Breaking up with Mr. Nice Guy is the worst. He's loving and caring -- but you're just not that into him. The thought of breaking his sweet little heart is, well, heartbreaking. But Dr. Mandel has advice on how to dump a nice guy -- gently.


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hi tyra, i've been wtih my husband for 11yrs now we have 2 children. we got together when i was 17yrs old, i love him and everything. but i dont think i want to be in the relationship anymore. i'm scared my life is gonna pass me by. i just need more. i think i just wanna be single and enjoy my life. he never wants to do the things i do and he has a problem when i do things without him but he acts like he doesn't. i hate feeling restricted. i just wanna be free. i dont know how to tell him because i'm afraid of hurting him. thats the last thing i would want to do. but i need to be happy. Help! desperate housewife!
 
hi tyra, i've been wtih my husband for 11yrs now we have 2 children. we got together when i was 17yrs old, i love him and everything. but i dont think i want to be in the relationship anymore. i'm scared my life is gonna pass me by. i just need more. i think i just wanna be single and enjoy my life. he never wants to do the things i do and he has a problem when i do things without him but he acts like he doesn't. i hate feeling restricted. i just wanna be free. i dont know how to tell him because i'm afraid of hurting him. thats the last thing i would want to do. but i need to be happy. Help! desperate housewife!
 
Hi Tyra-Love your show...great topics!! Is it possible to get FREE copy of 'Dump That Chump?' Thanx! 1109 Spindle Xing Virginia Beach, VA 23455
 
trya i need help i've been with this guy for going on three years and i stayed with him because i got pregant and try to make it work but now i have two kids by him and i'm still not happy and there's big age difference between us and when i say big i mean 14 years and he has already expereinced everything i haven't and he doesn't ever want to do anything except sit at the house when i want to go out an it's not like i want to go out everyweek end just once maybe twice a month and we do't ever communicate ever we keep everything to r self because i'm kida scared of him what should i do??????
 
hay tyra i have been seeing this guy for about 6 mounth and he is very sweet and all but it is not fun if it isn't fun why stay in the relationship right but the question is how do i break it off
 
hi tyra, im 19 yrs old and i been with my son father for 4yrs and its not exciting like it use to be i dont kno how to break up with someone because i never did it before. i stay with him because i didnt have a place to stay after i came home from the hospital.my son is about to be 4months i just want out and help.please help me
 
I would like a copy of "dump that chump"
 
hi Tyra , i just finished watching your show...i was dumped with a simple fone call saying "i think i cant do it anymore" i asked no questions !! thought it was of no good any more..but we still talk formal one in a blue moon..its highly uncomfortable...n wud like to move on .i wud like to have a copy of Dr. Debra's book dump that chump..cud you please send me that?
 
hey tyra, Just left a comment to tell you that I love your show. Though others may not think so, I know that you are a real,true,and caring person. You are one of the reasons why I want to start modeling. Thank you so much.
 
love to get a free copy of the book DUMP THAT CHUMP THANK.
 
Hey Tyra, I look at your show everyday from the caribbean. I just think you are soooo beautiful. Keep up the good work and i wish you well. you should Visit the Nature Isle of the Caribbean sometime if you can....... Think about it. God Bless! Marity.
 
Hey Tyra, I look at your show everyday from the caribbean. I just think you are soooo beautiful. Keep up the good work and i wish you well. you should Visit the Nature Isle of the Caribbean sometime if you can....... Think about it. God Bless! Marity.
 
Hey Tyra !! I love the show ! I have a bit of a problem and I figured that ud probally be the best person to ask. Im with this guy whos WAAAYYYY older then me (like 48 and Im 19) I like him cuz hes a good guy and all that but I feel embarressed when I go out with him. He's extreamly jellous aswell, but I think that has to do with the age difference. I moved to a different city with him and now Im going crazy because I dont kno anyone out here and the people I do know he dosnt let me hang out with. I need to know if Im just wasting my time with him or am I just getting fustrated with the fact that I cant hang out with anyone ? I mean these are suppose to be the best years of my life and all he lets me do is sit in the house and wait till he gets back :( I think Im getting into a depression or maby just a rut. Think you could help me out ? hope my message wasnt to long, thanks so0o0o much! p.s. keep up the good work soon Opra will envy you !! lots of luv, Julia xox
 
Angelina, I read your comment and I went through the same thing a couple years ago. Chances are if you didnt wanna be with him before then you probably wont want to be with him now. He may be nice but think of the reason why you didnt want to be with him in the first place. It sounds like you just want him to be a rebound because even if you were with him but found another guy you liked, you would leave that guy for the new guy. Sounds like you want him back until you find your soul mate but believe me you will find your soul mate. Just keep praying and have faith! Theres someone out there for everyone. Love Ya Tyra!!
 
Dear Tyra, I saw your show last week about being dumped. I just got dumped after a seven year relationship and plans of getting married. I have been completely devastated and I just do not know how to move on. He even still gives the impression that we might get back in the future but he has already got a new girl to entertain him. I wanted to know how I could get a copy of "Dump that Chump?" I am hoping it might have some information in it that could help me. I cried during your entire show. I almost feel like I am going through all the things that each girl on your show was. Seven years is a long time. Can you help me? Sincerely, Niki J. Adams



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