I lost my virginity at 21, I am now 23... and with the same guy who I lost my virginity too (Only had sex with one man-love him on an unconditional level). I had my first kiss at 18... (People actually think I am very attractive, my problem had to do with self esteem etc) I regret that I am no longer a virgin, but I am glad that I was more mature and very aware of the facts and figures of what sexual contact entails. We both had testing for STDs etc. He had multiple partners, so I felt the need to have both of us tested. We also use several forms of birth control, and talk about what would happen if I were to get pregnant on a somewhat regular basis. He also respects my wishes, and we don't have sex very often, because he knows that it is something that makes me a bit uncomfortable. Anyone you become involved with, should also respect you this way. I think young girls/women really need to be aware of the physical and mental things that sex entails. I also think honesty is very important in sex, with the partner, and anyone whom is close and might be affected by your actions. There is more to sex than just the act of intercourse. There are many other, safer ways young people can experiment and show infection. If you are uncomfortable talking to a trusted adult, the internet is a great way to gather information. When finding this information, be sure to be aware of dates, and the source. I don't want to judge or tell anyone what they should or should not do, but I would advise to think about your future and all the possibilities of your actions. Also I

ok theres no right time for sex im 16 and ive been with 2 guys i regret the one i lost my virginity to but thats because i didnt really love him and he became abusive after it, now im in a committed relationship and i love my bf and he loves me and we r very careful we always use protection but i think ppl should wait till they're 100% sure that the guy is rite for them and that they really love echother... oh and i love tyra shes awesome

they r ready at 13

i lost my virginity when i was 15 with a guy that i had been with for a year.i am glad i did it because i am still currently with him and i am now 17 and it made us alot closer. but these girls that go out there and have sex with a guy after a day or even a month need to think what they would do if they got an std or got prego because i made sure he didnt have anything and i was on birth control.

I lost my virginity when I was 22 and i am a guy. I had plenty of chances but because I was led to believe it was a serious thing, I waited. I eventually learned that waiting is only justified if you are alone and uneducated. My parents were really dumb. But... If you are a good openminded parent, then there is no reason why kids can't learn the truth about sex and consequences early. Waiting is for stupid narrowminded people like i was as a kid. Religion just makes people stay stupid. There have been so many cases for centuries of young early teen girls having sex. It's a natural thing. Its just that modern society is shaped around stupid idiotic ideas that dont leave room for what is natural. You have to literally become a nonconformist. But I dont care what the majority thinks anyway. I have my own brain to make my own decisions. Girls can have sex as young as 10 or 11. Many have conceived children at that age over the centuries. Don't let the mainstream medical community dupe you into thinking its dangerous for young girls to have kids. Its completely false. Intercourse is as natural as masterbation. Masterbation is as natural as getting a back massage. If a young girl gives a helping hand to a guy, its just another harmless favor like a back massage, but better. It doesn't mean she's gonna be raped or harmed. The psychology and emotional factors are only as serious as the lack of education. Christian values treat young people like children, therefore they stay fearful and don't handle many unconventional things. It goes with the territory of being a religious member. The answers in life are pretty simple if you get you head out of the

i loved this episode but i still want to have sex. I'm only 15 but i think i'm redy....i think!

HEY TYRA,IM 14 AND I FEEL LIKE EVERYBODY AROUND ME IS HAVING SEX AND SOMETIMES I WANT TO WITH MY URGES AND EVERYTHING BUT I DONT THINK IM READY FOR THE CONSEQUESES.I LIKE TO HAVE THAT INNOSENCE AND PURITY IN MY LIFE BUT IDK.PRETYMUCH ALL OF MY FREINDZ DID IT OR HAD IT TAKEN FROM THEM. I WANT TO BE A VIRGIN WHEN I WALK DOWN THE ISLE WITH THAT SPECIAL GUY WHO IM IN LOVE WITH. BUT IDK WHEN IM GOING TO FIND THAT GUY CUZ ALL THESE BOYS WANT IS SEX! ITS NOT THAT IMPORTANT...IS IT!? SOMETIMES I HEAR OF RELATIONSHIPS BEING BASED ONLY ON SEX AND I DONT THINK THATS ALL THAT MATTERS.

okayy whoaa, teens are not readyy to have sex yett yeahh teens might think oh yeah sex is cool and then they have sex and regret it and then youu wish youu dident have it sooo why even do it? and theres so much to do in life then to just have a baby now dont get me wrong theres teens that do want babys but whyy? could it bee that they just wanna keep on seeing the guy that they had sex with soo no girl steels him or they just plain want baby i wouldent even take the risk when youu get married youu probley knoww everything already thats why you should have sex when yourr marriedd!

I can't believe underage girls think they should go around having sex when they haven't even finished getting an education! What does that tell you? It's very sad stupid peer pressure! Some girls do it thinking they're "ready", you are so not ready! I know 16 is that turning point, but still girls should wait til they are done with school. Should save it til marriage, but of course nobody listens. This crap just keeps repeating over & over & over... just imagine how many underage girls are doing it right now!!!

It's not about if teens are ready for sex. Teens are ready for sex when they hit puberity because that's when we are biologically ready to be sexually active. The real question is are teens ready for the conquiences (both good and bad)and mental aspects of sex? The thing is the only people who can teach them and help them know if they are are their parents. I lost my virginty when I was 18, now I am 21 and my current boyfriend is soon to be 23, and do not regreat it and have sense then been with two other men. My current boyfriend is my third sexual partner. Because I talked openly with my father about sex I knew when I was ready and I wouldn't be able to stand up to my second boyfriend and current boyfriend about being safe so neither of us makes or ends up in a comprimising situation. Jordan and I are both responsible and talk openly about our sexuality with each other. Parents need to teach their children to be comfortable with their sexuality and know their limits so they can make informed and educated decisions in life. The thing is parents are so set and bound that it could never happen to their children and that their children would never be sexually active when sex is just a natural thing. Why are we so afraid to be open about it? While many things can go wrong with poor sexual decision, many other things can go wrong with poor decision in everyday life. Parents teach their children about right and wrong, and most just say sex is bad. But maybe instead of teaching children that sex is bad talk about how it can be wonderful, fulfilling, special, and create life. We all

Okay, im only 13, i am still a virgin (yay!!) and i have this self-respect rule for myself-dont have sex until your at least 17. one, because your almost an adult. two, because that was the age my mom gave birth to me so i couldnt get in THAT much trouble. I dont wanna have sex cause of diseases, pregnancies, and ive heard that your first time is actually painful (ahh!). I hate when people say "make love" cause thats so corny and it should just be flat out sex. Waiting isnt really a big deal for me (cause there are times i just wanna get laid!!! you know?) but i think its all about self-respect. however under 15 is just nasty.

im a 16 year old girl and ive seen a lot of my friends get hurt...they always think its LOVE...im a virgin and planning to stay that way until marriage to make sure the guy really loves me...sometimes i get tempted and wonder what it would be like but then i think of the consequences and it stops me...u can only give your virginity once and only the guy that deserves it should have YOUR VIRGINITY...im not judging anyone because sex is everywhere and so is temptation but girls please try to hold off so you dont end up heartbroken, pregnant, or with an STD...you deserve better than that :)

i am 16 years old and i lost my virginity this year on valentines day...and i always wanted to wait till i was married..but i dont regret losing it because i was with someone i am in love with and he respects me and even waited 8 months for me until i was ready...and he is someone who i trust..and we are still together..i dont think teens should have sex...but i dont think its wrong if you love the perrson and they love you and you respect each other...i dont think anyone should have sex just for fun...only if your in love...because then it accually means something...

I lost my virginity when i was 13. I really do regret my first time, but i have had sex since then, and there are some boys i have had sex with that i do not regret. My recent boyfriend lost his virginity to me, and i made sure he was comfortable and not making a mistake. I wish I could take back my first time but its done and over with. To me, sex isnt all that big; i mean STD's and pregnancy, now thats a HUGE deal, but protection, birth control, that helps. other than that it had no 'emotional' effect on me. I don't think anyone is 'truely' ready to have sex, but once its done, its done. you just gotta think twice before you do it.

hey im 15 and i think that young girls haveing sex is crazy! its disgusting actually....little girls spreading there legs and letting men do those things to them! i think they should ATLEAST wait till they are 18(or married)!