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im 17 & wiLL be 18 in january . i lost my virginity when i was 15 to a guy who wasent my boyfriend & he was 18 at the time . he was a really good friend of mines . even though i cant say i regret it , i can say i DO wish i waited . i am now 3 months pregnant with another guys baby . he's my boyfriend of a year . & i think if i waited to become sexually active , i wouldnt be in this situation today because i would of been more careful & less willing to have unprotected sex . i think girls should wait untill they know there ready and be careful to not just get caught in the moment like i did .
 
Hey tyra well im 15 and lost my virginity 2 weeks before my 15th birthday. I wouldnt say i regret it but if i had the chance to go back i dont think i would have started to be sexually active so soon. Girls now and days think just because there in love they should give it up. Thats how i was until i realized guys dont really appreciate a girl. Im currently not with the guy i lost it too. Well i dont think theres an exact age to losing it btu of course i would consider older then 13 as long as theres protection invoved. well i mean i think once you hit your high school girls and guys are aware of there actions and consequences. But its too soon to lose it during high school.
 
I am almost 18 and have only had one sex partner. He and I are still together and it has been two years. I know that if we broke up i wouldnt go out and have sex at all until i was in love agian and probably a couple years older. I believe that girls who go out and loose their V-card and continually have sex at like 13 or 14 dont have the maturity or under stand the responabilty it comes with to handle sex. I always planned to wait till i was older to have sex but i fell in love and we dated for awhile before hand. for someone to be able to handle sex and its emotions they need to be able to be mature. Most girls aren't mature enough at their young ages to handle it. I only felt i was able to handle it because i have had many extreme events in my life to shape it. but i do truly believe girls should wait there is nothing wrong with being a virgin and you should be PROUD to be one it means you dont fall into the pressures of others. I dont regret my choice but i also understand my concenquences.
 
There is no such thing as 13-17 year old "love" in my opinion, at least not a mature love. Therefore don't use the excuse "i was in love" Love takes time, These girls arn't ready. Most of them will probably regret at least one of these choices, if not all of them later on in thier life. Especially when you did it because you were "talked into it" When are teenagers going to have enough respect for themselves to stand up for themselves?! Wait until you are mature! in your own house, appartment, etc. Don't do it under your parents roof. (that just sounds tacky) im not judging, just saying; whats the rush? :) Im 16 years old.
 
I'm 14, I am a virgin and I do want to wait until I'm married. Sex is a very very big deal. Too many people act like it's nothing. It's the utmost form of love and affection. I don't believe teenagers are ready to have sex. At that age you're really not mature enough to make that kind of decision.
 
I'm 18 and am not a virgin. Growing up, I was always told that I would wait until I was married. It was always drilled into my brain and so I set my sights on not giving into that temptation. However, when I was 16 my best friend and I started dating and my feelings about sex started to change. Two months into my relationship with the boy I've known since age 13, I decided to have sex. It was an amazing experience and I don't regret my decision. It doesn't matter how old you are, as long as you feel that it's right for you. I'm happy to say that sex didn't change anything in my relationship. We've been dating for two years and are going off to college together in the fall. It's a personal decision and no one has the right to judge another person based on their sex life and when they choose to lose their virginity.
 
Hi, I think a girl should be with her boyfriend for at least eight months become being sexually active with him. If the guy shows no type of respect or affection then its not meant to be. You should be able to invite the guy over and watch a movie or just hang out without him wanting to move to the next step. The relationship should never be rushed. And having sex with a guy just to keep him is NEVER the way to go, because you will definitly regret it.
 
Hey Tyra! I am a 14 year old girl and I am not a virgin. I lost my virginity at the age of 13 to a guy who was 15 at the time. He wasn't my boyfriend or anything like that, he was my bestfriend. We've knew eachother since I was 5 and talked to eachother about everything. We never intended to be together, but at one point in time I decided that he was(and still is) that special to me. When I brought the topic(of us having sex) to him, he truely felt the same way. We talked about it for months before actually doing the deed. But that was to make sure we were both comfortable with eachother and with the consequences that come with having sex. When I look back on that day I cry(tears of joy) because he ultimately cared about me and was only concerned about what I wanted, and as I with him. Since we are friends, that was the only time we did it. But honestly, I love him more now than I did then, and I don't regret having sex with him. We have grown closer to eachother but i doubt we'll actually end up as a couple. A few months later I was in a relationship with another guy, same age as the one I lost my virginity to. I've known him also since I was 5. And with us we started out as friends and grew into a couple. When we started talking about sex, I did the same as before. We talked about it for months. Since he was a virgin, I wanted to make sure he was fine with me having a partner before him. We did go through with the deed and I don't regret having sex
 
Hi Tyra I love the Show. I am 14 and will be 15 in september! I am very proud to say I am a virgin and will be until i am married! I have strong christain values and will live up to my standards. I do have respact for girls who do loose their virginity. Because they should know that if you have sex that has consequences. I do not judge because I am a teen to! I have feelings about hormones and I am curious to about sex! But I believe you should only share those feelings with the one you love and your soulmate which needs to be your husband. I think everyone has there opinion and is intitled to that. I have toughts about loosing it when the time is right. But I think the time is right on your wedding night. Now I am not saying no one should just go run out there and get married just to have sex. Even when you are engaged you should wait to have sex. Because there is always a chance you could break up. That is the same with marriage.About breaking up. But then you should be in a committed relation and know you want to be with that person for the rest of your life. Teen girls and boys are having sex way to young and having children when we are still children ourselves. We are not ready for that. If we are not ready to have children then we are not ready to have sex. I Know there is condoms and birth control but that does not always work because I know many people that has gotten pregnant while using both kinds of protection! I know I am not ready for that and no one my
 
Hey Tyra, I’m 15 years old, but very mature for my age. I am a virgin, I have chosen to take the promise with my father not to have sex until I’m married! I absolutely love the show, I record every show! There is just one thing that bugs me about the show and this web site... The BIG question is "When are "GIRLS" ready?" and "Are "TEENS" ready for sex?" I don’t think that is the right kind of question because "girls" and "teens" will never be ready for sex! Sex should be between "ADULTS" not teens, and also as a "WOMAN" not as a girl! Sure girls can say I’m a woman, I’ve been through it all, and I know how to handle life and a relationship. Not at all do I think that is true, a woman gets a good education goes to collage and has a career where she can have a job and support a family, not have to apply for food stamps just to get by and rely on a boy who left you because of the fact that you got pregnant for child support that he probably wont pay! I know that kinda sounds harsh, but we all know someone that this has happened to! So in the end I think that girls and teens are NOT ready for sex and we should start saying that it's not okay, not asking when is it okay, because then you are giving them the idea that there is a special age that they can just go out and have sex with any guy that wants it, and thats not how it should be Thanks for all you do Tyra!
 
hi,well all i have 2 say is that sex is overrated, most people do it just 2 be cool, some even do it cos they"love" the person, but really if ur not sure ur gonna be with them forever, i dont think u should do it, its kind of like your first kiss, you want it with someone speacial, you kiss the person you "love",the one u love leaves,and then wen it comes to the person your really want to give it to, its to late. i dont have any disrecpet for any girls who lose their virgintys young, cos God puts us through sooooo many trials were bound to do something wrong, but if ur thinking about doing it, save it for the onee, the one you know your gonna spend the rest of your life with, shooot i should make my own show now :) jk i lovee you tyra,even tho u wont read this lol.
 
hey tyra im 15 and still a virgin.i wanna have sex but at the same time i believe in waiting till you really know in your heart that the guy you lose your virginity to is the right guy....
 
I think that each person is ready for sex on their own time for some people they are very young and some are older but when you lose your virginity you have to know that you are ready not just think it. Teens need to know more about sex like all of the effects physically and especially emotionally about stds and how some you have the rest of your life and that pregnancy is preventable you just have to be prepared. I dont think the question is are they ready it is how can we help prepare them because in the end they will do what they want. I am 17 and lost my virginity the day after i turned 14. I didnt fully understand how it would effect me emotionally after i lost it but i have learned since that experience and me and my ex are still friends and he is the one person i can go to for anything. I have always been more mature than people my age that is part of the reason i lost it so young and my mom had talks with me all the time about sex and protection and without them i might have ended up pregnant.I am so tired of seeing teen girls getting pregnant be smart about it use protection and planparenthood gives out condoms and you can also get birth control there. There is also so much information on the internet there is no reason for pregnancy and std rates to be this high.
 
I am 16 and i just lost my virginity to a guy that i have been dating for 1yr and 4 months ( in counting ) and i been wanting to since i was 15 but i held out until i was 16. But im really strict on guys i date. so i know he is the 1 for me. My parents and most of my whole family loves him. He says he wants to be wit me for the rest of his life and i definitely feels the same way. I knew i wanted him to be the one cause he said he would wait till we were married. to have sex if i wanted. Thats how i knew he really loved me and wanted to be wit me. So even though i lost it as a teen. I dont think i will regret it. CAUSE I LUV MY BABY BOY AND HE LUVS ME
 
i love sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



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