I don't remember the last time anybody did a good deed to/for me but then again as one of my subordinates told me...i'm the only one out of all the people he knows who has my life and finances straight...i actually give alot of my own money away...even buy groceries for my subordinates who have kids...(these situations were already here when i came to this duty station...)i'm just trying to help alleviated the burdens while we work on more permanent solutions. everything comes easy for me but i never abuse my talents...i am a great provider and a very resourceful person. when everybody else gets "no" for an answer...i always get a "yes"... so...paying it forward is just a way of life for me... i have issues taking or receiving though...i had this person who always bugged me to hang out/party...i never did...but i dropped everything after i received one phone call requesting me to help her because her car broke down on the freeway(this was in a foreign country)... i give but i never want/expect anything in return... (more to follow on this i need to sleep...early day tomorrow...) Peace out...