Hello. I'm 15 and I have had sex twice. The first time I really didn't want to. It started off Al innocent then he wouldn't stop so since then I really was not wanting or trustin no dude. Den I got with this one guy and fell in love so after 8 months I finally gave myself to him but I really regret it now cuz we no longer togetker and he did me wrong after. I feel that girls should really wait till they ready to have sex or at least til they got the rite guy. Cuz they can really turn on you!
hey. im 16 and me and my bf have been dating for 5 months and we are in total love! we talk about sex and we both dont want it to happen! what if my bc fails or something soooo i dnt wanna take a risk.... sex dosnt make u cool and to teen moms your trully amazing especially the one with triplets! but dont so sex! i havent and that dosnt make me not cool!
Well I am 14. I Lost my virginity at 13. i lost it with a guy that was 18. i had a friend over that was 15. & i thought she was my best friend and would never get me in any trouble. but i guess i was wrong. she invited to 18 year old guys to my house. & they were having sex in one room & the guy came onto me, and i guess it just happened. i always wanted to wait until i was married. I think girls should wait until they think they are REALLY ready. i cried and cried for ever. & still do. i lost friends over it. and its still hard. thankyou
Hello. I am 16 years old and will remain a virgin until i am married. Even i think a am in love, i will not have ex until the marriage commitment is final. Many teens these days think they are in love and love is a nice feel but that doesn't mean sex is okay.Seems okay when you have strong feeling for them but really i think its because they are horny teenagers even if you do love them. Sex should be love making; a way to unite with your partner and not when you are young. Having sex at a young age will cause you to want to do it again with another partner when you do get older. I cannot control the world of sex craved teens but i do not think that it would be a good personal coice for me. Sex with someone and later in life with another partner in my opinion is like blowing your nose on a used tissue. Why not use one fresh out of the box? Last year, my sophmore year in high school, i meant a young man in my class. He was 17, i was 15. Soon he was my boyfriend and I his girlfriend (against my parents wishes). He was my first boyfriend, gave me my first kiss. I'd had the sex talk with my parents and felt that keeping my virginty was worth it. I asked him how many partners he had before and he said two. I tried to leave it alone but 2 weeks into dating him he gave me a condom and said "only when you are ready". Comeplete BS, i had told him before that i didn't want sex until marriage. So for 6 MONTHs i delt with him and started falling into
Ok. Reading all these comments is crazy. Im 15 and not ready to have sex what so ever. Alot of people I know have done it. My one friend is like addicted, she got a sexual transmitted desease on her 16 birthday. She regrets it sooo much but she still goes around and has sex. I dont personally think having sex at 15 is wrong, but I dont think it's right either. I dont know. I am not ready to have sex, I know how to say no to boys. I not the type to get pressured easly. My first boyfriend [ which I had when I was 14] told me he loved me after 1 month of dating. I didnt tell him I love him back until later on in the relationship.[[ This was 1 year ago]] We are not together any more, and after we broke he told me he didnt even really know if he loved me he thought thats what I wanted to hear. I was heart broken when he said this but what hurt me worse was that he really only wanted me for one thing, he kept asking after we broke up why I never had sex with him. So it got me thinking thats all he wanted from me, he never really cared. Now at 15 I have alot of boy's come up to me and ask me to sleep with them. I now know that teenage boy's are immature. I am a very curvey girl, and all boy's love girls with the big butt, and bust. So of course I get boys stopping me on the streets asking me can I come back to their house and "Do some things" I dont fall for it because Im not that stupid my momma
alright, im 14 & a teen mom of triplets, i lost my virginty when i was 11, & dont regret it. it is hard with school everything, but i wouldnt change it for the world, i love my kids, & take great care of them all. & i dont think its fair how you people who dont agree like hate all the teen moms,
i had sex for the 1st time at age 11. Wasnt by choice. i was raped by my boyfriend. and now hes long gone. Im 15 now, i have had 4 sex partners 3 of them with protection and now i have a boyfriend who i have sex with about once a month and im additced. i love it so much i can stop no matter how much i try.... is there sumthing wrong with me?
im 15 yrs old and ive experienced love and therefore know that life and love and relationships are so uncontrollable. i loved my boy4ren with all mi heart and im not going 2 lie,,,i thot about having sex with him maybe a million times. i imagined how i would feel, how it would feel,,and at the time you think the answer is good,,,but thtz not the case,,,no were not 2gether anymore and no i ddnt actually do it but not bcuz i ddnt wnt 2 but bcuz i waz scared,,i was abused and molested at a very young age and so i have intimacy problems,,in my head we would be so close bt in person i was afraid 2 even i was afraid 2 even let him touch me or kiss me,,bt when your in love or you think u r u feel like u cnt go wrong,,,without marriage u cnt guarantee that the person will stay with u or commit 2 u bt thats not a liscence 2 live life afraid of getting hurt bcuz yes my breakup hurt like hell bt im such a betta person 4 it some things u hav2 go thru in order 2 b the person ur meant 2,,,u should wait 4 a combination of love and marriage or some1 u can c urself marrying
im 15 and i lost my virginity at 11.i lost it to a 21 yr old guy who i met at a party we only knew each other for 4 months and he asked me about sex and i di not know anything about it he told me he could show me better then he could tell me and thats what he did. now that i look back i can see that this was a bad thing. i feel he was too old for me and i was not ready for it. i regret it alot but i cant take it back. now i am pregnant with my first baby and i am terrified
well...it all depends one the person i guess. not everyone thinks about sex the same way. there ARE mature youbg women out there who have good heads on their shoulders and are capable of weighing consiquences before making dicisions. not many! but some. Once a girl has learned what she needs to know about sex, gotten protected,looked up all the healthwise facts and what not, KNOWS that she's not doing it because of peer pressurer but becuase she feels she is ready and wants to and that the young man is a good suit for her. then it's fine. before having sex with a boy,girls need to stop and say to themselves, "20 years from now, will i be able to look him in the eyes...and smile?" if the answer is a possitively possitive yes, then she's in good hands. we can't give a bad name to all teens. there are decent ones out there! I lost my virginity at 15 and i am still with and in love with that man. i don't regret my first time at all.
I dont think that Teen girls are ready to have sex yet not like when they are something like 13 to 16. its kinda wrong. Especailly seeing as most teen girls are like very immature in most ways and dont use protection. And a lot of the times they dont have a steady boyfriend. If they had a stedy boyfriend and they had been together for like 2 to 3 years and they knew that they would be together for a very long time longer, then it might be ok. I think girls should wait and make it special! thats very important.
WELL TYRA I WAS 14 WHEN I LOST IT. N IT WAS MY FIRST TIME N I GOT PREGNANT I WAS IN THE 9TH GRADE GETTING READY 2 HAVE A BABY SO ALL IT TAKE IS 1 TIME. I DONT THINK THAT TEENS NEED TO BE HAVING SEX WAIT UNTIL U IS READY DONT DO IT BECAUSE YOUR FRIEND AR DOING IT, U AR YOUR OWN SELF. IF U AR THINK ABOUT IT HAVE A TALK WITH YOUR PARENT, HAVING A BABY IS REAL HARD DONT DO WHAT I DID.
Hey Tyra , I'm 16 years old and i lost my viginity when i was 15 to someone i really thought i loved. but i was wrong . girls , you have to be so careful when deciding whether or not your going to have sex , especially when its your first time. if its not the right person , you'll regret it everyday of your life; i know i do . he was horrible to me after it and to this day still is . your v-card is something you need to hold on to . its something that anyone cn take a way from you , you just have to be the one to decide if its the right person or not . && stay away from drugs girls , they're horrible . it may be too late for me , but dont let it be too late for you.
Im 15 and my BF is 16, he recently brought up the subject of sex, and we're both virgins and i know im not ready and if i tell him that i know that he would understand, he's not one of those guys who would pressure me into doing something im not ready for, i know that for a fact, i just don't know how to tell him im not ready for sex, it's hard for me to open up to him about sex and talking about it, and i just need to know how i can tell him im not ready and not hurt him. if u can help me, email me at shannonmarie765@aol.com. please and thanks
I'M 18 YEARS OLD AND IM A VIRGIN.YES IM' PROUD TO SAY I HAVE MY V-CARD AND IT EXPIRES TILL MARRIAGE. I THINK ITS GOOD TO WAIT UNTIL YOU MARRY. I WAS BROUGHT UP IN A CHRISTIAN HOME AND MY MOM A PREACHER.YOUR VIRGINITY IS A PRECIOUS THING AND YOU WOULDN'T WANT TO GIVE IT TO JUST ANYBODY. YOU SHOULD JUST WAIT UNTIL YOU MARRIED SO YOU CAN SHOW YOUR HUSBAND YOU WAITED TO LOSE IT TO HIM AND NOT JUST ANY OTHER BOYS. YEA SOME PPL MAKE FUN OF ME FOR BEING A VIRGIN BUT I DON'T CARE. THEY THE ONES WHO COME TO ME SAYING THEY SHOULDS OF WAITED. LAST BUT NOT LEAST I LOVE GOD,RESPECT AND LOVE MYSELF SO THATS WHY I'M WAITING TILL I'M MARRIED.