Don't complain when your man hangs with the guys -- it could be saving your relationship.

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Your man walks in late after a night of poker with the guys, smelling like beer and stumbling into bed without so much as a "goodnight." But before you get mad, read how a night of male bonding

Heart Healthy
Having heart-to-hearts may actually reduce stress -- and the risk of heart disease.


Self-Esteem Kings
A night with the guys does wonders for self-image and self-esteem -- between all those beers is a lot of positive reinforcement.

Guy Gossip
There are some things your man just needs to share with his pals, like issues with money, parenting or relationships. Let him talk it out -- it's good for his psychological health to know he's not the only dude with issues.

Don't freak if your guy is spending a reasonable amount with the boys -- with all the health perks, you could be looking at a longer future together.


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I think that may be true. But what do you do when he spends time with his friends to be with a nother woman hes seeing
 
Hi Tyra, I agree with this. But i have a problem too. I think it's me though. My guy and I have been dating for 10 months now and every month prob maybe twice a month him and some of his friends will go out to a movie and Hooters, of all places. I know my guy is not going to do anything wrong, but i get so worried and ask myself things like, I wonder if their talking about how some girl looks there. Is he staring at them? Am i not good enough or look good enough for him? What exactly ARE they doing? I don't know why but some of these questions always pop into mind and i could almost cry at the thought of that happening. I have a fear of getting cheated on. Ive never been this non condifent! I know probably alot of girls do the same thing. I just really love him and im thinking so much i dont know what to do! Help!
 
i on't mind if my husband hands with his friends, it's just that he don't know when to spend time with me and our son. Alsio money is tight and he odes spend alot of money when he plays poker.
 
I sometimes dont mind but honestly i dont trust his friends
 
I dont mind bt he should make time for me and he shouldnt get too drunk
 
I agree as long he would make time for me



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