I was in 8th grade when I lost my virginity which I was only 13.He was "my one and only" as i thought but I was so wrong. He was not even my boyfriend but I thought I loved him so I did it.And now i dont even know anything about him. A year later while I was planning my Quince My parents and I attended a class. And their I made a promise to stay a virgen when I was not even a virgen. And still to this date I have not confessed to my parents.
Those girls that have sex at 12 and 13... are they insane?! lol... that is WAY 2 young! Well if you ask me, even at 16 it's still 2 young. I'm 17 and still a virgin. I was gonna lose it at 16, but I chose to wait 'till I was in love and in a long-term relationship. A lot of young girls may think they're in love, but that may just be lust..lol.. And omg, those girls that have sex without protection.. that is just dangerous!
I agree it's best to wait till you are at least old enough to support yourself. This coming from a 26 yr old woman who has an almost ten yr old son. I've taken care of mine myself from day 1 and let me just say it is not easy. I have not gone out with friends or had some me time since I was 16. I love my boy and would do anything for him but I am not gonna lie sometimes it is so hard especially when you see all your friends going out and having fun and you get to miss out on it all cause you gotta stay home with the baby. Stuff like prom and movies and clubs become a thing of the past and it may seem like no big deal now but when you get older and look back on all the things you missed out on and it can get you down real fast. Sure you got those fabulous memories of your baby to fill it all in but things like your virginity do mean something to the man you spend the rest of your life with and it does tend to bother them to some degree if you been with other men even if it was way before him. but that is just my view from experience.
abstinence until marriage people. that's the safest and most sensible way to go now! teens should not be having sex! they think that they're ready and soooooo in love but really they're not! it's all hormones people, get a grip! think about your future. do you really think your 15-19 year old boyfriend can provide for you and your child! because there is a possibility of you becoming pregnant. come on people, you all should know that even condoms are not 1oo% effective.
heyy,i'm 19 and my opinion on this topic is that we as teens should wait as long as u believe u possibly can, honestly i lost my virginity at age 17 and well there r many times i wish i had not done such a special act so soon but i already did so i have accepted that...2 me its totally up 2 the individual, ur morals and standards that u have set 4 urself..remember safe sex or abstinence..
hi i am 15 and i had my baby at 14 i don't think girls should be having sex so young yea i do love my son but you get your heart broken and there is really nothing you can do then take time to get over it
ii think thats all a bunch of bull...im 14 about to be 15..ii think if ur ready to have sex u should have sex if u want ur parents and everybody else can not tell u when ur ready its ur body not theres..just because someone chooses to not have sex in there teen years doesnt mean u shouldnt....and parents that think that there chideren are gonna make the same mistake as u they wont there not u...because ii knw my mom got pregnant at 16 and she wont let me have sex with my boyfriend and that sucks im not gonna make the same mistake as her ii knw about condoms and pills and stuff like that but she thinks im not ready but guess wat its not her choice to make its mines and ii wish she would respet that but..hey..she doesnt which means ill have to sneak behind her back which ii dont wanna do but at the same time its the only way ii will be able to have sex with my boyfriend who ii really love now ii understand some parents concerns like ages 13 and down shouldnt even have sex at all but 14 and up ur starting to figure out ur body and u wanna try new things...u have to let ur kid make there own mistakes so they can learn from them..u can try and try to tell them but at the end of the day its there decision
HEY TYRA I THINK IF U R TRULY IN LOVE AND THAT U BOTH ARE READY AND U ARE AT A AGE ABOVE 14 I THINK THATS A GREAT TIME TO FINALLY LOOSE UR VIGINERTY
I personally think I lost my virginity too soon (at the age of 14) when I let my curiousities and hormones get the better of me. But in my community now that's normal some girls are losing their virginity in elementary school! I really regret losing my virginity so young because it has made any relationship I've had purely physical. But also I feel now that when I do meet THAT guy, I have one less thing to give him. If I could go back in time, I'd tell myself to wait, and I hope I can pass that message along to other young girls.
Heyy, Tyraa. I loved your show about teen sex, pregnancy, drugs, & girl fights. I lost my virginity when i was fifteen, now i'm sixteen.My ex-boyfriendd and i have done it a feww times.there were times when we haven't usedd condoms.I ended up having a pregnancy scare, but it turneddd out negativee.thank god.Now, i'm with the same guy that i lost my virginity to again.This time we have a sexx talk & we decided to wait till marriagee or till we are ready.I ended up telling my mom about me loosing my virginity, she was disappointedd and she knew that she failed as a motherr. they decidedd to give me and that same guy i lost my virginity to a secondd chancee. thiss time i won't let themm down.even though it hurts that i lost there trust but i'm gettingg there:)
Ok, I'm 15 and I've had sex with two different people. The first, was a complete mistake and my parents don't know about him. But the second, is the love of my life. I know I may be young but I truly believe that I've found something so special in my life. Most adults aren't even lucky enough to find someone to love them unconditionally like I have. Back to what I was saying, I have had sex numerous times with my boyfriend (the second partner). We use condoms every time. Well, about a month ago, my period was 5 days late and I had just about accepted that I was pregnant. I told my mom, and to my surprise, she didn't kill me. But, as it turned out, it was a false alarm. Then my mother did a 360 and packed my things and shipped me off to Indiana on the last day of my freshman year. I was devastated. She says shes preventing me from ruining my life but what she doesn't know is that I left my entire heart and soul in Metter, Georgia. Everything good about me is enhanced when I'm around my boyfriend. I am thankful every day that I was lucky enough to find someone like him in my lifetime. I now have to wait almost three years to be able to be with him again but I'm willing to do it and so is he. Oh, and another thing, we decided that when I turn 17, we want a baby. I love children and I think that I would be a great mother. [Also, I've never tried drugs or even touched a cigarette. I've drank before but only once.]
Hey Tyra, I'm 15 years old and I lost my virginity when I was just 14.Although I am still young, I do not regret having sex. My boyfriend and I are still together and have been together for over a year.I don't think an age limit should be put on how old you should be when you first have sex. All people are different and have different beliefs.I believe that only YOU can know when you're ready and its only YOUR choice. I had sex because I felt that it was the right time and that I thought my boyfriend and I were both physicly and mentally prepared to take that next step. Sex should be something you and your partner BOTH feel comfortable with. It should be a time where you let eachother know that you love eachother sincerely and you care about eachother. It shouldn't be something you want to do Just to "get over with", it should be enjoyed. Xoxox--kalyn
There is no real age for girls to have sex. They do it whether we warn them not to or not, at whichever age they please, and that's the sad truth. We can send awareness, take classes, and be strict, but in plain truth, it's just gonna happen. I'm 16 years old amd I am a virgin, but I will admit I've come pretty close. The whole "in the moment" thing or "really wanting to" thing really bites at me sometimes, but my boyfriend and I both agree to stop. (: I like to think that we're understanding of the reality.
I've been with my boyfriend for eight months. I'm sixteen and he is seventeen. We are both still vigins. In my opinion, in order to be considered "ready for sex" you need to communicate. This will allow you to be emotionally prepared. My boyfriend and I have spoken several times about it and he has never pushed anything on me. He repeatedly tells me that whenever I am ready is fine with him. I've spoken to my mom about the situation and she understands that there is nothing she can do to stop it and that it will eventually happen. One thing I was certain with is that i am not willing to have sex until I am fully protected. I just started birth control and we have spoken about other ways to stay safe. I think this is a very important factor to having a great and safe relationship. I am happy with the decisions I have made.
I'm 16, and I believe in abstinence. Teens shouldn't have sex because there is no commitment, no garauntee that the other person will still be there for you afterwards, and you can't take it back once it's done. Sex is something that should be shared between a husband and a wife, not two people looking for something that they will never find. Abstinence isn't just for the goody two shoes and go-to-church girls....it's for every girl who has a past, and wants a better future. =]