Adult Films Made for Women versus Films Made for Men -- Is there A Difference?
07/24/08 12:03 PM
filed under: Hot Topics Love
More and more women are giving themselves permission to enjoy porn. But they may not be watching the raunchy X-rated films the boys like. Now there are pornographic movies made specifically for women. These sensual movies have a real story line, as well as intimacy. Would you consider watching this kind of movie? Are you OK with any form of an adult film? Let us know!
Comments (65) | Post a comment now »
I loved this episode. The real question who was the male guest named Larry, 29 who watched the porn made for women! :)
Right-o, now I wouldn't have a problem with porn if the employees were treated better (The actresses in particular, look up Max Hardcore to see what I'm talking about).
So I don't watch much porn, no.
However! I do enjoy erotic fiction and comics, hell, I submitted a nine page comic to a sex anthology.
I'm completely baffles me when folks are shocked that *gasp!* women like porn too!?
What's good for the gander...
wow this "emily" really treated the show. i can't believe how entertaining reading these comments is. hahahah
dear tara,are the femme collection movies available on dvd,i had some on vhs and loved them as did my husband of 38 years,sadly the tapes are no longer watchable and i would dearly love to replace them,thanks for listening to me,chris
Hey who was he director of the movies? I believ the name started with an R.
Tyra-
Your survey left out a category. Those who have used porn and regret it.
Okay Tyra, I am a 19 year old wife! I have watch porn before a few time, and I also tried to spice up my relationship by watching porn with my husband, guess what happend?... end up turning off the T.v. and did a better job then the girl faking the excited look on her face! I talked to my husband to see if he liked the movie he said, "thats just plain stupid". In my own point of view from what I've experimented Its just plain BORING!!! I know that in my age theres a lot of teenagers loving it, but really, porn is just something that makes people sick. Nobody need's porn to make their sex better! I don't allow my husband to have porn in the house and my sex life is GREAT!
Humans made in Gods' Image, Reality!Everything is spiritual!Lust is a spirit,and is overwhelming to the Ungodly.Even to the righteous.Great men had fell from high places because of the spirit of lust.Marriage is godly and should not be currupted by the spirit of pornagraphy.God is so loving and understanding.He has blessed us with the gift of sex and forever sssatisfying love if we live Godly.Now if a spirit of confusion and insecurity would approach me,I pray I'm Godly enough to recognize it and ask God to improve me anyways, overcoming with a bang! Christain women can be SEXY and loving!
This is a touchy subject near and dear to us all. Are we not here to share our thoughts and opinions with each other and not force them upon each other or slam each other. Let's try to respect each other's opinions.
With that being said, here are my thoughts, take it or leave it.
I feel there is a difference between porn use on a casual basis and porn addiction which has damaging effects on the person addicted and family or loved ones around that person.
I do agree that we are not addressing the real issues that come up from porn addictions. Such as self esteem problems and confusion about what is expected of women. Not to mention, to the fathers out there, what do you do if your little girl accidentally walks in on her daddy j---ing off to porn. Think about how damaging that can be. Or another perspective, guys, how would you feel about your teenage daughter being pressured to do those kinds of things because some young boy hasn't been taught any other way of treating a woman.
We don't ever think or talk about these things, it seems that this subject is very one sided. It seems that guys are down on women for not being open or willing to try these things. I feel that men should be just as willing to try the things women want and need. Men you might be suprised that if you give a little also, women are so much more willing to do more for you.
I don't think that porn is all bad, I just think that if people put it in between the relationships they have (rather than use it casually and respect it and each other) it can be a very real problem and I feel all were doing is teaching people, mostly men, that it's ok to be degrading to women.
My DH and I watch these *movies* a lot... and I use them by myself sometimes, too... I'm a visual person. I have mentioned numerous times that I wish that more of these were made for women and not just for men. I don't want to see all of the oh-ah-face shots of the women... I want to see how much the men are enjoying it. KWIM?
Not knowing what I do or do not do, you have no clue what goes on in MY bedroom NATHAN. But I can say this, the one that brags the most is getting the LEAST. As I said there are things that YOU won't do, I am sure of it. Women are entitled to say NO also, and a REAL man doesn't run out and see a prostitute to get it risking STD's and a divorce if he gets caught. Sorry, REAL men don't even act like you are.
LOL That was beyond pathetic... and totally off topic.
NATHAN.. That was totally UNCALLED for. How about YOU start doing what you expect.. get with the program. Bend over and do some M-M for us.. let's see what you can do in that area oral and all.
I am SURE you are a porn addict after those nasty, horrible comments. NO man would say something so horrid unless he totally saw women as nothing more than slaves or servants. I would rather be alone than with someone like YOU any day also. Men like you have excuses for why the world doesn't revolve around them, and they get that way after saturation of falsehoods. PORN is a falsehood and you are a perfect example seriously as to the downfalls of what it does to some men.
Wow, I just checked out this blog, NATHAN.. you are SICk and in need of help. Do NOT include me in your crap either. I for one think men like YOU are the reason women ARE so jaded, I know enough of ya. These women are entitled to happiness and it is NOT your place because you are male to tell them what it is. I WOULD NEVER cheat on a woman because she didn't do something for me, but I HAVE been cheated on. And it wasn't because of sex. But there ARE women that cheat because some MEN do treat them like crap as YOU are and do. They are people..not robots for your pleasure. What a sick man you are.
Ladies, dont' even bother responding... this man has NOTHING worth your time. I am sure you both are VERY well taken care of by men that ADORE you and would do anything for YOU. NOT the other way around. Women should NOT be submissive just because they are women and some jerk tells them to do it.
Wendy and Holly,
You poor gals are probably getting cheated on right now! Porn is an example of the things that men wish they could do to their wives or girl friends. Tyra had a show about prostitution not to long ago and the working girls said that they were in buisness because they did the things that those men did not experience in their realationships. You are right...it is fantasy but it is also reality because I have had porn sex consistantly since the age of 17 for free and won't except anything less, so don't tell me that they only do it cause they are getting paid. None of you have to agree with my views but its the truth whether you like it or not...remember that when you catch your boyfriend or husband cheating on your lame a double s! And for the record saying you would rather be alone is so cliche, every woman says that until they are alone then they go through all this emotional drama cause they don't have a man! SAVE THAT BULL CRAP!!!!
Hey Holly,
just read your comment about my comment and all
I have to say is your probably being cheated on right now! I do not think women should do anything that they don't want to do....I'm saying that they should want to do freaky things. When men get married theyare saying hat they are going to give up every other women in the worldfor you, if he can't have his sexual needs met then wtf is the point? None of you have to agree with me but what I said earlier is the truth whether you like it or not! Remember that when you catch your boyfriend or husband cheating on your lame a double s! One of the reasons that I am happy in my marriage is because my wife finaly got it. And for the record, you would not rather be alone...tha is a cliche statment that wmen make but after a while they start to develope emotional problems and depression issues until they find a partner. They put on a front in public and then cry when they are alone. STOP LYING! YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE ALONE!!!
EMILY, I wish you had posted that in the "A Porn Star Speaks Out" blog!!! It would have fit much better there!!!
Sorry for the multiple post. My browser froze.
Hey tyra
I think watching porn is just not right! cuz that stuff is for u and ur man not for everyone to see i think that is just nasty and i dont think that can make u sex life better!! and if u do watch it with ur man and see if u can make u sex life better then ur mans goin to be like why cant u do it like the girl did in the video then what u goin to doo and what if ur man starts wishing u where like that! but if pple that are single and never kissed anyone before and u want to watch some videos so u can get it right well thats realy stupid cuz if the person ur goin to kiss should understand its ur first time and that u can improve! i think it should be all at the spot cuz thats when its really fun its not fun havin git all planed out or what not!!
Tyra only covered two segments of the porn industry. The first was mainstream professional produced porn. The second was a very small niche segment of professional produced porn...films made by women from a woman's perspective for a woman's taste.
Tyra neglected two major genres of adult video...those being amateur and pro-am. Amateur films feature real couples having the sex they actually have. Some amateur films are made by the couple themselves shot with a handheld camera or the camera on a tripod or the dresser or by a close friend. Other amateur films are "shot by professionals" in a studio or other regular (often recurring) location. In this instance professional is referring to only the camera operators and producers of these tapes as they are earning their living from performing this task. The couple featured are still amateurs as even if they do get paid they will probably never make a career of it and often it is the one and only video of them doing this.
The other genre...Pro-Am features a professional actor having sex with an amateur actor (usually male pro with a female amateur). In this case the professional actor makes his (or her) living by performing in adult videos and the actress is more often than not appearing in her one and only video ever. Ed Powers is probably the best and most prolific example of Pro-Am and several of the girls from his many video series have indeed gone on to professional porn careers.
Yes I watch porn but easily 90 percent of it is amateur and pro-am. I much prefer observing real women (with real breasts) having real consensual experiences to watching some silicone titted bimbo reading her orgasms of of a cue card
to watching some