I'm a 15 year old, and know so many people that have lost their virginity or come very close to. And in my opinion, everyone should at least wait until they get married to have sex, or if they're determined to have sex with someone, wait until after you're 18. I don't think that someone should have sex with someone if they are young, like my age, or not an adult yet. Some of my best friends have told me how they met someone on the Internet and wanted to go meet up with the guy and do stuff with them, or that they almost did it with a guy they thought was their best friend. But I think that there's no reason to have sex with someone unless you're really sure that you love them, are living with them, getting married, or married already. Cause there's always a chance of that person using you, or something happening such as getting pregnant, or getting a STD. I think teenage girls aren't ready to have sex. Waiting will make it much more special, and when your a teenager, you don't always know what you truly feel. I know that I am ever-changing my feelings for guys, and only a few girls know what they really want and when they want it. These days girls believe that to be "in" they have to have done it with a guy, or something, but hey-- you DON'T! I don't think teenagers these days understand that if you have sex with someone... you can't take it back. So... go read a book or run a mile, don't have sex unless you have been tested, love them, and are completely sure you're mature enough!
well I'm 17 years old about to be 18, i just barely lost my virginity a year ago when i was 16 and i don't regret it at all. i think you can be ready at whatever age because first of all, people are raised differently and some people know how to take care of themselves better than others. i know a lot of girls and boys who have told me they regret it but it's their decision of what they wanted and who they wanted to lose it too. and i don't think people should say "wait till you get married" don't! you never know if you will get married or not. i think you should just wait till you feel it's the right time for you and you know or at least are sure about the person you are trying to lose it with. make sure you love him or her and they respect you. that's what i did. i know i loved the guy with all my heart and he respected me and was patient enough. yes, i am not with him but yet i don't regret it. i know i did the right choice and girls should think about this. your virginity is something really valueble and something very special even for guys! so just think it threw and dont be in a rush girls. sooner or later you are gonna loose it so if it was for me just wait until your heart tells you, you are ready. always follow what your heart tells you. forget what your minds tells you.
I am currently 17 and I lost my virginity when I was 13 and I can honestly say I don't regret it. I don't think there is a "right" age to lose your virginity it is a personal decision depending on who you are physically, emotionally, and morally that only you can make. I was very mature and well educated about sex and the risks associated with it. Also my morals surrounding sex are very open minded so I don't see anything "wrong" or monumental about having sex. Personally, I feel that oral sex or even holding hands in public is more intimate and our scruples around virginity are based in this archaic puritan mindset and nothing more. Choosing to have sex or not have sex doesn't make you any more or less of a woman either way and don't let anyone try to make you think that.
iam 15 years old im two months pregnate.I think i should of waited to having sex with my boyfriend me n him been together for nine months i love him n i wouldent of pikd sum one else to loose my virginity.i also think parents should talk bout having sex at a young age i wish my parents would of talk with me bout sex the first time we did was when i told my mom i was pregnate.my dad still dnt noe.my mom acts like she forgot bout it.Its not that i want to keep the baby but i have no option at all i have no help from no one.im moving out when i have the baby n im trying to stay in school but i think they are goin to kick me out when they find out.
You are not ready for it until you can handle the possible consequences!! i am 17 and i think it is the dumbest thing in the world when a 14 15 year old girl says"oh i love him" after being with them after only a year or so:P a 15 year old guy does not know what he wants and neither does a 15 cyear old girl. I have made mistakes and from that i learned that you shoudnt give your body to anyone unless they have fully commited to you yes that means MARRIAGE!! if you think about it thats the only way someone can truly show you that they love you and that is by saying they will spend the rest of their life with you. and not only that but if you give all your "firsts" to guys you thought you loved what will you have left to give to your husband?? nothing. not only is that what i think it is pretty much the truth.
Hey everyone. my personal oppion on this topic is that teens know what they are doing. they are not children; they know right from wrong and they know what they will do and what they wont. If a teen says that they had sex because they where "in the moment" they are wrong. the teen knew what they were about to do and they know how they feel aout it. they decide weather its right or its wrong. the choice comes down to weather you want to take that risk. i will admit that im 17years old and im not a virgin. i lost mine when i was about 13. i knew that i was making a life changing desion. i knew what the risks were; im a church going girl i beileve in the lord but it wsa my choice to do it. you see the people around you like your friends or your parents or even god only have so much say in your life. you decide what your going to do. you pick your outfit you pick what you eat you pick wether you want to have sex or not.
Hey everyone. my personal oppion on this topic is that teens know what they are doing. they are not children; they know right from wrong and they know what they will do and what they wont. If a teen says that they had sex because they where "in the moment" they are wrong. the teen knew what they were about to do and they know how they feel aout it. they decide weather its right or its wrong. the choice comes down to weather you want to take that risk. i will admit that im 17years old and im not a virgin. i lost mine when i was about 13. i knew that i was making a life changing desion. i knew what the risks were; im a church going girl i beileve in the lord but it wsa my choice to do it. you see the people around you like your friends or your parents or even god only have so much say in your life. you decide what your going to do. you pick your outfit you pick what you eat you pick wether you want to have sex or not.
i think people should do what the want
I don't think a girl is FULLY ready to have sex until she's married (just my opinion). until you're ready for the possible consequences that may come with having sex such as getting pregnant, getting STDs, or getting heart broken, you shouldn't have it. there's a much less chance you'll get STDs if you wait to give your virginity to your husband. and even if he has some, at least you won't be spreading them to other people. and there's also a much greater chance that you won't get your heart broken. yes, i know people get divorces, but at least you can have the pride that you gave the marriage everything you had. and that's only one heart break compared to 10 heart breaks you could have by having sex before marriage. that's just my opinion though.
hi i m 17 abt to be 18 yrs old i have had a 6 parters. I got a STD early this yr i didnt know which its was from i got it taken care of but i learned from that i m more careful who i have sex with. i lost my V card at 16 to a guy that was older than me by almost 6 yrs he did truly love me i was with him for 6 months after we had sex.I think that teens will have sex we cant stop it.i think that they should wait untill their ready like i did and with someone that they love and that someone loves them. to all the teens out there becareful one mistake can mess up everything in your life and future
hi i m 17 abt to be 18 yrs old i have had a 6 parters. I got a STD early this yr i didnt know which its was from i got it taken care of but i learned from that i m more careful who i have sex with. i lost my V card at 16 to a guy that was older than me by almost 6 yrs he did truly love me i was with him for 6 months after we had sex.I think that teens will have sex we cant stop it.i think that they should wait untill their ready like i did and with someone that they love and that someone loves them. to all the teens out there becareful one mistake can mess up everything in your life and future
hi i m 17 abt to be 18 yrs old i have had a 6 parters. I got a STD early this yr i didnt know which its was from i get it taken care of but i learned from that i m more careful who i have sex with. i lost my V card at 16 to a guy that was older than by almost 6 yrs he did truly love me i was with him for 6 months after we had sex. then i hit bad spot.i think that teens will have sex we cant stop it.i think that they should wait untill their ready like i did.
Okay, I'm a 15 years of age and I'm a virgin. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 6 months. Before he and I got together he got his ex-girlfriend pregnant. She was a friend of mine and I have seen all the pain that they went through trying to handle that situation at such a young age and even though she lost the baby they still were unable to carry on that relationship. (not only cause their parents but they couldn't get past what had happened) Seeing this and all the STD's going around makes me not want to just go around having sex with just any guys especially at such a young age. Sex was meant to be something sacred between a man and his wife and to be honest i doubt that i will save my virginity until marriage but i can guarantee that the boy i choose to share that with will be someone i care about a lot, someone that is honest and i can trust, and deffinitly someone that does not have an STD and someone that respects my decision on the matter and will agree to safe sex. I think the idea of a certan age to loose your virginity is absolutly ridiculous. So many girls are pressured into having sex from either boys, wanting to fit in with other girls, or wanting some kind of attention they may lack. I don't understand why anyone would do that. From what i hear the first time usually isn't even that great especially if you have no idea what you are doing but i think that the best thing is to have a good relationship with your parents like i have with my mom where you can go and talk about these
i lost my virginity about a year ago when i was 17. i dont regret it because i had been dating the guy i was with for over a year. he respected me and wasnt in the relationship just for the physical aspect of it. We've since broke up since he went to college and are still good friends, but i probably wont have sex again until i find another guy who i know respects me and that i have been in a steady relationship with.
There really isn't a "Right" age, every person matures differently. I'll be 18 in about 3 months. I lost my virginity when I was 16, to a guy I had unintentionally fell in love with. We were best friends and talked about everything, and even though we aren't together anymore, I would feel terrible if he got thrown in prison just because of the age difference, I don't regret it. I go to school and see a mix of both immature and mature students in the same grade. Alot of this depends on past experiences. Some are forced to "grown up" at a young age, like having to learn how to take care of themselves due to a bad finacial situation at home or even being a victim of child molestation. But then there are also alot of others that have had everything given to them on a silver platter or have lived a sheltered life, not knowing consequences of these actions. They think of it like a status symbol or even a hobby or form of entertainment. Then there's the ones that strive to be seen as an adult and believe sex will make that a reality. Either way, teenage life varies from person to person.