Well I'm 17 turning 18, but i lost my Virginity when I was 16, but before I was 16, I was like to everyone, I'm not going to lose my Virginity until i'm married, so i said to my self until that day I met my Boyfriend of a year and half, I told my Mother and my Father, we had a conversation of this topic and, all they did was give me all the information, My mother put me on The Pill and my Father made sure I had Condoms and such, But I regret nothing, nothing at all, I love my Boyfriend, And I think I made an Educated Decision. Personaly, I'm offened when people think that parents are "tight" "unfair" and "intollarble", all they want is for you to be Safe, Loved and Educated But most of all Happy. Next time you need to do some thing big, ask your Mother or Father, You will be suprised on how understanding they are, they have been/made the same decisions, they don't want us to walk/make the same decisions they made. They Love you. Why don't most teens see what the parents are doing. I can, why cant they?
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i think people should just live their lives the way they want to live it
I'm 16 years old and I am still a virgin and I think the girl should remain a virgin until her wedding day, and people respect it and respect it even all that, a girl and not own any boyfreind or any man comes and had sex with the girl whatever he likes she or is it just a stroke of lightning and when the girl is blank on the day of his Marige She knows she made the sex with someone who loves him and she loves him and he knows that is her wife alone and never was at someone else and after all the boys must love the girl as far as personality and not for having sex with it.girls your virginity is a precious stone be sure to protect it.
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i am 14 years old and styll a virgin, i dont really think there is an age for having sex, but i do know the guy u have sex with should love u for who u are and not just because u having sex with him. and u must make sure he really what he say he is. because if he gets u pregant and jus leave u, u on your on honey even though u might not regret the child u will not like the life that comes with it
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this subject is huge. everywhere. i dont really believe theres a specific age requrement to have sex, or if you should even wait for marriage. However, i do think that if you feel pressured into doing it, then its wrong. You need to know for sure that your ready. Having sex DOES NOT mean the guy will like you more, or even wanna be with you. Actually, the easy girls are the ones that guys dont want to be their girlfriends. (According to my friends, boyfriend, and my opinion.) Having sex comes with MAJOR consequences that teens need to be more informed about. STD's, Pregnancy, STI's; which arent often taught in school. But more than that, the emotions that come with having sex. Most guys dont feel connected to girls after sex, but unfortunately girls do. I can go on and on about this, especially because I am myself a teen mother. I love my daughter with eveything, but my dreams, wants and needs have been on put on hold now. I wish my words could speak out to every young teen having sex, to just wait. wait until your comfortable, until you know for sure, or even until marriage. trust me, you dont wanna think back and regret your first time.
it really depends. i honestly think its trashy to sleep with someone you dont care about. i know so many girls and guys my age that just do it. i'm 15, and i have this one friend who i seriously think is addicted to sexual activity. i dunno what to tell her. she's been like sexually active with 4 people in a month-ish. (2 of them she had sex with, others bjs :| ) help and advice pleasee?
I'm 15 and i'm still a virgin. I remember making a promise to myself not to have sex until i was married and that's what i told my boyfriend and he seem to be fine with it. Even though sometimes it get so tense that we wish we were old enough to be together. when still trying to control ourselves to have sex. we don't wanna make any mistakes that will are gonna regret. My boyfriend is 18 and he's still a virgin and when he told me he was i thought he was just kidding but it turn out that he was telling me the truth. Having sex is the problem, i'm just scared of what can happen and the other consequence and the disgrace and disappointment that i'll bring to my family. i remember by the end of the school year my friend was 5 months pregant. I didnt lose respect for her i except her and i realized that it was a mistake and we're not perfect and being preghant didnt change the person she was.