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I have a problem and i figured what better person to go to other than ms. tyra banks herself. I have this problem with my boyfriend and his past relationship and I'm worried. I found out about a month ago that he was still foolin wit his ex girlfriend because when i called him she answered his phone. After awhile he finally confessed to him still seeing her after the third time and i felt so stupid. I love him and i want to make it work but i find myself thinking about it more and more and i feel that i have to compete. He says he love me but i think its just a lie so i wont leave him. He says he cares about me so much and dont want to lose me but i think he's just sayin that because we have a little girl on the way and he wants to be in her life. So tyra what should i do? i really need your advice please and thank you
 
im 20 my boyfriend is 31 we have a child toghter he has two kids from two previous relationships and hes married now whenn we first stared talking he told me everything about his wife that she still lives with him but they dont sleep together infact he hate her guts but i just dont understand if its like that why wont he file for a divorce at time i feel like he dont wanna leave or not ever gonna leave her and in the long run even though we been through alto my heart will get broken in the end i just want to make it right for my son (our)and which thats not the only reason i really love him im in love with him but i feel like im wasting my time and i dont know what to do i need help! asap!
 
hey tyra ,im noora from united arab emirates. me and my bf r togather since 2 years and we love each other aloooot. but there's a girl i knw and her bf tried to runi everything between me and him. she start calling him and txting him and telling him that im a player and that i cheated on him with her bf.but my bf didnt belive them. so when they found out that thier plan didnt work out and we are still togather , they tried something else. they recorded my voice. and they played with it on the computer, and the girl called me and told me hey noora hear your voice. i was shocked becaouse i heard my voice saying some bad things that i didnt do like ya i slept with ur bf and i did this and this. it was my voice but i didnt say that. it was weird. she called my bf and let him hear the voice and she told him that's ur gf voice. when my bf heard the voice he belived them that time. he told me noora it's over becaouse that voice was really ur voice and i know ur voice really well. i really cried aloot i tried to tell him that it's not me who said that but he didnt belive me cu they played with my voice on the computer. now my life is getting really bad. i cant sleep well, or even eat. im always mad and i always fight with my family. that girl let me lose the love of my life and the person who was going to marry me. im really broken and i want my bf back but i donno how. plz help me
 
TYRA,WHO ARE THOSE ASSHOLES THAT ARE TRYING TO COPY YOURE FORMAT ON THAT STUPID SHOW,AMERICAS NEXT SENIOR CITIZEN??????AND WILL YOU PLEASE PUT THAT TYRA WANNA BE MS WILLIAMS BACK IN THE HOOD,WHY I THOUGHT IT WAS RUPAL TRYING TO MAKE A COMEBACK WITH A HORRIBLE WEIVE. ANYWAY TYRA YOU ARE NUMBER 1 AND IVE NEVER DONE ANYTHING LIKE THIS BEFORE BUT YOU ARE WORTH IT. YOUR FAN ALWAYS, RANDY GOLDEN, EAST LOS ANGELES.
 
Dear Tyra, I think you have just improved the economy by having your expert show us how to get a raise. MY daughter,Susan, told me she was dissappointed in the 5% raise she got. I shared what I learned on your show and she went into her boss ,asked her to reconsider t0 10% and told her boss why she was worth it. Her boss agreed and said consider it done. My daughter's confidence shot up and she thanked me for the good adice. I bet thousands of woman did just that. Thank you, Mom from California
 
hi tyra i really like your shaw you are like one of my biggest role model i really wish i could meet you one day hope my wish comes true sometime but until then bye luv ya shavel
 
I did'nt see this show and I really wish I would have. My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years, and I still don't trust him at all. There's been rumors about him, many people have told me he's done stuff with other girls from hand holding to having them sleep over. Even my best friend, and his have told me stuff like this before. So it should be obvious to me then to leave him, right? But, it's not that simple. Every time I've asked him about the rumors he denies it, he looks me straight in the eyes and he denies it. I always end up believing him, but it's just too much to be a coincidence. I've even considered getting a polygaph done on him so I can finally know the truth. Help?
 
Hey tyra my name is Graciela I've known this guy for six months and been dating him for six months. My mom kicked me out of the house and i came to move in with him and his parents there fine with it. He is the nicest guy i have ever met i'am like in love with him i feel like i cant live a day with out him. But when it comes to his friends i dont trust him @ them i feel like there convencing him to do drugs and thats something i cant stand in a guy but i love him what should i do?
 
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dear tyra (and any one who can helpe) ME AND MY BF w've been intresting in each other for 8 months but we were not toghether even but we tried more than once i know that he likes me so mucth but i love him .........i never toled him that i love him and him to we've been together for 1monthe and 14 day .i'don't know what he feels for me he is not the type of guy that u can easly read ....sometimes i give up and sometimes i say well if he don't love now maybe he will ...now he is like a challenge ...i can really use advice to read him good or to make fall in love with me ....
 
hey tyra, well i've been in a relationship for 6 months and i love him, and i give him so much and i put so much effort towards him...but i feel as if he doesn't feel the same way back. he tells me he loves me, he tells me that i mean a lot to him, and there's times where i beleive it..then times when i don't. and also i know of his past and he was with a friend of mine for 2 years and he did nothing but treat her bad and cheat on her... and i have a feeling he did or is cheating on me. he never ever lets me go through his phone and when i do sneak through it, i find nothing but texts from other girls, and every time i've been throught his phone there's been atleast one text from another girl...and one time when i went throught his texts they were talking about how it was awkward when she left and that she was going to go tomorrow to get the morning after pill..i wasn't going ot confrount him about it cause one i know i would have gotten in trouble for going through his phone and two he would just find a way to deny it..so i texted one of my friends asking her what to do and i accidently sent it to him and so he called and said why did i go through his phone and that i don't trust him which i really don't think i do, and he also said that they were just talking about there past they had so i let it be and went through his phone a little later and they were talking again calling each other babe and baby and it hurt
 
Hey Tyra! I just read some of these girls thoughts on thier relationships and boy do I sympathize with them! I'm 24 years old and have had 3 long term relationships ( if you call 1 1/2-2 years long). This last one I'm sill in. we've been together for 2 years. we've had our ups and downs but for the most part hes a good guy. so I thought. My famiy is a big part of th decision I make in my relationsips well, at least they have been recently. you see when I was a little younger I was in a few other relationships and I got hit, cussed, just abused all together so as I got older I learned to listen to my family. I dont have a mom. Never really have. My mom was a druged addicted alcoholic that took out all her anger on me and my older brother. i got taken away from her when i was 14 and went to live with my aunt. Shes been like my mom every since. Espcially since mine died 8 years ago from a O.D. Anyways, when I first met my man he wined and dined me and I "feel in love" long story simi-short I co'sign for him a truck a year into the relationship. Two weeks later we had a car accident and totaled the car and he stoped paying on it aftrhe promised to pay on it so it wdnt hurt my creit. Nice huh? this is just a little of what hes done when it comes to money. To some this up. I dont trust him when it comes to other females, money or anything. but I love him. Im not sure if I'm in love with him but I do love him. Hes
 
hey Tyra i have an ex boyfriend who's mother made him break up with me. i want to get back together with him but his mom won't even let me or him talk to each other. i also don't know if he still likes me. what can i do to get back together with him? please help (if you can) Love, Shannon
 
hey tyra, i just saw the video on "knowing when to get out" i still need some advice. i am 20 years old and i have been with my bf for a little over 3 1/2 years now. in may i moved from the state of wa to the state of az to be with him and i don't know if things are going to turn out ok. he has told me he doesn't love anyone outside of his family and this includes me. however, yesterday, we got into a fight about how he has a friend and about a year ago she tried to break us up by telling me he's out runnin around on me and sayin bad things about him and he is still friends with her because she apologized to him for lying on him. i felt like if he respected me, he should tell her to apologize to me for saying those things to me and almost breaking us up. when it was all said and done, he told me that he felt between a rock and a hard place and i told him that i loved him but if he doesn't want to respect me and treat me like a good woman then i have to leave and go home. the dilemma is that after 3 years i finally get the strength to say goodbye because he makes things too difficult for me, and then he tells me he needs me and i am all he has here in az. and i just melted and cried and said ok i will stay. i know i love him with all my heart and he has said in a loving manner that he knows that there is no one that cares about me more than him
 
hey tyra, i just saw the video on "knowing when to get out" i still need some advice. i am 20 years old and i have been with my bf for a little over 3 1/2 years now. in may i moved from the state of wa to the state of az to be with him and i don't know if things are going to turn out ok. he has told me he doesn't love anyone outside of his family and this includes me. however, yesterday, we got into a fight about how he has a friend and about a year ago she tried to break us up by telling me he's out runnin around on me and sayin bad things about him and he is still friends with her because she apologized to him for lying on him. i felt like if he respected me, he should tell her to apologize to me for saying those things to me and almost breaking us up. when it was all said and done, he told me that he felt between a rock and a hard place and i told him that i loved him but if he doesn't want to respect me and treat me like a good woman then i have to leave and go home. the dilemma is that after 3 years i finally get the strength to say goodbye because he makes things too difficult for me, and then he tells me he needs me and i am all he has here in az. and i just melted and cried and said ok i will stay. i know i love him with all my heart and he has said in a loving manner that he knows that there is no one that cares about me more than him



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