Girls, stop wondering when that cute guy is going to ask you out -- just do it yourself!

Asking a guy out may sound like one ticket you won't be buying for the scary-go-round that is dating, but it's easy -- and more women are making the first move. So, here's how to do it!

Flirt
It's our greatest weapon -- utilize it! Laugh at his jokes, compliment his clothes, bat those beautiful eyes. Some guys love the attention, even if they won't admit it.

Be Direct
You could hold a sign over your head reading "Would you like to have dinner tonight?" and he still might say, "Huh?" Be as clear as you can, especially if you were pals beforehand.

Be Confident
You're unique, charming and beautiful inside and out -- what's not to love? Approach him knowing you've got something special -- and nothing to lose. If he doesn't see it, someone else will.

Find Common Ground
As you're showing off your infinite charm, get him to open up to you about his hobbies. If you find something in common (think movies, surfing or tennis), ask if he'd like to do it with you!


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rytey so im a normal british 13 year old girl and i reeeaaaallllllyyyyyy like this guy called Jack hu just happens 2 be in my spanish class nd sits near me and by near just his best mate between us and hes always looking at me and i wnt 2 ask him out but idk what 2 say nd ive never felt this way you no...aaargh what shud i sayyyyyyyy??????
 
I'm going into 8th grade and I've never had a boyfriend but I like someone he's my brothers best friend and he's a grade older than me. But like I said I've never had boyfriend before and I don't want this to crush my spirt if he says no that he doesn't like me. Please Tyra, What do I do????????????
 
I have this big problem! so there is this boy that i really like. the only thing is that he has went out with me b4 but he cant keep a steady realtionship so i cant trust him with anything.. i see him everyday, we hug everyday... but i just found out that him and my best friend go out! :( i was really upset and im not her friend cause of that.. What should i do? be happy for them and be both of there friend? or just be my best friends friend? or just his friend? or should i try to steal him back? P.s... His mom really likes me and wants me and him to go out so that is a bright side..
 
I like this guy a lot he is a chinese like me too and i have his email he just told me that he likes me he calls me baby and i have his phone number i really like him alot i met him about 2 weeks ago now he is back to L.A. but i will meet him at mexico again july his name is Stanley he also has my phone number what to do
 
I'm a freshman in high school and I like this junior alot. We've never talked to eachother before, but I want to go out with him but I don't know how to ask him out. What should I do?
 
I'm a freshman and I like this junior alot but I don't know if he likes me back. We've never talked to eachother before, but I want to go out with him but I don't know how to ask him out. What should I do?
 
Heyy Tyra. I'm 19yrs Old And I Like This Boy And He Is Sooooooo Cut³ But I Dnt Know Him And He Don't Know Me. I Just Requested Him On Facebook Because He Was Cut³ But I Like Him And I Don't Even Know Him. And I Would Love Too Be Able To Make Him My Boyfriend. But He's A " Pretty Boy " And I'm Chubby So I Don't Know How Too Let Him Know I Like Him And + I'm Scared He Won't Like Me Back Or Worst Have A Girlfriend. I Want To Be His Friend But Getting To Know Him To Be My Boyfriend If He Meets My Standards. So What Should I Do ??? Uqh.... :(
 
Heyy Tyra. I'm 19yrs Old And I Like This Boy And He Is Sooooooo Cut³ But I Dnt Know Him And He Don't Know Me. I Just Requested Him On Facebook Because He Was Cut³ But I Like Him And I Don't Even Know Him. And I Would Love Too Be Able To Make Him My Boyfriend. But He's A " Pretty Boy " And I'm Chubby So I Don't Know How Too Let Him Know I Like Him And + I'm Scared He Won't Like Me Back Or Worst Have A Girlfriend. I Want To Be His Friend But Getting To Know Him To Be My Boyfriend If He Meets My Standards. So What Should I Do ??? Uqh.... :(
 
so i like this guy is in the 9th i am in the 11th and i will i don't know him that much but he is a nice guy. he is really cute and i want to ask him out to be my boyfriend... what should i do?
 
I reallly like this guy im in the 6th grade you no how like there new kids when you star at middle school and stuff well like he doesnt no me that well and like everyone knows him and im just so scared to talk to him i think im going to say something stupid.We talk on aim but not amymore he told me who he likes and my exbest friend asked him out for me on myspace and he had said no so he might not take me seriousley the next time i want to asK him out.WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!! and i try ever day to make him notice me i mean were kind of into the same things lacrosse singing things like that i just wish he would like ask me out cuz i never had a boyfriend i really want him to be my first. cuz some of my fiends had went out with him and said hes a gentleman.
 
I like this guy sine the beginning of the year, so i asked him out at the beginning of the year. He said no because he didn't really know me, even though i have 4 clases with hom. Now we know each other pretty well, so i want to ask him out again. I am afraid of what he will say.
 
SO I LIKE THIS GUY. I MEET IN THE BEGINNING OF THE SCHOOL YEAR. IM IN THE 11TH GRADE AND HES IN THE 10TH. I DIDNT LIKE HIM AT FIRST EVEN THOUGH HES A GOOD DRESSER CUTE SWEET AND JUST COOL TO BE AROUND. WE HAVE OUR FIRST CLASS TOGETHER AND WERE ALWAYS TOGETHER IN THAT CLASS. I CAN TALK TO HIM ABOUT ANYTHING AND HE CAN SAY WHATEVER IS ON HIS MIND TO ME. BUT THERE IS THIS GIRL THAT HE LIKED A LOT BUT SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND AND THEYRE NOT FRIENDS ANYMORE. BUT YEAH EVEN WHEN THEY WERE ME AND HIM STILL TALKED ABOUT EVERYTHING AND THE WAY HE TALKS TO YOU MAKES YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE A QUEEN. ITS JUST AMAZING. HE HAS NO IDEA ABOUT THE WAY I FEEL ABOUT HIM BECAUSE I THINK IT WOULD BE VERY WEIRD SINCE HES YOUNGER THEN ME. AND I THINK SINCE WE HAD CONVERSATIONS ABOUT WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE ARE OUR TYPE AND HE KNOWS HES NOT REALLY MY TYPE BUT I DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL HIM THAT I KINDA FEEL FOR HIM. I KNOW HE THINKS IM REALLY PRETTY AND ALL THAT WE HAVE TALKED ABOUT THIS BEFORE. I THINK IF I JUST OPENED UP AND TOLD HIM HOW I FEEL THERE WOULD BE HOPE FOR ME AND HIM. BUT HIM THINKING HES NOT MY TYPE I KNOW MAKES HIM JUST BE LIKE FORGET IT SHE DONT EVEN LIKE ME THAT KINDA WAY. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
 
i like this guy at my school, and my friend asked him out for me and he said no. so i was sad but not like dying. and he asked me out and i fainted!!!!!!!!! now what im totally scared to talk to him. im like avoiding him should i say yes or ignore him?
 
Hey! So I'm a senior in high school, I've never been asked out or asked anyone else out. I met this guy last week who is amazing and we had an immediate connection. He goes to another school, so I really want to ask him to prom. I have an idea, but I don't know if it's too soon to ask him to prom, or if I shouldn't ask him at all.....I'm going to hang out with him next weekend and I'm planning on asking him then but I'm so nervous!!! Is it weird or awkward that I'm asking him to a formal event even though I just met him?
 
hi, i like this guy... i know he likes me cuz he stares at me ALL the times. i smile and look away. the problem is I asked him out before and he never answered...i really like him the bad part is he won't ask me out! i have been waitin for him for a while.. should i ask him out?? what should I do??!



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