second after he left. It ended up being nothing. I felt sooo guilty and like such a bad person. But after reading all these posts I feel better knowing I'm not alone. It's hard to give your trust. Especially if you've been hurt before. I think slipping up sometimes is not the most terrible thing in the world. Trust is important, but it's also hard to find in a man. I'm not gonna do it again, because I know it wasn't right. But I'm also not gonna beat myself up over it anymore.
I just recently got married to my boyfrien d of four years. I have never caught him cheating but twice I have now caught him texting girls from work. This time it's his supervisor. He swears he's not cheating. Should I believe him?
When I was with my ex, I was with him for three months until he started to become distant from me, then I started snooping to find out he was planning another relationship with a girl on myspace! After a while, I talked with the girl and she told me everything. SHe didn't know he had a girlfriend. So he lost both of us. Now, im in a new relationship for almost 2 yrs. Thank god he doesnt have myspace and doesnt chat in facebook either. He has many girl friends, but his personality is not the flirty kind. His manners are always respectful to women and never crosses the line and he isnt a wild guy. I started dating him because I was impressed with his manners towards me, classmates, and his parents. So I dont snoop, but doesnt mean i dont scann the subject headings of his email whenever he opens it infront of me :p
OMG after reading some of these comments I am sort of happy to find out that I am not crazy. I love my bf and I have been with him for almost 4 years. He has NEVER given my any reason to believe that he was cheating on me...but he does have some slutty friends (male and female) and his best friend has cheated on his girl before. I guess I just don't want their bad habits to rub off on him. I can never just snoop and let it be done. I never find anything and I always feel guilty and tell him that I snooped. He knows that most of my friends snoop and they are like pro's at it. He thinks they are influencing me but they are not. Its like someone commented I need to protect my investments but it is starting to come between us.
If I didn't snoop on my husband, I would really have thought I was crazy. I was suspicious because he has 'disappeared' all night with his cellphone shut off, and in front of me has made out with and felt up a woman (two different women, at parties).. and after checking his email I found him on hornymatches.com as well as letters to hookers (and he doesnt' have the money for them, or so I thought, cause he had no money for US to go out any more... when confronted he lied and lied... the bottom line is, once a liar always a liar and snooping is sometimes the only way to find out you are being lied to.
I finaly decided to get into a seriouse relationship after two years of being single by choice. My last relationship was three and a half years long and he was always on myspace talking to half naked women...his ex and from snooping i found some very hurtful things like him telling his ex that when him and I broke up...he wanted to give them another shot. Now after these two years I thought I had finaly gotten the old me back and was good to go. Iam always snooping though! I love this man to death and I dont want to lose him or find something to hurt me. He knows I look and I have confronted him on things and he always is able to explain it and its nothing but its getting between us and I cant stand myself for it. I have self esteem issues with how I look and hes an amazing guy who could get anyone he wants and I think the biggest problem is that no matter how much he tells me why hes with me or how much he loves me, i doubt him. I know these are my issues and my issues alone I just dont know how to deal with them. I look at him and think about spending my life with him! Why would I purposely try to ruin that?!?
The way me and my first boyfriend were, if someone called or texted either of us, we were like, "Who's that? What does that text say?" If he wasn't in the room, I'd take a peek at his phone. Things like that. None of those precautions "protected my investment." After we broke up, he confessed that he cheated on me with at least FIVE different girls. I used to snoop on my current boyfriend too. One day I was at his house alone and I took this opportunity to try to find some incriminating evidence. It was almost like I wanted to find something, even though I had no real reason to believe he would cheat, even though knowing would just break my heart. (Residual effects of being cheated on, I suppose.) Anyway, after a good 30 minutes of looking through boxes and drawers like a nutcase, I resigned myself to the fact that I had a good boyfriend and felt bad that I had kind of betrayed his trust by snooping. I haven't done something like that since and I won't unless I have a legit excuse. Personally, I think snooping for the sake of snooping you risk mistaking something innocent for something sinister and everytime you snoop you're just reinforcing your own jealous and suspicious behavior. That's just me though.
You should snoop! It keeping an eye on youre investment; its not that you shouldnt trust him, but were all human, and double checking his story once in a while is a must!
You should snoop! It keeping an eye on youre investment; its not that you shouldnt trust him, but were all human, and double checking his story once in a while is a must!
GIIIIRLS...YOU GOT TO SNOOP ON YOUR MEN!!! that's what women are made for..
Ooh wow,after reading some of these comments im getting the urge to snoop on my boyfriend now lol. I dont think i've snooped on my boyfriend like that,i've trusted him. he has MANY, i mean MEANYY girl friends that he talks to, but theres a difference when they're your friends and your being friendly and flirting. this new girl he just started talking to has DEFINATLY been flirting with my boyfriend. i've seen comments on his myspace. yes it bugged me, but i let it go at first i thought he wasnt going to pay attention to her whats-so-ever but lately i've seen how close they've been getting. i've confronted him about several other girls and he tells me he doesnt talk to them like "that". if its not one girl its another. i think im being alittle too nice with him and giving him more freedom than he needs...
hahahah reading some of these commmetns i feel good because now i know im NOT the only one!! hahah i snoop on my boyfriend allllll the time.. i even have my friends spy on him in school for me!!! and he knows it beause he would always make jokes like oh i know you have ur spies after me in school and i just like laugh it off like nooo what are you talkin abouttt haha.. but its just a habit that i have. i cnat help it even thought me and him would get into soo many arguments about me like not trusting him but its hard because he has TONSSSS of girlfriends.. tons..
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