hey Tyra. We'll i'm going out with this guy that i have known for three yeas; & we have four months goingg out. We did end up having sex. But now i feel that he is just using me for that. I don't have a problem having sex with him, but its always when he wants too; not when i want too. We had unprotected sex four times; & now that i think about it i regret it. I haven't gotten my period in this month & i'm worriedd. W
hEYY TYRA! WELL UM IM 14 AND OMG I FEEL LIKE IM THE ONLY VIRGIN AT MY SCHOOL :/ ITS LIKE HAVIN SEX IS THE BEST THING EVERR BECAUSE EVERYBODY TALKS ABOUT IT AND I FEEL LIKE I WANT TO LOSE IT BUT AT THE SAME TIME IM NOT READY AND I DONT EVEN KNOW WHO IS THE RIGHT PERSON TO LOOSE IT WITH. ALL MA FRIENDS JUST LOST IT WITH ANY GUY BUT I DONT WANT TO BE LIKE THAT I FEEL LIKE I SHOULD LOSE IT WITH SOMEONE THAT CARES FOR ME YOU KNOW. BUT I FEEL LIKE I CANT WAIT AND I JUST WANT TO LOSE IT RIGHT NOOOW! ..SO IDK WHAT TO DO
Hi Tyra. i am 19 years old n am a virgin! it is not because of society or pressure from my family to stay pure. it is a personal decision. my boyfriend and i are perfectly content waiting. i mean i am not going to say that we dont make out or stuff like that cuz we do, but we both know that sex will be so much sweeter for the both of us if we wait. now i dont know if we will wait til we are married but we are going to wait til we are ready. a girl in another comment said that she was mature enough to have sex, but sex has nothing to do with maturity it has to do with love and trust. i will have sex with the person i love! no matter how old or how mature i am when it happens it will be right because it will be with the man i love.
Hey Tyra, I'm 15 years old and I started having sex at the age of 14 during my grade nine highschool year and I had lost my virginity to an old friend of mine from elementary. Right after I lost my virginity I told my mom. Me and my mom have a pretty open relationship about sex now. My boyfriend that I've been dating for nine months now lost his virginity to me and we have sex regularly. I really don't see a problem with having sex because eventually eveyrone does it, so I really don't understand why It's such a big deal for people.
I really do believe that a girl should wait until she's married to have sex. There has to be trust between both people and and a girl should never have sex with her boyfriend if he pushes for it, or if she thinks that she has to so that he loves her. None of that is good. The best way to know if a man loves you and if he respects you is to keep our virginity sacred and save it for when you're married. And if a guy says he loves you and wants sex, and if you don't give it to him, and he leaves you, then that guy is scum and you deserve better.
You see, we girls have the thoughts of it is more attractive if we are not virgins, it will make the guys want us more. Well I don't want to burst your bubble but it doesn't. Staying abstinent is what i am doing and that is my choice, not what i think will make me more wanted by the other sex. You see i am who I am for a reason, and that reason is so i can be with someone who wants me for me and not the sex or the way i look. It makes me feel better that i will give myself to some one who really deserves me. But like i said that's only me.
hey tyra i thnk every1 should wait 4 tht special time wen they get married but tht isnt how thngs work anymre !! ppul blame the kids but its the parents who r givivng them 2 much freedom. or giving them not enough!
hi tyra! i just really find it disgusting that there are so many GIRLS (notice how i dont call them woman) are ok with having sex at such a young age...or having kids for that matter.They may think they know what there getting themselves into but they have no idea...im 19 an 9months prego and im freakin out! In know way was my baby girl planned at all,not that i regret her but i think that i could have deff been more responsible.These girls should be out trying to educate themselves and further themselves in there life...you dont need a man to do that.Especially the way things are right now...alot of woman cant afford to be a stay at home mom...SERIOULSY...WHAT ARE THEY THINKING!
well, im 17 turning 18 in a month and i had sex with about 15 partners or so. every time protected. my best friend just gave birth to a beautiful heatly baby girl and she is probably one of the best mothers i know. you may think wow these grls are out of control, but in actuallity. were the popular group at school, have many friends and also are very content with the way our lives are going. i think that society puts way to much pressure on girls to save themselves and find the right person. i lost my virginity at 13. my group of girls consist of virgins, girls who have lost their v card to boyfriends of five years along with girls such as myself who just love having fun... we all mature at different rates have different want and needs and desires. whats right for me may not be right for someone else but im living my life regret free, in a fun environment that suites me. i think its rediculis ne one would ever try to tell me when im ready to have sex,
Most of the above comments make me so sad. In a previous one it was said that kids aren't going to wait until they get married anymore. I did. And I dated my husband off and on for four and a half years before we married. I promise the temptation was there, but we believed God had a reason for asking us to wait, and so we did. It may sound like I come from the perfect life- I don't. My mom left me when I was three and my dad tried as hard as he could, but he wasn't always so good at letting me know how special I was. I began wanting to have sex when I was 14, but I chose not to. I took advantage of my choice. Girls, you do have a choice. You do have a possibility of that fairy tale wedding night. I had mine! It wasn't easy getting there, but my husband and I are both SO thankful that we waited for each other. I can guarantee you that when we make love it can't compare to anything that might happen under the bleachers at school. It is worth waiting for. Please, wait.
hey im only 15 year old an a alot girl like me having babies i think its wrong because all them girls think dat cute they need to keep their legs close it's bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hey tyra... well i'm still a virgin and i'm 16. i met this guy in '07 and he became my best friend. we talked about past relationships and anything normal friends would talk about. i really feel like i could trust him enough to lose my virginity to him and lately i think i actually fell for him. he's about to be 19 in april. he seems like the perfect guy..he looks into my eyes when he talks to me and pays close attention when i talk to him... i dont know what to do! help???
hiii tyra im 14 and i dun think sex is cool at all until u feel comfortable and ready for it. i think is crazy the fact that tons of teens are doing sex. i plan on doing sex when i get married or atleast when im ready so if in case a baby happens i have money i have a house n a colleg education so i wont have to worry about tellin my mom or depending on some boy to take care of me and my baby. i use to have this bf who keeped on saying the cutest thing like *oh i love you* *i wanna marry u* but i always new that he just wanned sex from me so i would act like i wanted him to l0l. he stared asking me to do sex with him n i said now...i was like*do not mention sex to me until either its been 100 years n we been married*l0l. n then he goes behind mah back n cheats on me. i taught that was super childish but w.e so i break up with him!...i just hope he got wat he wanned. is it me or boys just want sex from girl?..thats wat it seems!
hiii i just turned 18 and im a senior... i really don't think that teens having sex is a huge issue as long as they're careful. speaking from past experience, safety should really be highest on the priority list. a pregnancy scare in high school is probably one of the worst things i've ever had to go through and i don't wish that upon anybody. losing my virginity at fifteen definitely isn't something i'm super proud of, but i'm not ashamed. i've been having sex for 3 years or so with a guy i really cared for and even though that's over i still think that it made our relationship more fun and memorable. so yeah... have fun but be safe.
hi i'm 15 (almost 16) and i am still a virgin. me and my boyfriend (almost 19) have been dating for a year and 4 months and we have had our ups and downs but have come so far and i kw that he respects me and would nvr do anything i don't want to do. we have talked about sex and have both agreed that we won't do it until i'm 18 or older. he promises me that if we were ever "in the moment" and we were going too far he would stop it. we're deeply in love with each other and i could nvr live without him. i can't stand people who say that teenagers can't be in love bcuz that is not true at all. i want to spend the rest of my life with him and i kw he feels the same way. we talk for hours every night about our future and what it holds and we both agree with each other about everything. my point is that u should wait until u have fallen in love and KNOW this is the right guy and u definitely see urself marrying him. u should also make sure u've both thought long and hard about the consequences with every action and have talked to each other about ur opinions. if he doesn't agree with u then u might want to re-think ur relationship.